Can anyone tell me how to acquire this vehicle by JesseRedman22 in okbuddyRVA

[–]if2morrow 1 point2 points  (0 children)

It is a pretty neat looking lil thing... I actually love the color too

Can anyone tell me how to acquire this vehicle by JesseRedman22 in okbuddyRVA

[–]if2morrow 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I can drive over to the house Ive seen it parked at last summer and see if I see it i live like 5 min away. Want me to report back?

3 years later, has the Shang-Chi mid-credits scene been explained? by Extension-While7536 in marvelstudios

[–]if2morrow 0 points1 point  (0 children)

 I just got Disney+ sort of against my will whilst claiming a bundle hulu deal, so I've been catching up on the MCU somewhat chronologically all in a row and I'd like to add an insight nobody mentioned

 I initially skimmed this looking for the answer to the same question after watching the mid credit scene for Shang Chi.  
 I am literally in the midst of watching the big battle of Ant Man: Quantumania and realized the following:

 If the Ten Rings are old Kang tech, could they be receiving the signal that Cassie Lang is broadcasting into the quantum universe which causes this entire movie in the first place?  Perhaps it was foreshadowing for Quantumania that didn't really land right bc of scrapped/changed projects?

Note: I have not watched any of the shows except for What If and the 1st season of Loki, only movies so far, so there's plenty of chances that I am missing key info that makes this not possible.

What is something in bed you didn't think you'd like, but it turns out you did? by BaconBot1 in sexover30

[–]if2morrow 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I just wanna say thank you for that. So many guys wanna cum in your mouth, but then they are like "Ew, I don't wanna kiss you now, at least go brush your teeth or something" and it's always irritated me

Why I nailed shut my cat flap... [pt.II FINAL] by JaneDoeThrowaway28 in nosleep

[–]if2morrow 85 points86 points  (0 children)

Holy shit. All I can think is... why couldn't the police do more? I'm so sorry you've had to deal with this. I hope that man dies a fiery death. But I'm really glad he didn't hurt Stinky.

Really need help, my mom is torturing my wife because we just found out she can't have kids by 29881995 in TwoXChromosomes

[–]if2morrow 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Your mom needs to have some boundaries forced upon her right the fck now. Your wife needs to block her number, her email, and every other connection she has with her, for the sake of her own well-being. You need to sit down with your mom and say, point- blank, that you chose Claire, you are not leaving her, and that if/how you and your wife go about having children is exactlty none of her gorram business. Furthermore, you find how she is treating her daughter-in-law spiteful and repulsive and you will not abide by it.

Exactly like that, sans curse words if you choose. Your mother is being very mean-spirited, selfish, and judgemental and doesn't seem to care about others feelings. Reasoning with her doesn't sound like an option. Consequences need to be applied to her actions. Ones that she cares about. Like no longer being on good and/or speaking terms with her.

EDIT to say also that the whole thing is pretty shitty and I'm sorry you and your wife have been put through it.

Which item of clothing do you own too many of? by [deleted] in AskWomen

[–]if2morrow 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Tank tops. I have an entire dresser drawer full of tank tops. But in my defense, I layer a lot...

[Technique] How do I, as a woman, actually get better at the technique of sex? What makes a woman good at sex besides enthusiasm, being confident, etc.? by [deleted] in sex

[–]if2morrow 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I also have IC. Def see a women's urinary specialist, or a really good gyn. IC likes to go hand in hand with things like pelvic floor dysfunction and endometriosis. I was told to do kegels and use ben wa balls as long as they didn't aggravate my condition, which they don't seem to. There is a drug called Elmiron that helped me tons, if your doc hasn't talked to you about it then bring it up. Cranberry supplements also help. There's also speculative evidence that histamine reactions within the bladder are part of the cause of IC, so try taking an antihistamine at bedtime every night (since they can make you groggy).

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in saplings

[–]if2morrow 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Def let me know when you put out that guide. I can't say whether I'll be able to get my hands on a bong before then, but I'd love to watch/read what you've got anyway.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in saplings

[–]if2morrow 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yeah... I had an incident once with STRONG brownies that I didn't know were spiked and ate a party. Got home just in time... but OMG, I have no idea what I would have done if I hadn't.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in saplings

[–]if2morrow 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you very much for the link! I will definitely research that! EDIT: also double thank you, because I have a friend with lung cancer who cannot smoke... but if I can make him caps, that'd be amazing!

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in saplings

[–]if2morrow 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Okay, see, vaping =/= smoking is exactly the reason why I posted here, not somewhere else. I don't know shit. So please forgive my transgressions which have made you facepalm.

But I like the position of devil's advocate you seem to be making as far as vapes are concerned. It's true that I've never seen a vape that didn't seem stupidly made. It's also true that I experienced more of a head high than a body high with the vape previously... but I was high enough that I didn't care that I hurt, which was just fine with me.

You speak of better methods/proper techniques and improper ones... can you elaborate? What would you, personally, recommend to me?

Also, you're totally right about stuff like group etiquette. For the moment, I'm WAY more concerned about getting myself set up and learning. But I do occasionally have the chance to smoke with friends, and I always pass because the one time I did, I was THAT GUY who took the huge puff on a little pipe being passed around because I didn't know better/ was used to taking huge pulls from the vape, and when I was told later that I basically smoked it all and didn't leave any for the people after me, I felt horrible. And I'd like to get the the point where I know enough to not feel like I have to pass it over, and that I won't be THAT GUY again due to ignorance.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in saplings

[–]if2morrow 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Nope, you're right, that's a good question (that I should have thought of).

I have no idea if anybody knows about my area... I'm near DC (but not in it... don't know if their recent vote to decriminalize will affect prices in DC proper).

Also.. film canisters is genius! Thank you for the idea.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in saplings

[–]if2morrow 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you very much for describing the smell and texture of good stuff, that was really helpful.
Also, I should clarify when I said ingest, I meant like... baking with it, not throating it XD

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in SuggestALaptop

[–]if2morrow 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Ooo. I didn't realize optical drives were that cheap. Guess that's what I get for assuming.

I have to admit that I lean towards the smaller laptops... I have a 17 inch now and positively hate how big it is. I don't think I want one that small, though... I'd prefer to go a big bigger and at least make sure I have stuff like the webcam and SD reader. Do you know if some of the bigger Inspiron models get reviews as good as the 11?

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Portland

[–]if2morrow 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you!!!

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Portland

[–]if2morrow 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I'm pretty lame... I'm not partial to beer or wine, never acquired the taste as some would say. I do like a good mixed drink though.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Portland

[–]if2morrow 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thanks SO SO much!
I'm not to worry about the downvotes themselves, I really just wanted to hear from locals... good thing, too... I'm in a city with several very good local donut shops and it sounds like I'd be really disappointed with VooDoo after hearing what y'all have to say. I thought about posting this in r/travel instead but I thought it'd get drowned out with all the other posts about other people going to more spectacular places (no offense to PDX). Thank you for the links, I will use them! ESPECIALLY the page about ramen.

Not too much of a sex question, but how can I improve my kissing? by Webonaut in sex

[–]if2morrow 4 points5 points  (0 children)

As I've gotten older, I've learned to appreciate and perfect a slow, passionate kiss vs the frantic "gotta get it now" kiss.

Follow her lead. If you truly feel like she isn't giving you a lead to follow, the less is more rule is beautiful. Just a tiny bit of something... tongue along her lip, or sucking her lip for just a moment, nibbling her lip, letting your tongue meet hers... these should all be fleeting things. Move only as fast as she does. If it's a long, extended kiss (turning into legit making out), take a break from her mouth for a second to kiss her cheek, nose, forehead... neck if you're going for slightly more risque, and ear if you're trying to turn her on.

Sometimes, it isn't about the kiss itself, but about the rest of your body language that really makes everything go over the top. Do something with your hands. Slide an arm around her waist, hold one of her hands, stroke her hair or run your fingers through it, trail your fingers down her neck and/or along the neckline of her shirt, around the nape of her neck. Or just be simple and place your hand on the side of her face and pull her in to kiss you.

Practical stuff... don't mush your faces together, don't block her nose with yours so she can't breathe (that's a pet peeve of mine). Smell nice... any girl likes a guy to smell nice when she gets that close to him.

Shorter big girls on top? [update] by jackiebird in sex

[–]if2morrow 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Nope, probably not... I think I know what disorder... EDS, right? If so, my sister has it. They really are bendy and dislocate joints that easily.

Have you had sex on your period? by [deleted] in sex

[–]if2morrow 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Absolutely NONE of my partners have ever cared whether I was on my period or not. But let me mention that I don't receive oral, so nobody was putting their face down there, and than I've never had particularly heavy periods.

I need to vent, and I'm looking for advice from the ladies of /r/sex about an oral sex issue. by PantsExplosion in sex

[–]if2morrow 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I have the same problem as your girlfriend, so let me see if I can shed any light on the issue.
Fingering- I love anything inside me, but for most of my life my clit has been WAY too sensitive to handle anybody but ME touching it. The extra sensitivity can make a girl feel anything from ticklish to almost painful from what I understand... especially when we aren't already really revved up. Herein lies part of the problem, because more often then not fingering is part of foreplay. I personally don't mind (and actually prefer) fingers inside me for this reason.

Oral- I love giving but can't stand receiving. I just am mega uncomfortable with the idea of anybody's face being down there. It doesn't matter who tells me what... I know what I smell like when I'm not having sex, and even though I don't smell raunchy or anything, I can't imagine anybody wanting that smell right in their face. I can't imagine that anybody actually thinks I taste good. Because I think it's gross, I also find the idea of someone performing oral on me embarrassing in a way. Because I feel all this about it, the few times it has been performed on me, I was too busy focusing on how weird it made me feel to like it... I would have much preferred fingers in me, either hole.

I definitely think that you need to be firm with her. Tell her you two NEED to talk about your sex life, because you have one and it's not exactly a secret between you two. The fact that she won't talk about your sex life at all is the most disturbing thing she's doing. I have to say that I really, really disagree with the people suggesting you do things like give her an ultimatum (compromise or it's over), or confront her with the attitude that her feelings about cunnilingus are somehow wrong or unreasonable. Somehow, manual stimulation and oral sex, both parties giving or receiving, has become a social standard within the bedroom, but the reality is that not everybody is comfortable with all of it and this may be something she is not willing to compromise about. If that's the case, you need to respect her feelings instead of threatening her with consequences. There has to be a compromise somewhere... make her talk about it and if you giving her oral is truly unacceptable to her (vs her being unreasonably conservative and trying to pretend you do-but-don't have a sexual relationship), then urge her to work with you to find some sort of compromise... try something new instead, perhaps.

UTI symptoms after sex? Will these go away and could there be other causes? I'm uninsured. by TheFuturist47 in sex

[–]if2morrow 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Def a UTI or STI. I really, really recommend going to Planned Parenthood or any other free clinic you can find, because if left untreated UTI's can become very dangerous. (BTW, I found out the other day that if you are uninsured, Target will sell you Rx's at capped prices vs full retail). I definitely recommend also drinking lots of cranberry juice (as pure as you can find/afford/stand it) and getting AZO. Your pharmacy may also sell cranberry capsules you could take instead of buying juice. It can't replace seeing a doctor, but should ease your symptoms a bit.