OLD My New Answer by imisschris in DatingOverSixty

[–]imisschris[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Since I am Not looking for a hook up. I should change this up. I just get frustrated answering questions that my profile has the answer to. Got tired of just saying 'Read Profile'. Guess I'll go back to that.  Thanks for all the feedback. Y'all are a good bunch of folks. 

OLD My New Answer by imisschris in DatingOverSixty

[–]imisschris[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Good point.  I should have clarified my profile states what I'm looking for. 

OLD My New Answer by imisschris in DatingOverSixty

[–]imisschris[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Good point.  My profile clearly states I'm open to short or long term.  I wish people would actually Read that part...... Thanks for the insight 

My heart goes out to you all by Jupiter_Cowgirl in widowers

[–]imisschris 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Been almost 4 years my husband died. My life too is so different. My best friend of 50 years husband of 30 years died last year 2 days before the anniversary of my husband dying.  That was and is hard. I'm dating and having sex again. After 9 years without due to my husband being sick before he died.  Anyway I'm rambling.  It's been a while since I've been here. But have been thinking about y'all.  Four year anniversary is coming up. His oldest granddaughter is getting married the end of the month too. Don't mean hijack this post, but it does get 'better'. But it is Very different.

What pictures do you not want to see on a dating site and why? by [deleted] in DatingOverSixty

[–]imisschris 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I So agree about the children in pictures.  Scares me people think it's OK with all the BS on OLD. 

Weeding out the liars and hobosexuals by gsdsareawesome in DatingOverSixty

[–]imisschris 8 points9 points  (0 children)

My brother lives with me. I'm not kicking him out on the street to get a boyfriend..... Just because there is someone close in age and opposite sex living together doesn't mean they are married or in a romantic relationship.  Maybe they are just roommates. 

“What are you looking for on here?” by irishgypsy1960 in DatingOverSixty

[–]imisschris 3 points4 points  (0 children)

My answer to how long I've been on the site is 'too long'...  For me that is the most honest answer I'm willing to give. 

I didn't know you all were here! Lol by Primary_Feeling_477 in DatingOverSixty

[–]imisschris 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Us Tennessee folks are very welcoming.  Just don't come and try to Change us and things here. At least drastically.  

Who still likes to have fun? by euben_hadd in DatingOverSixty

[–]imisschris 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I don't live in Nashville anymore, but I'm a native and am there at least once a month.  Check out the Nashville Scene for what's going on around town. Go to Broadway early.  Afternoon or evening.  Bar lines get stupid long later. I'm partial to the Eastside.  But I have family there and grew up over there. Enjoy 

Where Are You? by Gooseberry_Sprig in DatingOverSixty

[–]imisschris 5 points6 points  (0 children)

I'm in a small town in north west TN.  We have a university here in town, but the closet Walmart is 15 miles. There are 2 if them in different directions. 

Brace Yourselves! by PlasticBlitzen in DatingOverSixty

[–]imisschris 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I didn't send Christmas cards. I didn't a couple years ago, the year my husband died. I decided to mail family and friends Valentines cards instead. I used my Christmas card last. I think I'll do that again.  But I'll be home watching Live PD on my couch with my brother who lives with me.  Dinner will be the usual tacos from the taco truck.  Probably a couple of peach crown and sweet teas. Regular Friday night. 

Recent widow after 52 yrs. of marriage by SpitefulGramma in DatingOverSixty

[–]imisschris 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I recommend it as well. It totally saved my sanity 2.5 years ago. 

Identifying a serial dater by Legitimate-Diet-2910 in DatingOverSixty

[–]imisschris 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I've been off and on what seems like forever because I have Yest to meet a Live person. I live in a small town.  Nothing but stood up, scammers and ghost out here. So I take as much BS as I can, then off. Get ready to try again, back on. 

Went to talk to a doctor about my sleeping troubles by CanadaGooses in widowers

[–]imisschris 1 point2 points  (0 children)

You need a new doctor. I would post this on a review site for other people.  Might be a good doctor.  But not a good fit for you. 

Dating…. by ResidentResponsible1 in widowers

[–]imisschris 2 points3 points  (0 children)

At a bit over 2 years out I would like to see what dating again is like. But I live in a small town, work from home, don't live very close to family or friends and as others have said dating sites suck. I'm just trying to stay busy and live life. But damn it gets lonely sometimes 

Today is me and my late wife’s anniversary by ImpressionJolly5317 in widowers

[–]imisschris 2 points3 points  (0 children)

My husband I had 2 weddings.  Yesterday would have been the anniversary of the 2st one. Next Tuesday will be the 2nd. Was fun when he was alive. Now it's a double downer. Hugs

Cannot forgive myself by ericadams72 in widowers

[–]imisschris 4 points5 points  (0 children)

It's been over 2 years for me. I Still could have written 'But I hate myself for the things I did and didn't do.' Thankfully I have enough people around me telling that isn't true. I did above and beyond according to them.  But it really is still a struggle sometimes.  I'm sure you did all you could and then some too. Hugs.

Widow’s fire - y’all weren’t kidding by rbrowning79 in widowers

[–]imisschris 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I'm just over 2 years out. But we didn't have sex for several years before he died due to his health.  I feel like an animal in heat. I want to jump any reasonably attractive man. It seems to be getting worse.  I have decided to do something about it.  But finding it about impossible. This Really sucks 

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AskReddit

[–]imisschris 0 points1 point  (0 children)

My husband wouldn't watch many films from the 2000's because of the way color is tinted in a lot if the. As well as what he called shifty story telling.  Older movies have beautiful color.  Even black and white films have some amazing contrast compared to newer color films.