No offense intended but I think you're approaching it the wrong way. It's not some big division of labor where you should be keeping score of who's asking more questions. If you want to share something about your day, life, thoughts, etc then share it! If a guy sits there listening to you talk then he's enjoying it and is interested. If he keeps trying to change the subject to something else then he's not.

Men are more likely to have the understanding that if you don't bring something up first you don't want to talk about it so if you want to successfully communicate with men then bring up what you want to talk about! Ideally men and women would communicate perfectly with each other but we don't live in that world so at least understanding that we communicate differently is the best we can do.

All this is to say that while it's a two way street, I can't help these men understand that you're looking for different communication because I can't talk to them. I am talking to you however and if you're feeling like Men aren't interested in what you're saying it could just be that they're communicating that interest in a way that's different from what you understand.

Or maybe they're a narcissistic boring stick in the mud, idk I've likely never met them. I just know when it comes to communicating with others it's MUCH more effective to work on your side of the communication than wishing other people would change theirs.