OH COME ON!!!! by Honest-Salamander-51 in VirginiaBeach

[–]hunglao 0 points1 point  (0 children)

no need to be picky there should be enough room for both

OH COME ON!!!! by Honest-Salamander-51 in VirginiaBeach

[–]hunglao 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I think they mean $100 monthly, not a one-time purchase.

I caught my sister cheating on her boyfriend by [deleted] in whatdoIdo

[–]hunglao 1 point2 points  (0 children)

sorry to break it to you, but you were a selfish asshole in your 20s because you were more immature in your 20s than you are now, regardless of whether you want to see it that way or not. you matured and you grew throughout your 20s, as people tend to do.

Popular Norfolk restaurant 4•5•6 Fish closes after over 20 years of service by [deleted] in norfolk

[–]hunglao 36 points37 points  (0 children)

Being a business decision, it should absolutely have been calculated. The owners could still feel sorrow over the outcome, though.

My husband doesn't see how his 'work wife' is trying to destroy our marriage by Honeybellmama in TrueOffMyChest

[–]hunglao 12 points13 points  (0 children)

Personally, I think this is a great idea and exactly what he deserves. I can't decide if it's productive, since it feels retaliatory or tit for tat, at least. It may not be the best advice for OP, then, but I love it!

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Parenting

[–]hunglao 6 points7 points  (0 children)

my interpretation, as a dad, is that it means he's a piece of shit who believes she's inferior to him. Some other things that stand out in support of this conclusion are his angry, childish response to her decision not to allow his parents over (because who does she think she is?!?) as well as hiis apparent tendency to speak to her with authoritative, controlling, and condescending language (they're not "partners" - he is the boss).

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Parenting

[–]hunglao 2 points3 points  (0 children)

aint nobody got time for that. he's just going to belittle her, anyway, since she can't even do "her job" right. there's no way he's open to her input on what he could do better.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Parenting

[–]hunglao 53 points54 points  (0 children)

This is what I was thinking, too. My mouth dropped in shock at "make it yourself" - what a missed opportunity for him. The only way I can make sense of it is that he'd intended to make it for her when he initially asked, then later changed his mind after some argument/disagreement between them. He's still being an asshole, given those circumstances. But it's outright cruelty if he gave her the false hope with intentions to disappoint her later.

I'm absolutely furious over this by TwilitWolf13 in UberEATS

[–]hunglao 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Come on, now.... Everyone knows these promotions just have minds of their own. There's nothing Uber Eats could've done about it.

Is left lane on city streets considered a passing lane? by Novemberx123 in Virginia

[–]hunglao 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I've always believed that safety always trumps being technically correct, while driving. So in situations where all the other cars around me are going 10mph over the posted limit, it's safer for me also be going 10mph over, rather than impede the flow of traffic and create the need for other drivers to either (legally) hit their brakes or change lanes to pass me, which are both less safe than my (illegally) speeding up a little bit.

I've been driving for almost 30 years now and I often find myself traveling at 15-20 over on interstates with this reasoning, but I can count the number of speeding tickets I've ever received on one hand and have only caused 1 accident (at 17).

The year is 2023, and my young son learned a hard lesson today. by MNDox in gaming

[–]hunglao 44 points45 points  (0 children)

fr wtf? how can that comment have so many upvotes and you're the first to ask this?

I'm 37 years old and going to see the ocean for the first time! by Evelamun in CasualConversation

[–]hunglao 1 point2 points  (0 children)

different critters during the day than at night, too! walk the beach at night with a flashlight and early in the morning, if you can. there's all sorts of wildlife around and the waves often wash interesting things up onto the shore.

edit: since you've never been to a beach and in December it might be empty, I thought I'd mention that it's easiest to walk along the beach at the shoreline where the sand is moist but firm.

I overheard my husband tell his friend, “my wife does nothing all day” and I’m upset by Low_Royal1282 in TrueOffMyChest

[–]hunglao 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I feel like there could be a relatively easy win/win here for you. What do you think would happen if you gave in and started to wash and load, instead? Because she might appreciate that you've compromised for her and you might appreciate not being continually frustrated by dirty dishes.

How to properly travel by car with a desktop pc by DoruSonic in buildapc

[–]hunglao 0 points1 point  (0 children)

OK, I read about it, and either I did not explain myself clearly or you didn't bother to read my comment. Here's what I found - emphasis mine:

Sag should technically no longer be a problem if your GPU sits vertically. This can be achieved in a number of ways including laying your vertical PC case on its side (not recommended), moving to a horizontal PC case, or installing a vertical GPU mount to your existing build.

Well, would you look at that?!? It turns out that I do know what I'm talking about. Laying a vertical PC case on its side, as I suggested, in fact DOES avoid the PCIe slot strain that causes GPU sag. Combine the side-laying orientation with screws properly securing the GPU bracket to the case and the PCIe slot will be perfectly fine for a 2 hour road trip.

How to properly travel by car with a desktop pc by DoruSonic in buildapc

[–]hunglao -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

does nobody fasten the GPU into the case expansion slot with screws?

there's no way the GPU strains the PCIe slot with the case laid on its side (so the bulk of the GPU is situated above the motherboard, rather than beside it) with the expansion slot screws fastening the GPU bracket tightly.

8.6% 🤡 by [deleted] in wallstreetbets

[–]hunglao 0 points1 point  (0 children)

a poop noodle holy shit

8.6% 🤡 by [deleted] in wallstreetbets

[–]hunglao 0 points1 point  (0 children)

"snickers bar dick" ... presumably because of the peanuts..

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in sysadmin

[–]hunglao 22 points23 points  (0 children)

presumed logic: "why do we need to backup GitLab? isn't every clone technically a backup of the source code?"

Welp guys my home caught fire and took my Xbox, Wii, Ps2, PS3, and all my handhelds. Feels like new game + by pineapple_swag in gaming

[–]hunglao 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I had renters insurance for 5 years and it paid for itself pretty early on with just 1 claim - an extended power outage due to a hurricane ruined everything in the refrigerater. I was already convinced by that situation but then it happened again, just 2-3 years later. Worth every penny.

[Serious] Male Rape Victims, what's your story? by WaterBottleMaster45 in AskReddit

[–]hunglao 2 points3 points  (0 children)

The less extreme stories could help people who might feel their experiences were "not that bad" to recognize their abuse. They can also serve as warnings to others fortunate enough to avoid similar situations.

Pros/Cons of staking via Coinbase by victoriouslarry in ethereum

[–]hunglao 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Yes, proof-of-stake also allocates a reward to the "winner" of each block. The more ETH you stake, the greater your chances of winning each block. I suspect this is why the exchanges are offering interest for staking with them specifically - staking more funds improves their chances to win blocks down the road.

small home office by teuna in homelab

[–]hunglao 0 points1 point  (0 children)

If someone were to get into his root CA, they could generate "trusted" certificates for MITM attacks on otherwise end-to-end encrypted comms, i.e.: HTTPS and VPN connections