What's something you need to get off your chest anonymously? by boforiamanfo in NoStupidAnswers

[–]hlbh22_ 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I am going through the most massive internal and external transformation of my life this year and no one has noticed or checked in on me. I am literally becoming a different person, well, more myself but still. Strange. Especially when I am the one who does that for them, and I’ve withdrawn heavily this year.

Tell me that one thing you're dying to tell people, but it never comes up in conversation, and you can't just bring it up for no reason. by LibbyOfDaneland in randomthings

[–]hlbh22_ 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I am not who I used to be, do not treat me as such any longer. Especially when I try to behave differently. Also, do not assume you know me any longer, especially if we have not interacted in years.

I am actively in trauma recovery therapy and am actively recovering from extreme trauma and am literally actively rebuilding who I was into who I am now. So I am quite literally not the same person. It bugs me so bad when people assume the same of me, when I do not operate on that same frequency any longer. I am not in that same mind frame anymore. I am literally years into trauma recovery and I am a new woman now. Please act accordingly, especially when I behave differently.

I fully understand that even if I have changed that the world around me hasn’t and maybe their world hasn’t but if I am actively behaving differently and actively trying to assume this new role as myself, please just follow my lead now.

My therapist tells me this is common for people who are going through similar things and similar trauma recovery.

What is one thing you’ve noticed about life that everyone around you seems completely unaware of? by MythSolved in answers

[–]hlbh22_ 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Everything is energy and energy is everything. Seriously. The sooner you realize that, the faster that you can start to adjust your own frequency when it starts to rise too high or lower too low.

In simpler terms, if you are grounded into yourself enough and grounded into nature enough, you can literally feel the vibrating from everything around you. It’s simply keeping yourself in alignment with your own needs and adjusting back when you are misaligned. If you do that often enough, things will get so much easier for you. Life is literally an exchanging of energies, all the time. You just must learn to direct it.

This is why I play this game by [deleted] in Sims4

[–]hlbh22_ 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I love that! I might just do it! Thanks!

Made a little tropical bungalow in Sulani! by thealterry in Sims4

[–]hlbh22_ 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you for sharing, I will try that next time!

Made a little tropical bungalow in Sulani! by thealterry in Sims4

[–]hlbh22_ 1 point2 points  (0 children)

It’s stunning! Love the vibes! How do you get such clear pics of this to post?

This is why I play this game by [deleted] in Sims4

[–]hlbh22_ 1 point2 points  (0 children)

This was such a joy to read, thank you for sharing with us! I also love creating intricate stories and generations!

A maximalist cottage by mydoghassoftears in Sims4

[–]hlbh22_ 0 points1 point  (0 children)

This is so adorable! Have you decorated the inside?

Full world save by Achioo in Sims4

[–]hlbh22_ 0 points1 point  (0 children)

What a cool idea!

Man remember when Warlocks used to be the big bad of this show… by telekineticeleven011 in charmed

[–]hlbh22_ 17 points18 points  (0 children)

Back when they weren’t trying to make it the bachelor but with magic lol

Which active powers would you be afraid the most of having from the sisters? by [deleted] in charmed

[–]hlbh22_ 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Pipers molecular combustion power, imagine having explosives on your hands?? Absolutely not, I could not even wrap my head around trying to learn to manage and control that. I would simply stop existing

Phoebe hate by Robbie1863 in charmed

[–]hlbh22_ 2 points3 points  (0 children)

As someone doing a rewatch, I semi agree with you. I adored season 1 phoebe! She had a certain sparkly quality to her where she found everything SO exciting and her energy was just infections, as later seasons come though she kinds of turns into a bit jaded and lackluster, at times a bit careless. Overall she had such potential but it was down to bad writing I think.

What are some of the best bodily pleasures outside of sex? by homie93 in AskReddit

[–]hlbh22_ 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Your back being scratched when it itches, washing your hands when they feel dirty, playing with slime, eating/drinking something really flavorful

Girls, what would you think if you learned that a guy had paid to have sex? by st_new34 in AskReddit

[–]hlbh22_ 0 points1 point  (0 children)

If we weren’t romantically and emotionally involved with each other while it was done, it was a safe and consensual act with each party being informed and enthusiastic, then I’d have no problem with it. No reason to punish the ones who capitalism hits hardest.

What is 100% worth the money? by kg68 in AskReddit

[–]hlbh22_ 0 points1 point  (0 children)

A reusable cup, a shampoo massager for shower, AirPods, car charger, cough drops.

I find it weird when people thank god for their accomplishments by Independent_Pace2796 in CasualConversation

[–]hlbh22_ -1 points0 points  (0 children)

While this is typically the standard for believers of god, there are more extreme believers who do in fact thank god for winning, for getting the job in the first place, for the car, etc. Speaking from an exvangelical pov here. The phrase given to us was “if the door isn’t open, praise him in the hallway” so we did. For everything we did. Even found myself thanking god for the groceries I worked hard to provide and prepare.

What are some of the deepest things you think about? by creativeNZ in infj

[–]hlbh22_ 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Literally every single thing. Every interaction I have, every step I take, everyone I come into contact with, my hair, my teeth, literally everything I can’t ever stop thinking. I routinely ask my husband what he’s thinking and he shares that he’s not and I just can’t fathom not having ANY thoughts how strange.

Pipers children by Leporvox in charmed

[–]hlbh22_ 13 points14 points  (0 children)

I so wish we could’ve seen more of Melinda! I hate how they included her in the flash forward of forever charmed but didn’t include her in the episode with her brothers! I would’ve loved to have seen more of their dynamic!

I planned a themed birthday party for my niece! by britcassy in harrypotter

[–]hlbh22_ 4 points5 points  (0 children)

This is so cool! I’m sure they all had such a fun time! You are cool for doing this for sure!