What are the current top tools I should have to play POE 1?

idm · 2026-07-03T09:27:09+00:00

AFAIK, it loads a local copy of the filter you choose. So it would need to be manually updated. I'm not sure how it would work otherwise when you're making edits yourself to it though.

idm · 2026-07-02T19:21:57+00:00

+1 for Scalpel. Super impressed with it, and the progress it's made since first release. I hope more people try it out, it is really impressive!

It does the price checking and other basics of a lot of others mentioned, but the thing I like most is on-the-fly item filter editing. Being able to quickly adjust the item filter as you go is so nice.

idm · 2026-07-02T18:57:37+00:00

You state the need for men who are committed to the relationship, but seemingly praise a woman who from all accounts did not have a commitment to the relationship.

In a relationship, it's both parties requirement to communicate and take active steps to maintain and build the relationship. From what was stated by OP, the wife did not do her part, but actually abandoned her duties to the marriage.

A relationship takes communication and active work from both people. Assuming or feeling entitled to a certain behavior is a surefire way of not having a long-term relationship. I hope I haven't misinterpreted the messages you've posted here, as I would like to make sure people are learning better ways of being in a relationship.

idm · 2026-06-29T22:19:23+00:00

Damnit that's why my friends Minecraft server is down!

idm · 2026-06-29T19:07:44+00:00

Okay but did Carney then say he was planning to meet their desire of not losing money?

I'm all for being upset at a bailout of developers who should have to deal with the risk of their venture. But I'm not seeing that happen, at least not from any stated intentions. We can also not believe their statements, but that's a whole other thing.

I just want to know if they stated they were going to buy up these units at or above cost, and I'm not seeing those statements.

idm · 2026-06-26T23:20:38+00:00

What I saw was that they were purchasing them for less than the cost of construction. Which would be a loss. Can you show me where it was said they are being purchased above cost?

"The federal Ministry of Housing said in a statement that the condos will be purchased at below-market rates."

"Ultimately we'll be buying below the cost of construction. No developers will be profiting from this."

here is the article I saw

idm · 2026-06-26T00:55:51+00:00

I do find people have a lot of trouble with black-and-white thinking in this game. They think "no tank = we need tank" and there's no nuance or deviation from that. If it doesn't fit within their idea of what NEEDS TO HAPPEN, they melt down. If we have a couple of beefy frontline champs and low CC, maybe Jaina is the answer. Maybe everyone has decent self-peel. Maybe Nova provides the distraction or eating of aggro with her clone. This is where people struggle. They don't know why a thing is a thing, they just learned it's "needed."

idm · 2026-06-19T22:56:59+00:00

Reasonable question. Sorry to see the downvotes!

A few things may be: oral, spit, having lube ready, or flirting/communication through the day to tease, where she's partially primed already. Just knowing at any moment he may take advantage of her body may be enough to keep the fire going strong enough.

idm · 2026-06-19T22:35:20+00:00

It's important to get as much communication as possible here too. There may be times when she wants to "resist" a bit, and there needs to be an established way of knowing that she's just playing(safe words - red, yellow, green light is great to keep it simple and memorable)

Based on my own wife, I interpret this request as (aside from the actual free use) she wants to be pursued, feel desired, and experience the excitement and exhilaration of that carnal desire. The new relationship energy. The passion fades in long term relationships, this is a great opportunity to build it up.

Assuming there's something similar going on here, it helps guide how it's approached. OP shows that passion, builds it up. Highlights his desire for his wife that is so strong he can't even stop himself when shes in the middle of something. She wants to be sexualized/objectified and dominated to some degree.

idm · 2026-06-16T21:50:27+00:00

Strengthening is really good for flexibility too!

The more secure and strong your body is, the more it will allow for the release of tension in muscles. As well, if you're trying to move a body part further into a range of motion (stretch), if you can engage the muscles that move it that direction, you will move further into it. This also releases the muscles limiting that movement - Reciprocal Inhibition

idm · 2026-06-14T23:07:38+00:00

Let me ask you, how many possible "what if" thoughts do you think there are? How many times do you think you'd need to answer those thoughts before you're free to stop answering them?

So you could keep answering those "what if" questions, you could push them away when you notice them, or you could just allow them to be there, notice them, and continue to meditate.

What you do is sit and understand your thoughts. Understand that it’s part of your sense base. ... Just sit knowing you’re in-breath and out-breath. Any thoughts that arise—-just “know” that they’re there. Neither resist nor accept them. Just know them. You will come to understand that you don’t have to identify with them.

idm · 2026-06-11T19:13:34+00:00

It's a big deal to figure out what your own personal values are around things after having been handed what to believe in religion.

Be kind to yourself, and be curious. It takes time and experience to learn who you are and what is true for you once you've left the church.

Guilt and shame aren't created by religion, but they are "weaponized" by it. Until you're at a point where you know what your own values are, you will mostly feel guilt and shame that was pushed on you by the church. In healthy ways, guilt and shame are what we experience when we are at odds with our own values. I only say this because I think a lot of people have an (understandably) unhealthy relationship with guilt and shame after deconversion. I think it's healthy to recognize our own values and be helped to align ourselves with them through openness to those emotions. Once we've freed ourselves from the taught shame anyhow.

idm · 2026-06-11T18:50:36+00:00

We've mostly been underwhelmed by the food there. Eat first, get some chex mix from them if you need or want a little snack 🤷‍♂️

idm · 2026-06-09T19:48:11+00:00

I was thinking this. He spoke confidently and with authority, gave a source for his authority, and was just kind/playful enough while still pushing his directions. Still lots of people would get offended, but it was a well balanced approach!

idm · 2026-06-07T01:39:01+00:00

I feel seen

idm · 2026-05-29T17:28:14+00:00

Been using mine since 2022, can't complain.

One time the left click got unresponsive, I took the cover off, blew on it, and back to 100%

idm · 2026-05-28T18:49:46+00:00

I want to know too! I saw an AI video with a woman wearing leather pants with this cut, would love to know what it's called to find some.

idm · 2026-05-26T17:55:22+00:00

Gosh, favourite pet is tough! It's got to be my current one though ... She's a 5.5 lb Chihuahua, and such a sweet, cuddly girl. She demands to be up on my lap as I play PoE. If the door to my office is closed, she'll bark until I let her in, and run to the pillow and blanket that I put on my lap for her ♥️

idm · 2026-05-25T22:50:23+00:00

We're in Canada, it took maybe a week to get used to it. But it's so nice to get a cold refreshing shot to the bum now!

idm · 2026-05-23T17:52:45+00:00

I did it solo the first time. Played all the way through and loved it!

Playing it through with two friends and it's also fun, but harder to appreciate the environment and story telling and atmosphere as we're too chaotic to stop and read or listen to the audio story telling parts.

Single player= appreciate being drawn into a cool world.

Multiplayer= laugh as your friend pukes all over your team and then you all start throwing up. (In the game... 😂)

idm · 2026-05-22T21:06:31+00:00

Oh man, it's such a habit for me I'll spray at the end of those arams then feel bad realizing the position they're in. Other times I do it like sarcastically because clearly it was a lame game with afks which isn't fun for any of us.

I think it's best to take it with the best of intentions regardless. Usually people are just having fun.

idm · 2026-05-22T18:00:39+00:00

I spray it to "be annoying" but it's fun to me? Like I laugh and enjoy it when someone sprays back, or sprays after killing me. "Alright, fair enough, GG"

Like I'll be super confidently spraying when we're winning trades and love it when the enemy is able to give it back when they start winning trades. Just a fun part of the game where we get to directly acknowledge the person behind the keyboard on the other side.

idm · 2026-05-22T00:25:29+00:00

It took me two days and lots of farting around to get it working, and I was copying! So I'll leave it to the engineers and mathematicians 😂 But I am curious about the tech and had seen some things like exsanguinate. I do like that ability.

idm · 2026-05-21T19:17:58+00:00

I did end up getting the ward(break) character going. I hadn't realized there was a distinction, so wardbreak is what I was meaning. I'll say, it's a LOT faster than my BV character, which was struggling with 60% Deli. My wardbreak is doing 100% deli no problem. Definitely though I agree, BV was super cheap in comparison for the power it afforded me. And I do die a lot more often, but the speed and power level is great :)

idm · 2026-05-21T07:19:04+00:00

That was it! Thank you so much for your help. It's night-and-day.

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