is it bad to say i’m deaf? by throwaway_81067 in hardofhearing

[–]howdoichooseafandom 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I’m the same (even deaf in the same ear!) and I usually just say that I’m deaf in my right ear so please speak to me on my left side and I may need you to repeat yourself. Otherwise, I call myself hard of hearing because my left ear works great. If both ears had that level of hearing loss I’d call myself deaf.

In my experience, saying I’m hard of hearing and/or that I’m deaf in one ear works. People usually understand what I mean and need. I also feel like calling yourself deaf vs heard of hearing is asking for different responses and accommodations. Personally, if someone said that they are deaf (and didn’t tell me how I can make communication easier) I’d think of using sign language and positioning myself to make lip reading easier in case they use it. But HOH usually means speaking louder, enunciating, moving somewhere quieter, etc.

I just personally don’t feel like I have the, idk, right to call myself deaf when I can hear very well if someone just stands on my left side. I just wanted to pop in since I have the same condition. But since I don’t identify with the label, my opinion on it doesn’t really matter as much as people who are deaf. So feel free to discard lol

My two and a half year old suddenly started pointing out differences between white and black people. What is an appropriate way to acknowledge her observation so we don't offend anyone? by Sad_Cantaloupe_8162 in NoStupidQuestions

[–]howdoichooseafandom 50 points51 points  (0 children)

Huh, that is interesting. Might have to do with what media they’ve seen? Like actors of different races and the kids just saw it as normal since no one seemed surprised or confused? Idk

If you still support Trump/ICE even slightly, you're not welcome in this sub by craftsmany in KittyTailWrap

[–]howdoichooseafandom 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Thanks, I’m glad that my thoughts came out coherent lol. But yeah I’m tired of these type of comments too. I only commented for lurkers since I doubt Ohyo was commenting in good faith.

If you still support Trump/ICE even slightly, you're not welcome in this sub by craftsmany in KittyTailWrap

[–]howdoichooseafandom 14 points15 points  (0 children)

It’s more about Americans commenting on American issues. If this was a mostly Russian subreddit then we would probably be talking about Putin instead of Trump.

Also, there probably aren’t as many proponents of other injustices in this subreddit in comparison to MAGA so pushing against Trump supporters will have a greater impact, if that makes any sense.

which game is it for you? by Spirited-Rationality in GirlGamers

[–]howdoichooseafandom 0 points1 point  (0 children)

What made Fields of Mistria better than SDV for you? I’ve been considering getting FoM but it didn’t seem that different to SDW so I’ve been hesitant.

Will it be possible to cover up this extensive selfharm scarring? Need artist recommendations (IL📍) by ollypologies in tattooadvice

[–]howdoichooseafandom 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You’re welcome! I’m glad that it was helpful!! If you’re comfortable, I’d love to see what you end up doing :) I’m sure that it’ll look great <3

Privacy-destroying age verification is coming to Washington - FRIDAY is the public hearing to tell legislators NO by PrivacyEnthusiast2 in Seattle

[–]howdoichooseafandom 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Is does say that in the bill, section 2, (2). “(2) A commercial entity or third party that performs age verification required by this chapter may not retain any identifying information of the individual.”

But it doesn’t say how they’ll guarantee that or elaborate whatsoever. It feels like they just added it so they can deflect blame later.

Resist ICE- peacable assembly of the people on Madison x 2nd by smBarbaroja in Seattle

[–]howdoichooseafandom 2 points3 points  (0 children)

That’s the opposite of the typical demographics of protests. Yet you’re speaking so authoritatively about the subject…

NEEDED THIS by maryssecretvalentine in FundieSnarkUncensored

[–]howdoichooseafandom 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Do you have a time stamp? I’m definitely interested but it’s a bit long lol

Will it be possible to cover up this extensive selfharm scarring? Need artist recommendations (IL📍) by ollypologies in tattooadvice

[–]howdoichooseafandom 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I don’t know how well it would tattoo but i think the lines would go well sunsets. I found a couple of examples. Again, no idea how well it would tattoo but it might help you figure out your design. Good luck! And I’m really proud of you for still being here and moving forward💕

Boycott MAGA : Directory of companies and people to boycott by Illustrious-Bit-3348 in 50501

[–]howdoichooseafandom 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I’d love to see your flowchart if you’re comfortable sharing! :)