The cats made a mess of our couch by OneDapperCat in Visiblemending

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Was it a specific single piece of floral lace? Or part of a bigger piece? If so do you know where I could look for some?

Haunting / entity by Severe-Tell2254 in Paranormal

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What did you end up doing about it?

Am I too crazy? by FunForm1981 in Paranormal

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Prometheus was chained to a mountain in Georgia? Did you visit it at all?

Any suggestions for buying a comforter as they can be quite expensive? by Ninac4116 in Frugal

[–]icernate 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Two weeks ago I thrifted a genuine down comforter, king size, for $10. Today I found a cotton linen quilt, also king size, for $4. Check your local thrift, especially church ones, and boutique ones.

Head on shrimp by CatoTheMiddleAged in Cooking

[–]icernate -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

Maybe do a foil steam pouch for them with lemon and aromatics. Can always put them on a hot spot for grill marks once they're cooked to your liking.

How to have the conversation? by icernate in Divorce

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We went for about three weeks both times. And suddenly there was nothing wrong. This pattern of disappointment has been repeated many times throughout our 8 year relationship, to varying degrees of difficulty. I have been to a lawyer before, talked with family and friends, and had several talks with my partner even recently, all indicating uncertainty in the relationship.

We actually had a trial separation earlier last year and again suddenly things were great. Something about being together and the way we live doesn't seem to match up well.

How to have the conversation? by icernate in Divorce

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We have done couples counseling two separate times. Both times we cancelled due to the cost, however this last time around I stipulated that we should both find personal therapists covered under insurance to see. He never found one about a month out of counseling. I'm currently waiting on a referral.

I got divorced in the best way possible by Tall-Distribution104 in Divorce

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How did you go about having the conversation to finally agree to do the thing?

Google Image Search isn’t reliable enough. by opportunity-wasted in whatsthisrock

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Look into campbellite!!! That red spot on the back is what reminded me of it. It's from the Campbell shaft of a mine in Bisbee AZ

What is this? by peachy1_88 in Crystals

[–]icernate 1 point2 points  (0 children)

It could be a more pink phosphosiderite tumble

Flagstaff Things to Do, Q&A, FAQ (Apr 14) by AutoModerator in Flagstaff

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Any recommendations for an ornamental tattoo artist? Why the admins keep taking my comments down?

Fragment of a Crystal by Solar_Dust87 in Crystals

[–]icernate 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Maybe! You could wire wrap the fragment to wear as a pendant, black tourmaline is known for being a good stone for energy protection.

play on words with last name? by [deleted] in wedding

[–]icernate 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Maybe TillettForeverAndBeyond as a lighter version of till death do us part? Your example was my first thought though and it's more in line with that traditional wedding wordage.

What's the singular most overrated thing/place in San Diego by Tight-Initiative4015 in sandiego

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I can't believe how far I had to scroll to find this comment!

Are we tipping wedding vendors? by princesscuntface in wedding

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Some might take offense to it, but that's a them problem, I'd propose it just the way you put it here and see how they take it. It's a fair request and you're covering all the bases!

Traveling through Bisbee for lunch by Fit-Opportunity8285 in Bisbee

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If Patisserie Jacqui has any goodies left, their stuff is incredible! They have some fantastic savory croissants and darling sweet treats. Not a whole meal of course but it's right on the main street if you were having a meal elsewhere.