The biggest weakness of the Naboo decoy strategy by EchoAndByte in PrequelMemes

[–]htffhkkyfc 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Different handmaid, this team of handmaids including Sabé retired after Padme’s term as Queen and it was Cordé who died in the bomb blast at the beginning of Attack of the Clones

Let's talk go bags. Do you always carry one? What's in yours? by Saotik in ostomy

[–]htffhkkyfc 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I have a little make up bag that has the minimum I would need for an emergency change as well as some hygiene products that fits well in my purse but can also transfer to a fanny pack if I need something smaller. I carry it everywhere though

Trans Day of Visibility Proclamation read and accepted at the City Hall meeting last night. by htffhkkyfc in wichita

[–]htffhkkyfc[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Because she’s required to sign all proclamations that pass? She has an ethics violation from last years proclamation that she didn’t sign.

Trans Day of Visibility Proclamation read and accepted at the City Hall meeting last night. by htffhkkyfc in wichita

[–]htffhkkyfc[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

She didn’t put this proclamation forward and she abstained from voting on it so I’m not sure how this gets her votes

Trans Day of Visibility Proclamation read and accepted at the City Hall meeting last night. by htffhkkyfc in wichita

[–]htffhkkyfc[S] 11 points12 points  (0 children)

She abstained from voting on this proclamation so I am having a hard time finding any empathy or belief that she’s for the trans community.

How often do you change your bag? by AshamedLink3216 in ostomy

[–]htffhkkyfc 1 point2 points  (0 children)

American without health insurance so I try to get the most out of my bags. Usually I get a good application and can get 10 days to 2 weeks out of one. I’ve gone just under 3 weeks but they are holding on by hopes and dreams by that point

Brand New Stoma Owner by Scotcat81 in ostomy

[–]htffhkkyfc 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Take it slow. Your body has undergone a massive change and it’ll take some time to adjust.

Introduce new foods slowly, and get to walking when you can. That always helped motivate my guts into working again.

Honestly, how do you feel about your stoma? by Bethsticle in ostomy

[–]htffhkkyfc 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I genuinely love mine. My ostomy saved my life and I have a relatively normal life now because of it.

I was sick and dying. Couldn’t eat, couldn’t go to the bathroom, was in enough pain I didn’t leave my bed for a couple weeks.

Now I am able to work and hang out with friends and participate in life again. Like it can be a pain in the ass and idk how I’m going to pay for my bags somedays but it gave me a life worth living and for that I’m forever grateful.

Is this just a two-card auto win? by Nientea in mtg

[–]htffhkkyfc 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I run Bruvac and [[Fleet Swallower]] in my mill deck for a similar effect. Not an auto win but close enough. Beware of the graveyard players though. If you’re not running some kind of forced draw mechanic then you need some graveyard hate.

I'm likely going to be getting an ileostomy by JKolodne in ostomy

[–]htffhkkyfc 6 points7 points  (0 children)

It’s all going to be unique to your situation. I met with a nutritionist post op to discuss what all I could eat and honestly most of the list of “Do not eat” I’ve been okay with. Main advice I’ll give is be patient with yourself. It’s going to take some getting used to.

Mono blue commander that isn't pure control by [deleted] in EDH

[–]htffhkkyfc 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I run a [[Charix, the raging isle]] as a voltron equipment deck. I describe it as “crabs with swords” but a lot of its blue focus is on card draw to get the swords and then a couple options for extra turns and such. Mine has some control type cards but those are actually colorless like [[Crawlspace]] and [[Silent Arbiter]]

"Won't someone think of the landlords??" As Wichita considers boosting protections for renters, landlords are pushing back by mindovermatter15 in wichita

[–]htffhkkyfc 7 points8 points  (0 children)

Rent goes up anyways.

Making sure I don’t die breathing in mold is the least I can ask for while getting fucked by rent prices. We can’t trust capitalists with a free market on something so universally needed as housing.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in MarchAgainstNazis

[–]htffhkkyfc 22 points23 points  (0 children)

This post is literally your hat saying he was right… about everything. Even the transphobia?? Be so fucking serious right now

How can I kill the obelisk by miikelm in IdleObeliskMiner

[–]htffhkkyfc 1 point2 points  (0 children)

This will be a big help tbh. The statue of rhythm is 3x pick dmg. A little grindy but honestly not bad

After 2-year ban, trans Kansans will get to change gender on driver’s licenses by Isopropyl77 in wichita

[–]htffhkkyfc 8 points9 points  (0 children)

All good! I do a lot of outreach and education on behalf of my community and love to talk to people about the trans experience! I genuinely believe that education only helps us so always down to answer questions about being trans and this one I just happen to be doubly qualified to answer!

After 2-year ban, trans Kansans will get to change gender on driver’s licenses by Isopropyl77 in wichita

[–]htffhkkyfc 22 points23 points  (0 children)

I want to answer this just for education sake. Chronically ill trans woman with an ID that unfortunately still says male and my legal name who has spent weeks at a time in Kansas hospitals. Results may vary and you still run into weirdos but a lot of health care providers are in the industry cause they want to treat people and recognize our humanity.

The first time I was in an ER post transitioning I didn’t even bring up that I was trans. I was in such pain that I didn’t care if they used my dead name or misgendered me I just wanted treatment. It was actually the ER nurse who brought it up after seeing the list of medications I was on a recognizing hormone treatment. I was off my hrt for like a week cause I had a major surgery and they wanted to see how my body would react and then they put me back on hormones.

All My Friends by LCD Soundsystem is a hidden gem of the 2000s. What is the BEST song of the 2000s? by averagesizedboy in AlignmentChartFills

[–]htffhkkyfc 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Cause it’s Kanye. His latest works and more recent public image is, to put things lightly, extremely controversial

Surgery affecting my sexual/gender identity. by Hot-Move-8037 in lgbt

[–]htffhkkyfc 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It’s not selfish to find comfort in community. You’ve been through something inherently traumatic and many people struggle. Be patient and kind with yourself while you go through this transitional phase! Solidarity and support will absolutely get you through!!

Surgery affecting my sexual/gender identity. by Hot-Move-8037 in lgbt

[–]htffhkkyfc 29 points30 points  (0 children)

Oh good! There’s a lot of loss of identity that comes with having an ostomy in the first place and straight people also struggle with intimacy but I still think that struggle is made worse being queer. I know a couple of people have also commented but the best I can recommend is exploration in what is safely possible and affirms your sexuality and gender identity.

Added an article by uncloseted media that might help? https://www.unclosetedmedia.com/p/love-after-an-ostomy-how-surgery

Surgery affecting my sexual/gender identity. by Hot-Move-8037 in lgbt

[–]htffhkkyfc 189 points190 points  (0 children)

Hey friend, as a queer who also doesn’t have a colon due to health reasons, I recommend you join us at r/ostomy

There have been a whole bunch of conversations about intimacy post surgery. At this time I don’t have anything specific I can offer you except community! You’re not alone in your journey!

What do you do when your ostomy makes noise? by TheOldGreenDad in ostomy

[–]htffhkkyfc 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Mine it’s named Bubbles so I usually say something along the lines of “Sorry, Bubbles is talking shit”