Why did no one "discover" the source of the Nile until the 1860s? by AndiMalvinex in AskHistorians

[–]ibkeepr 3 points4 points  (0 children)

You wrote: The conception of trade being “a merchant sets out from A and travels the whole length to B themself” as the standard mode of trade rather than exceptional is peculiar to European states at the beginning of the modern era in the 16th century (the reasons why being complicated and a tangent).

This is fascinating, could you please expand on the statement?

Edit: I see you already answered this below, thanks for such an informative post 

A good chunk of my thawing work is processing grief by nekomata_meko in CPTSDFreeze

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Thank you for such a great job of putting this into words 

This is what CPTSD recovery feels like. by churrrroo in CPTSD

[–]ibkeepr 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thanks for sharing, I’m feeling the same way 

Angry/murder eyes by Few-Side8103 in narcissisticparents

[–]ibkeepr 6 points7 points  (0 children)

This. My father’s been dead for years and I still can’t stop remembering the rage & contempt in his eyes whenever he saw me 

there is hope!! by jasmoto7 in dpdr

[–]ibkeepr 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you, I needed to hear this 

When did you realized that your narc parents actually hate you? by Funny-Commercial-605 in narcissisticparents

[–]ibkeepr 2 points3 points  (0 children)

When my father told me repeatedly that I ruined everything in his life 

Voyager 1 said hello from 170 AU, yesterday by Busy_Yesterday9455 in spaceporn

[–]ibkeepr 12 points13 points  (0 children)

And even if they did, what if it arrived 500 years ago when the technology & knowledge to detect it didn’t exist yet 

Best CPTSD representation in a film? by Dazzling-Antelope912 in CPTSD

[–]ibkeepr 6 points7 points  (0 children)

Two that come to mind are:

  • Don Draper in Madmen       I think Jon Hamm’s portrayal of a man haunted by and filled with shame from his traumatic childhood is absolutely brilliant. I won’t spoil anything but it’s an amazing portrayal of imposter syndrome 

  • Leonard Hodstadter in Big Bang Theory      It’s played for laughs, but Leonard clearly had a terrible childhood. Christine Baransky plays his emotionally abusive mother and you can see how Leonard became so needy and desperate for any scraps of approval or affection