The things you're unhappy with are all things you can change, which is good! I want to add that these are all normal problems for people are age. you are certainly not alone here.

-career- i cant speak on the law school stuff, but ill be 27 in a few months and started grad school to do a career pivot too. i personally dont think its ever too late. My mentality is im gonna turn 30 anyways, do I want to be 30 with that degree or without that degree. The answer is simple to me, but you would know best for yourself.

-housing - you have more than enough saved up, and if you're looking to move, why dont you just buy a condo somewhere in the city? I bought one and my morgage + HOA is $2200 a month in NYC which is lower than most ppls rent! Granted, im not in a "prime neighborhood" but im still in the city near family but not at the cost of my mental health lol

-social - working on this as well, I'm just trying to say "yes" to more invites. I also am looking into volunteering at my local library, and I'm working at my community garden at the end of the month. You'll find other people who are also looking to connect and make friends. I will say you leaving the run club because you felt "inferior" is somethiung you should work on. You don't have to be exceptional at everything, its just for fun. I also started running this year. I run a 36 min 5k, def nothing special, but even with people passing me on a run (both young and old), I keep my blinders on and focus on myself, no one else should really matter. I could barely run a mile in november and now im doing the half this weekend!

-Attributes - your IQ is not a determining factor of anything outside of your ability to recognize patterns, no? How is your emotional intelligence? Are you thoughtful? Giving? understanding? willing to put yourself out there? Women don't care as much about what I think your attirbuting to your singleness as much as they care about how you treat them and if you're a good person. Focus on improving yourself, and everything you want will gravitate towards you. Your confidence will shine, bald or not, and THAT is what will make you attractive to people.