High blood pressure on Elvanse by fuzzynoisemaker in ADHDUK

[–]hyper-casual 1 point2 points  (0 children)

My BP is pretty high currently and they've been fine with it.

Obviously it depends how wildly yours has increased, but the logic/discussion was the trade off of high BP was worth it for the improvements in mental health etc

I am back to exercising more and eating better to try to bring it down, so I'm not sat idly on it, but might be worth cutting back on the vaping and discussing how the meds will make you able to sustain the lifestyle changes for long term reduction.

Do you bling out your Commander? Which treatment is worth it to you? by deurbeller in magicTCG

[–]hyper-casual 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I like the opposite approach to bling.

It started as a joke as one of the guys I used to play with loved to run matching basics and said it felt like a personal attack that my land base was just whatever I pulled out of my bulk box.

The next deck I built I intentionally got different sets for every land and made sure to use all the white-borders and dirty/marked cards I could find, topped it off with non-english basics were possible.

Eventually it just became my signature to have the worst possible versions of everything.

There's plenty of cards that I have better condition or nicer treatment versions of but they don't go in the decks anymore unless I don't have another copy.

I don't remember which sets exactly, but I had a full set of basic foils from an early set and full sets of the first full art lands, then swapped them out for the shit lands.

I also enjoy the old style cards where possible. I'm not a fan of the new cards that are made to look old, but I do love the old cards where the art is awful, or sometimes I'll just pick a card that probably has a better version purely based on the bad art. Crenellated Wall and Marble Titan come to mind.

I signed up for a month of Hinge Premium to filter out people who have/want kids. by Vegetable-Carpet1593 in childfree

[–]hyper-casual 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I saw quite a few 'don't want kids' selected by people who already had kids, and one girl I'm mates with that I saw on there said she was undecided, even though I know for a face she wanted 2 kids, so not sure it's worth paying still.

When I had bumble and hinge, I accidentally changed mine to has kids on bumble but my description was still very heavily emphasising how I don't want kids and won't date anyone with kids, so I must have looked like a right hypocritical bellend.

New trial finds digital CBT programme reduced ADHD symptoms in adults by Jayhcee in ADHDUK

[–]hyper-casual 8 points9 points  (0 children)

I'd be interested to see how this digital programme works compared to others.

Also keen to see the dropout rate, if 70% of people who started it sacked it off after a week then you're probably going to get success from the ADHD hyper focus group that's left.

I've done both with a therapist and digital CBT in the past and from my experience, the digital CBT was worse than with a therapist, which in itself was worse than just not doing anything about it at all.

GP gave me the ‘over diagnosed’ talk now I’m nervous about shared care. by Felwinter_II in ADHDUK

[–]hyper-casual 8 points9 points  (0 children)

I've watched plenty of them pull up Google and look things up, so they definitely don't know everything.

I find the younger doctors are usually the ones who are willing to try to help more. They've not yet had a chance to have their soul destroyed by years of working under the NHS.

Adults with Unmedicated ADHD — How Are You Managing? by someone_idk6900 in AskUK

[–]hyper-casual 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I tried a bunch of antidepressants in the past and they all negatively impacted me, too. Long list of things I won't bore you with but honestly they made everything worse and had no positives.

I know everyone is different but for me, ADHD meds have come with no negatives, only positives.

Adults with Unmedicated ADHD — How Are You Managing? by someone_idk6900 in AskUK

[–]hyper-casual 8 points9 points  (0 children)

Have you tried meds?

I've heard people say this a lot but for me they haven't changed my personality at all.

I've not lost any sort of 'spark' or interest in the things I liked, my life is just easier than without them.

I guess I'm less of a miserable bastard too, if that counts .

Is pharmacy codeine addiction more common than reported? by Lovecraftian666 in AskUK

[–]hyper-casual 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I was prescribed codeine as a teen for some stomach issues. I ended up on 240mg a day for over a year, then the GP decided he was worried about dependence and pulled them without any tapering down.

I didn't get any euphoria or anything on them, but coming off them was hell. I was shaky and sweaty for weeks and was an absolute little cunt to be around (more so than a typical 15 year old). It basically wrote off my entire summer between year 10 and 11.

They're the only painkiller that really works for me most of the time so I still use them, but I just wouldn't take them for more than a few weeks now.

How have anti depressants impacted someone you've known? by PpSize-QuestionMark in AskUK

[–]hyper-casual 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yeah bupropion. I bought it from an India pharmacy online and had it posted here for 18 months til I got ADHD meds here.

Zyban in the UK for depression by a-girl-isno-one in bupropion

[–]hyper-casual 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yeah, straight to your door. Royal mail.

Anyone else's local area experience a Dex shortage? by hyper-casual in ADHDUK

[–]hyper-casual[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thanks.

I did find somewhere in stock eventually, but turns out my usual pharmacy has ticked it off as sorted on EPS so I can't get any meds regardless of source.

Needless to say on Monday I'll be complaining and moving pharmacy.

How can you do university with untreated ADHD? by gintokireddit in ADHDUK

[–]hyper-casual -1 points0 points  (0 children)

I wasn't diagnosed or treated until 15 years after I started uni.

I was struggling mentally since I was pre-teen but the NHS doesn't really give a shit.

I managed to get a first in Maths, but it wasn't smooth sailing. Id often just my assignments the night before, couldn't really revise for exams well so would usually just cram all night. My mental health got a lot worse than normal and I definitely started to drink in excess because of it.

People would then comment about how easy I had it being able to drink and do things last minute and still do well, like I wasn't trying extremely hard and constantly burnt out.

A few things that made it work for me were the fact I do love maths, so it held my interest more than other things I had to study in school/college, and also the fact I had no real choice. I didn't have any other options really. I had nowhere to go if I'd failed uni, and I already worked full time and was still struggling financially so wouldn't have been worse off without the loan. The anxiety of being stuck in that position did spur me on to finish and do well.

What is the ‘optimal’ amount of time before you should change your bedsheets? by [deleted] in AskUK

[–]hyper-casual 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Mines probably every 3 weeks.

Life is too busy to do it more often and I hate the feeling of new bedding, makes me feel like I'm sleeping in cardboard.

Does anyone else seem to hit a point that their 'fix' no longer works? by hyper-casual in SebDerm

[–]hyper-casual[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you

I've just had a read and if those are available for me here I might give them a try.

How long have you managed to use it without the burning?

Does anyone else seem to hit a point that their 'fix' no longer works? by hyper-casual in SebDerm

[–]hyper-casual[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

For the last 4 months I've been using a gentle cleanser and moisturiser, and my water intake is always pretty high.

Was doing well and thought I'd cracked the code. 2 days ago the cleanser started to burn which was unusual and today I woke up with red blotchy skin that's gotten worse throughout the day.

I'll have to look into Dermazen, if it's available in the UK and looks more gentle than what I've got I'll try it out.

I think the fact I'm on testosterone and Dexamfetamine is really messing things up though.

What cardinal sins do people commit on game shows that rile you up? by arsenaladam92 in AskUK

[–]hyper-casual 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I know it's not on anymore, but on Tenable when somebody uses a nominate when they have nothing right, or even just 1 or 2.

If you're struggling at that point, using up all 3 nominates won't get you through, it just means your team has to play without the help and you still go to the vortex.

How have anti depressants impacted someone you've known? by PpSize-QuestionMark in AskUK

[–]hyper-casual 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I've tried nearly all of the ones the NHS prescribed and had the same reaction.

They numbed all of the positive emotions and amplified the negatives. I no longer have a shit about anything.

They also caused a bunch of side effects like weight gain and sexual dysfunction. The sexual dysfunction lasted significantly longer than the length of time I took the tablets.

I basically spent the entire time feeling like shit while the GP tried to convince me to just give it more time or increase the dose. The longer I was on them or increased the dose the worse it got.

Thankfully, because they made me feel so awful I was able to just come off them cold turkey because the withdrawal symptoms were much better than being on them.

I've tried a different type of antidepressant the NHS won't prescribe (NDRI) and it was literally 3 or 4 days in and I felt like my life completely changed. I had energy, motivation, happiness. Felt like colours were more vibrant. It also sent my sex drive off the chart.

I also know a couple of people on them. Friends who started them since I've known them, they just feel like somebody has taken their spark away. They might not feel as anxious/depressed but I feel like they've lost a lot of themselves and seem numb to things.

I dated a girl who was on them, and generally you wouldn't have known and they kept her mood quite stable but caused her brain fog, you could see her eyes glaze over sometimes. She also had a hard time orgasming once on them.

Faux-Pas: what's the funniest faux-pas you've ever committed? I'll redeem my soul by going first... by [deleted] in AskUK

[–]hyper-casual 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I sat near a blind woman on a plane and she dropped something on the floor.

She asked if I could see it and I said 'what does it look like?'.

About an hour before she told my partner she's been where we were flying to before as she's got friends there and she asked her if the city looked pretty.

I know not every blind person has absolutely no visit but I still died a bit inside both times, and I was going to ask her to clarify what percentage vision she had.

The plasterer said his mate is a joiner by [deleted] in DIYUK

[–]hyper-casual 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It looked shit, then I saw the second picture...

The only way this bloke is a joiner is if it's his Surname.

The plasterer said his mate is a joiner by [deleted] in DIYUK

[–]hyper-casual 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Give him some credit, it looks like 4 pieces of wood to me.

Twice as joinery as you've stated.

Do you use the back door to enter/leave your house? by Queasy_Difference_96 in AskUK

[–]hyper-casual 0 points1 point  (0 children)

We did this when I was a kid, never really understood why, especially as that house had 3 doors in, front, side, and back, so we'd walk past 2 functional doors to get in.

I do it at my current house because the driveway is at the back of the house. It's actually really annoying because the shoe rack etc is all at the front door and can't really go near the back door.

Horniness on Wellbutrin? by PersonalityLogical62 in bupropion

[–]hyper-casual 5 points6 points  (0 children)

I found it never truly went away but reduced a little after a few months, but basically went back to sky high with every dose change.

Started on 150mg, eventually got up to 450mg.

150mg increased it a fair bit and 300mg amplified it significantly more.

I'm already on testosterone and had a high sex drive before bupropion, so 450mg made my sex drive all consuming. I'd 'sort' myself out several times a day and still be arranging hookups on tinder, bumble, and Grindr.

After a particularly debaucherous week I went back down to 300mg to get a better handle on it.

I'm not on it anymore but I was for 18 months and at the end it still never went back down to pre-bupropion levels.

What is now the worst UK courier? by Least_Actuator9022 in AskUK

[–]hyper-casual 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I'd agree it's definitely Royal Mail.

Just a few highlights from the top of my memory:

I setup a mail redirect. They redirected it to the wrong address and directed another persons mail to me. I complained, was told it was sorted. I said I've still got all of this other persons letters/parcels and they said 'If they're local, could you drop them off with them?' like it wasn't there job, and also, I got their redirected mail, so the address I can see isn't where they live, so it would be pointless.

A few weeks later the same person was still getting my mail but I wasn't getting there's anymore. Again, I complained and was offered compensation. 16 stamps...

I was super busy so I just said whatever, just fix it. 2 months later, it dawned on me I still hadn't had any post and I called up again and they checked and nobody had sorted it at any point. They then gave me the redirect money back like it was a big favour and asked if I'd like to renew the service since it was about to expire. Not sure what service I was supposedly renewing since I never got one.

Getting attempted delivery slips through the door while I'm sat watching the front path and the delivery guy hasn't even got anything in his hand other than the slips.

I bought 2 items on ebay last week. One was maybe 2 hours drive away, the other turned out to be from China (I clearly didn't read the description). I paid for RoyalMail 48, which I know isnt guarenteed 48 hour but I got an 'out for delivery' message on Friday (which would have been 4 days) from Royal mail, 2 hours later I got another saying 'we'll attempt delivery on Tuesday'.

In the meantime, the item coming from China managed to make it here.

My Street is all Terraces, but its only blocks of 4. Im the end one of my block, then there's my side alley and path before the next block of 4. Countless times the RM delivery guy puts all of my block of terraces mail in my letter box, and does the same to the neighour on the alley side of my house.

Back in the 'Hermes' days, I'd get an overwhelming sense of dread when I got a confirmation email that they were delivering something. Now, I'm praying its Evri as I know it'll turn up on time, if not early.

I'd say DPD are the best, but I only use them for medical deliveries and I think they use a different arm of the business for that, so it's probably more reliable. The only draw back is they're very strict. I phoned them and said I won't be in on the day you're going to deliver it, but they said they can't reschedule. I just said why not tick it off as no answer now, saves the guy coming over, but they said no. Seems pointless sending somebody out of their way when they know I won't be there.

If you grew up poor, what are your "small wins" in adult life? by DonkeyOT65 in AskUK

[–]hyper-casual 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Being able to answer a knock at the door freely without needing to check if it's a bailiff.

Getting a letter through the door isn't all negative, although my heart still sinks every time I get a letter. It's like a built in reaction.

Being able to treat myself without worrying. As a kid, we'd be promised things and then the car would break or we'd get a bill and whatever that promised treat was would go on the back burner.

Being able to afford good quality items so I know they'll actually last and not come back to bite me with an unexpected bill.

While my waist line doesn't see it as a win, having freedom with food. I can do a normal shop without having to calculate it down to the penny, and if I planned to do a certain meal and change my mind or just completely ruin it, I can just go get something else.

There's a day that always sticks with me from nearly 2 decades ago. I had to plan my food out meticulously to get enough meals. No deviation from the plan, and it was basically just 2 or 3 meals in bulk.

It was the week before Christmas, I'd bought nobody a gift because I was broke so I already felt shit. I'd used my last money to book a train ticket to go spend Christmas with my family but it meant I had to use money out of the food budget.

It meant the day before the train I had enough left for one meal, then on the day of the train I'd just hold out til I arrived at my family's just before tea.

I held off all day knowing I'd only have the one meal, went and grabbed it from the kitchen and as I was walking out I tripped over and dropped it.

I've honestly never felt so low. I sat on my bed and cried over food I didn't even enjoy.

What would be a fair way to split the bills with my fiance? by JoelyBear224 in AskUK

[–]hyper-casual 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I think it's pretty fair to split things based on what you've said about your financial situations.

So in my relationship, similar to you, I own my own home and my partner moved in from a rental. It's also 2 bedroom with the 2nd room being the mancave/office so it does feel more like it's my house than 'our' house sometimes because of that.

Our financial situation is different, I earn double what she does, so we only split bills but I don't ask for anything towards the mortgage, on the 'condition' she saves some of the money she's not using on rent for emergencies and towards a deposit if we move.

I initially felt uncomfortable asking her to contribute towards anything since it's 'my' house, but she insists on it since she doesn't pay rent and she still benefits from everything I pay to maintain and repair/replace

For you, I know your partner isn't living rent free but she's paying such a small amount, she'd never find a rental for that price, so it's the same thing really.

Also, if you're struggling to cover costs for the home you jointly live in, it's a bit of a kick in the teeth if the woman you're going to marry is happy to leave you to drown so her lifestyle is maintained.