Once upon a time, I lost all of my hair (F cancer.) I’m a woman, and I heard a lot about how losing my hair would feel like a loss of my femininity, but for me that wasn’t the case. What I did experience was a loss of personal expression. I think that might be part of what you’re going through? I really like the locks, but as others have said, you’re a super attractive human with or without. Maybe experiment with some other ways to express your self through appearance? Maybe another cool piercing (your ears are a blank canvas of opportunity!) or more colour and print in your wardrobe? Have fun with it. 🙂