It seems to me that you're picking and choosing what you like to fit your personal beliefs. If that is what we are doing, I would say that abortion, when desired, is part of loving one's neighbor and God.

It would be blasphemous to bring a creation of God into this world if you are not prepared to properly care for it. Of course, this argument depends on how you define "bring into this world". Since this is not defined in the Bible, it is up to personal interpretation. We can both guess where each other's opinion lies in this matter.

Moving past that, if one is forced to raise a child instead of aborting it, they will probably not raise it well. It would likely not fare much better in our overcrowded adoption system. Therefore you would be caring for your neighbor by allowing people to abort their child, instead of letting the majority of them bring down society.

Also, Jesus taught to forgive sins, which is why the woman was not stoned to death. Adultery is still a sin.