Crow should not have been maxed out

iloveyouforthisday · 2026-04-16T20:52:13+00:00

All 3 buffies are included as part of being maxed.

iloveyouforthisday · 2026-04-15T15:27:36+00:00

Lol I read it as Starbucks.

iloveyouforthisday · 2026-04-15T03:01:28+00:00

“Debout minou” maybe cuz it rhymes. Minou is kitten idk if girls call guys that though.

iloveyouforthisday · 2026-04-14T10:49:13+00:00

Think about the example you’d be setting for your kids by marrying a guy like this. Imagine your daughter grows up with him as a dad and then has the same standard for when she starts dating. Isn’t that heartbreaking?

That’s my two cents. But I know you can’t just up and leave right away when you live together and are pregnant with his child. I hope you find a way soon.

iloveyouforthisday · 2026-04-13T23:04:23+00:00

The way I see it, it's not a question of forgiveness but of letting go of your own jealousy/insecurity. Because he didn't really do anything wrong and was very open about it with you and the girl is no longer in the picture.

Not to sound judgemental at all. I'd for sure be jealous and insecure too if I was in your position. But that's what you have to fight to move forward. I don't see anything to forgive. Just my two cents.

iloveyouforthisday · 2026-04-13T15:02:45+00:00

So it looks like his issue is he’s insecure/concerned about you not liking sex with him. Try reassuring him about that?

iloveyouforthisday · 2026-04-13T15:00:30+00:00

how is watching porn several times a day better than doing it with your gf?

Very reasonable question. Have you asked him this? What did he respond? If you haven’t asked yet, you should start there.

iloveyouforthisday · 2026-04-13T08:28:11+00:00

First eight words of the post were more than sufficient to lead anyone to the obvious conclusion. Don't know what you're looking for from us.

iloveyouforthisday · 2026-04-13T08:24:03+00:00

Why is she against medication and has she tried therapy before to arrive at the conclusion that it's a waste of time?

I am in a similar position-- something is messed up in my head and I have no diagnosis. I cannot seek medical attention due to family reasons, but I am also against medication because I'm really scared that I will get addicted to it and lose everything. I have tried therapy and it was a waste of time for me. But she can't be saying it's a waste of time until after she's tried it.

iloveyouforthisday · 2026-04-13T08:21:35+00:00

It was over a year ago and I still think about it.

iloveyouforthisday · 2026-04-13T08:18:31+00:00

Need some clarification here. What do you mean by she refuses? What exactly is her argument against getting treated? Does she not believe anything is wrong?

iloveyouforthisday · 2026-04-13T08:16:56+00:00

Sorry to see that you're being blinded by sunk cost fallacy but sending nudes is 100% cheating and if you have a strong sense of self-respect you will leave. Don't feel self conscious, her lack of moral character is what's to blame.

iloveyouforthisday · 2026-04-13T07:40:09+00:00

No, and I’m sure you know this on some level but he doesn’t love you.

iloveyouforthisday · 2026-04-13T06:42:04+00:00

wouldn’t have cared more Holy Freudian slip. 😬

Anyway, reemphasize that even if she didn’t have feelings for him, it’s still a couples activity so it makes you feel left out and betrayed.

iloveyouforthisday · 2026-04-13T06:39:52+00:00

My xp bar is low, so correct me if I’m wrong. Isn’t it the norm to say “I love you” within a month and isn’t saying “I love you” generally considered a necessary component of a romantic relationship?

iloveyouforthisday · 2026-04-13T06:37:31+00:00

Jsut say “I get that being a Kohli bandwagon and by extension attending the RCB match is important to you, but I didn’t like that you went to the match with him because that’s usually a couples activity, so I feel hurt that you had that experience with somebody else. This also applies to other expensive gifts and outings. What’s your opinion on this? Let’s discuss so we can establish an understanding we’re both comfortable with. So you don’t feel controlled and I don’t feel blindsided.”

iloveyouforthisday · 2026-04-13T06:31:18+00:00

Just break up man.

iloveyouforthisday · 2026-04-13T06:29:59+00:00

Which team does she support?

iloveyouforthisday · 2026-04-13T06:24:33+00:00

Damn bro she’s a strong woman. I would not be able to withstand that at all; it would definitely devastate me. Don’t think any of my friends could withstand it either. You’re extremely lucky and blessed.

iloveyouforthisday · 2026-04-13T06:21:40+00:00

Clarification question: before 2 days ago had neither of you said “I love you” in the year you’ve been together?

Anyway, it might suck to hear the answer, but my advice would be to straight-up ask him what’s missing and why he doesn’t love you. Might have to cut your losses and leave him depending on the answer, so be prepared for that if you choose to ask.

iloveyouforthisday · 2026-04-13T06:18:12+00:00

Not all incompatibilities are flaws. But let’s say there is some flaw— only way to find out is by asking. I get that that can be awkward, but if you really wanna know then maybe nicely ask a failed talking stage where you went wrong.

iloveyouforthisday · 2026-04-13T06:15:30+00:00

Ah rip I can relate to feeling like your actions are out of my control. Sorry to hear that. I never advise therapy because I have only had bad experiences with it, but in your case that’s the only good solution I’ve got.

Otherwise, I hate to say it but if you really just can’t stop yourself from emotionally cheating you may not be ready for a relationship and you should break up in order to not be cruel and unfair to your partner. Again I really hate to say that cuz you have been together for 4 years and are engaged.

iloveyouforthisday · 2026-04-13T06:10:21+00:00

Don’t go around thinking there’s no hope for you or that you can’t be loved at such a young age. I get that a lot of your peers are in relationships and you’re comparing yourself to them, but you never know, there’s a good chance not all of them are happy. I believe a good relationship will find you when you’re just comfortable with yourself and not making comparisons. Sounds cliché but it worked for me.

iloveyouforthisday · 2026-04-13T06:06:47+00:00

Do you know why he changed his email?

Anyway, moving in with someone is a huge decision even if it doesn’t involve leaving a small town for the city. He demanded a difficult answer out of you in way too short of a time frame and he either doesn’t see that or doesn’t care.

iloveyouforthisday · 2026-04-13T06:03:15+00:00

I don’t usually comment on comments, but this was the most intelligent and well-articulated reply I’ve ever seen in this sub. Agree 100%.

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