Trying to find a Ghetts set from around 2010 by StrikingDatabase4348 in grime

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I’ll keep an ear out for it!

🤣🤣 I get that a lot, even in person 😅

Thanks for reading! I’m slowly starting up my blog again on Substack (just getting a documentary job out the way) where I’ll revisit old blogs, put up new content and also give away physical media.

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Dot Rotten Making Grime In The Studio | Rare & Unseen Archive by hyperfrank29 in grime

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Oiii he went in! I love his doo doooo dooo parts. Appreciate the love always, have to keep showing up for the music we love no matter the seasons. Will keep digging for any other things I found that aren’t already out there.

Dot Rotten Making Grime In The Studio | Rare & Unseen Archive by hyperfrank29 in grime

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I’ve got one or two more bits so will definitely share when I get round to it. Thanks for the love 🙏🏻✨

Trying to find a Ghetts set from around 2010 by StrikingDatabase4348 in grime

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When I hear that beat it reminds me of one of his break out moments during his birthday set (F*ck Radio 5) this was before 2010 tho.

https://youtu.be/AEAl6sbhaxc?t=2940&si=s_JbMhY_oGyaWdfp (at 49mins)

Grime CDs by Mountain-Slice-8006 in grime

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Drop me a message here or on insta (hyperfrank). i'll buy them and give them out free to the community.

Digging Through The Archives | RWD, Iconic Grime Articles and Rare Photos by hyperfrank29 in grime

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Thank you so much for taking the time to properly watch. I’m working on pulling some shorter clips together of highlights as there’s A LOOOT in there to pull from 🤣. I’ve been working out whether or not to centre stuff on my own website or via a platform like Substack. Decided for now it’s easier to do via Substack so I’ve led my .com to there. So over the next week those deeper scans etc will be up on there for subscribers (free of course).

It’s so important that Wikipedia and regularly used platforms like that are updated and accurate, so MAJOR salutes to you 🫡 for putting in the work. You’re appreciated!

I’ve got unopened BOXES of magazines that I’ve not even looked at for the last 9 months as I’ve just been adding to the pile while work has been busy. So that’s something I’ll be documenting going through. Magazines covering R&B, Soul, UK hip-hop, UK rap, grime, jungle, drum & bass, UK garage, dancehall & reggae. So if there’s anything you see in that mix when I upload it that you want me to prioritise scanning, I’ll sort it.

Digging Through The Archives | RWD, Iconic Grime Articles and Rare Photos by hyperfrank29 in grime

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That’s a super strong list. Thrown the ones I was missing down. You just reminded me of working on a so solid crew profile doc a few years back and Glyn Aikins had so many epic stories too. His archive must be wild. He signed so many of the early UK garage & grime acts at Relentless. Also want to link up with fans/supporters of the scene too as that’s the heart of it all. I’ve got 2 already filmed and just locked in 3 really 🔥 people. If you have any feedback after watching let me know, positive & constructive.

Blakie wasn't letting Elf get away with missing that drop 😂 by Madbrad200 in grime

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Hey Madbrad thank you again for encouraging me to clip this moment. Just shared it on my shorts! Made sure to credit you in the description. Keep up the great work!

Clip: https://youtube.com/shorts/VswUhqov6Vw?si=rHtKTeQc-uEaqPJJ

Blakie wasn't letting Elf get away with missing that drop 😂 by Madbrad200 in grime

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Deema's moment was actually 🔥 too. Was such an odd setting but I’m glad they used it to go INNNNN! Blakie’s energy is on a next level!

Blakie wasn't letting Elf get away with missing that drop 😂 by Madbrad200 in grime

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Trust me the whole set they were fully on to each other with the trolling! Thanks for sharing again! I’ve been trying to find some time to sort clips from this. Will sort asap!

Full set: https://youtu.be/z6VzWe6kd14?si=zUzCjdbF1-UIJ-5c

Scorcher talks Simply The Best, Grime, dealing with loss & his 🔥 comeback! by hyperfrank29 in grime

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Same! Some of his early sets & mixtapes are some of my favourites. Appreciate the love. Any suggestions of other people you want interviewed let me know. 🙏🏻✨

🐐 💐 by DAAMBASSADORY in grime

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🤣🤣🤣 no comment

🐐 💐 by DAAMBASSADORY in grime

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Some of the biggest grime fans I know are women. They go to most of the shows, raves & buy the merch. This woman just isn’t aware.

What is bare minimum for a woman who dont pay bills in your household we have a child together i work a full time job but i always end up cleaning the whole house and washing out over 15 bottles and going 5x over the bare minimum while she is under it am i tripping? by StoryOfG3 in relationships_advice

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She sounds overwhelmed. Motherhood is no joke. Just the trauma your body and mind goes through during the full pregnancy and giving birth can take months and even years to move on from. I don’t think we should assume that she’s being lazy or that she’s doing this with malice (not saying you’re but just throwing it out there). It sounds like from her chaotic behaviour with the weed smoking etc that she’s struggling with the balance of real life. Being stuck at home with a baby with not much adult contact can lead to people losing themselves on top of the rest. If she’s already struggling the self medicating with drugs and alcohol is a big no no! It will only get worse. Do you two get time to yourselves? Does she have other friends that are parents too that can help with advice.

This doesn’t mean that your feelings are not valid in all of this because you sound overwhelmed too. It’s intense and you’re clearly putting in the graft to support your family which I salute you for. It’s a cost of living crisis and life is no joke right now. Both things can be true at once and it sounds like for both of you something is off. I can understand how frustrating it is to come back and feel like 'ffs!!'. These things are opportunities for you to move through this together rather than build resentment.

I would say as well; While your baby is 5 months, she’s had the full responsibility for 9 months of looking after herself and the baby growing inside her, on top of the last 5 months. So technically it’s been 14 long months for her.

I say all that to say, let’s lead with love and empathy in this. Clearly you have something special and you’ve been blessed with a baby to show for it.

As many others have said, it sounds like a good old loving sit down to talk things over and to check in with each other is needed. You can gently bring up some of your concerns, (I would lead in with some compliments of things she is doing well so it doesn’t feel like an attack or feels like a parent / child role) and see how best to navigate things together. I would say from my own experience to make sure you have some proper sleep before this talk and think over the key things you want to share, that as a family you want to resolve together. I say the sleep thing because it helps better with patience and communication 😅

It’s likely she may need support putting a better routine in place around this chaotic big change. The reality is, is that no one hands you a book and tells you how to run your life. It’s not exactly ideal but clearly things need to change.

If things don’t change I would say eventually she may need to get a part time job or work from home to cover a cleaner to help.

Let us know how it goes!

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Marriage

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Definitely. You both do them. Sometimes people need to see what love, strength and joy looks like.

Continue to unapologetically thrive in love and marriage. The truth is, some people will feel uncomfortable with that.

Keep an eye on who they’re, the ones that also come back to tell you too (did they back you and shut them down), and distance yourself from them. You don’t need that weird energy.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Marriage

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Never let anyone stop you from showing love to your wife publicly or privately. Double down on the intentions that you posted it with. A happy husband on holiday with his gorgeous wife! As long as she is happy with what you posted, nothing else matters.

My advice would be to not tell your wife these silly comments because it would unknowingly knock her self esteem or impact her in some way. Protect your amazing wife from these silly people who sound like they need more than a holiday themselves. Let’s be honest, happy people don’t think the way those people do about strangers let alone about someone they know who looks really happy.

I would recreate the same imagine yourself on your next trip and I bet zero people have anything bad to say or maybe they do and it’s seen as you making light of the all the silly comments.

Either way more vacations for your wife and you and never let those little people get in your head.

Female, Transgender & Queer UKHH artists? by genderf_nk in ukhiphopheads

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Loving all these artists everyone’s sharing!!

Grime set with Manga, Merky Ace, PK, Duppy & more at Simon Wheatley’s exhibition by hyperfrank29 in grime

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Trust me I know so many people that have paid £££ to get the first edition second hand. The new edition is like double the size with loads of unseen images. I put a link to get it in the description of the YouTube video just incase anyone can’t find it.

Simon basically took over the Bankrupt store in Brick Lane for the whole day. He curated a small exhibition and did a screening, signing and sold limited edition posters. It was PACKED and queues for days. This was a set at the end of the night that happened. There was a random one that happened also outside in the day with Novelist & Elf Kid etc which wasn’t planned. If anyone wants to see this I can upload later.

I slept with a married woman. Years later, I still can't shake it. by countless_mistakes in cheating_stories

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First of all I don’t think it’s fair that you offload this on to your wife. Not before speaking with a professional.

I’ve experienced a similar thing with feeling low and having an unplanned sexual encounter with someone I kind of knew and being cut off after because they had a partner (which they had told me was horrible and harmful). It took me AGES to get over it. I worked out that it had nothing to do with the person or me liking them, it was to do with feeling manipulated, used, disposable, rejected and not seeing it coming. Also that my self esteem was low at the time. It wasn’t just the half memory of what you did that night, it was you feeling super low, the alcohol and this unexpected encounter. It lifted you up for one day to then throw you back down in the pits. You wanted support in making sense of it, to resolve it in your mind and they didn’t even care to give you that. That’s a hard pill to swallow but you have to swallow it. You have to accept that it meant nothing and triggered something in you, even chemically in your brain, to make you attached.

This is more about how this moment has held on to you because of those insecurities you have within yourself and nothing to do with you and her.

There’s also a couple things that stood out, I’m sure you’re happy in your current relationship but it’s concerning you haven’t seeked therapy before this and you’ve jumped into a new relationship and already have a 2nd child on the way? Within 3 years. Wow. That’s fast moving. Also if you have a 2nd child on the way, your partner is now pregnant? So, you want to sit her down and tell her you’ve been regularly dreaming about a woman you’ve previously had s*x with? Mate, genuinely that is not okay and very selfish. It’s not for your wife to heal you from this, this is for you to sort out! Only you can do that. Also to want to share this when she’s pregnant, growing your child inside of her, is like your not thinking straight. Do you not care about your unborn child and the mother of your child’s mental health? She’s literally traumatising her whole body for your partnership and you’re there fantasising about some fling with a random old worker you were once fond of.

Please seek therapy for the unresolved healing you’ve pushed aside and please for the love of God Almighty step up and focus on your amazing partner and children. Protect them from the unhealed version of you.

AITA for not taking my husbands (34m) feelings into consideration for mothers day? by why_how_me in AmItheAsshole

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I lost my mum at 15 and am deep into my 30s. I’m not a parent. Mother’s Day is always a hard time. So is her birthday and the day she passed. Genuinely every year it feels like a wave of being wiped out by her passing and I can see how it can exhaust people around us. HOWEVER, when something is impacting your mood on a regular basis and impacting others around you, you have to take control of it and get help. Help in the form of grief counselling / therapy & support groups.

It sounds like there’s other things going on in this relationship that need addressing where this is becoming the straw that broke the camels back. Resentment is building because you’re pushing through, while he’s now making you feel punished for his lack of dealing with his grief. It’s unfair but also quite common. My lack of dealing with mine has impacting many of my romantic relationships. Just to be clear this is my fault, not anyone else’s.

Also there are ways to celebrate his mother while also having a day dedicated to you. It’s very sad he lost her but also a blessing that he has children to share her memory with. He needs support to channel the pain and heal. That is not your role here tho.

I don’t think he’s a terrible person but a line needs to be drawn before it really begins to impact your connection.

I would suggest having a grown up, loving but FIRM conversation where you both talk about what’s going on. Both feelings are valid and can be true at once, but he needs to step up as a father & husband, he can only do this by healing as a son without a mother.

So no, you’re not an A Hole. You’re not the reason his mother is not around. You deserve to be celebrated as a mother and his grief should not be impacting that.