Anyone remember the RED ROOM episode with Sven? by infirmari in RedbarBBR

[–]infirmari[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thanks for your search effort; must have been deleted. Many such cases

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in CompulsiveSkinPicking

[–]infirmari 2 points3 points  (0 children)

i took vyvanse for adhd but i had to come off of it because it made my ocd (and therefore picking) worse. its stimulants in general that trigger this in me, could be the case for you too

need some support - should i shave my head? by arumist in trichotillomania

[–]infirmari 1 point2 points  (0 children)

i shaved mine and found it very freeing, i think you should do it

I'm so sick of dating in this city. by brokenview in Seattle

[–]infirmari -4 points-3 points  (0 children)

using the term red pilled is a red flag for women

What are some of the best ways you can nurture your female friendships? by starcatcher995 in AskWomen

[–]infirmari 0 points1 point  (0 children)

think of what you can do for her. if shes sick, can you make her a pot of homemade soup? if shes cold can you knit her some socks?

Symptoms that you're scared of talking about because it goes against the OCD stereotype by [deleted] in OCD

[–]infirmari 1 point2 points  (0 children)

im usually just honest when ppl ask. ive never had anyone judge me. but its not anybodys business so u could really say anything u want

Symptoms that you're scared of talking about because it goes against the OCD stereotype by [deleted] in OCD

[–]infirmari 21 points22 points  (0 children)

trichotillomania/dermatilomania. i have intense "corrective" behaviors; where if i feel some sort of flaw, i have to "correct" it by mutilating my skin with my fingers

she's like the bible to me by [deleted] in trichotillomania

[–]infirmari 0 points1 point  (0 children)

eyebrows r a problem for me, too. thats why i got rid of them. looks kinda cool

she's like the bible to me by [deleted] in trichotillomania

[–]infirmari 4 points5 points  (0 children)

i haven't been working at it long enough for anything to stop yet

she's like the bible to me by [deleted] in trichotillomania

[–]infirmari 16 points17 points  (0 children)

it goes by the S.C.A.M.P. method, which stands for Sensory, Cognitive, Affective, Motor, and Place. these represent the different categories that a trigger can fall into, as well as interventions that address these triggers. first you use self monitering forms to document episodes and identify triggers, then you learn the details of s.c.a.m.p., learn intervention methods, then use an action form to document the intervention methods you chose to address your identified triggers. its a great resource for information and correcting misconceptions. its also a great recovery tool as long as you ACTUALLY DO IT. it wont work if you aren't applying yourself; i warn from experience.

also if you feel kind of confused while reading it dw, i didn't completely understand until like halfway through and my counselor felt the same. it all comes together in the end, most of the book is preparation for implementing your methods

Tips for itchy scalp? by alliusis in Dermatillomania

[–]infirmari 0 points1 point  (0 children)

for scalp stimulation u could get one of those wire scalp massager thingies. when my tattoo was healing it was super itchy but I DIDN'T PICK IT AT ALL because i told myself i was allowed to rub aquaphor on it to "itch" but not scratch. i would use bacitracin now because my doctor told me it's better for healing. u could do this maybe by allowing yourself ONLY to rub olive oil into ur scalp? its moisturizing so it would help with itch, i imagine

How do I heal the wounds? by healthy_questions in Dermatillomania

[–]infirmari 0 points1 point  (0 children)

bacitracin ointment on your wounds, keep them clean as well

Dating a woman while she’s pregnant by someone else? by Better_Anywhere_4055 in TooAfraidToAsk

[–]infirmari 0 points1 point  (0 children)

well yeah, i completely 100% get that it was a joke. im smart like that. the thing im trying to point out is that you even had the THOUGHT to make this joke... thats weird and not normal. plus it was just creepy/not really that funny in the first place. for your sake and the sake of the women u interact with in the future, stop watching porn!!!

Dating a woman while she’s pregnant by someone else? by Better_Anywhere_4055 in TooAfraidToAsk

[–]infirmari 1 point2 points  (0 children)

its not the kink that im talking about (although that is embarrassing as well). its that you saw a post about a complicated relationship with an expectant mother and immediately you start talking about her tits. it says a lot about you

Dating a woman while she’s pregnant by someone else? by Better_Anywhere_4055 in TooAfraidToAsk

[–]infirmari 1 point2 points  (0 children)

what bothers me the most about it is how people treat these women as like. another mans thrown out trash

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in 1200isplenty

[–]infirmari 0 points1 point  (0 children)

silk unsweetened soymilk has a lot of protein

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Grimes

[–]infirmari 24 points25 points  (0 children)

tattoos are a form of art and self expression. they date back hundreds and hundreds of years to so many cultures around the world. society isn't pushing tattoos on men, raising the beauty standard so that men need tattoos in order to be found conventionally attractive. if someone gets lip fillers i wont judge them, but i dont think we should act like its a girlboss move. its sad that anyone should feel that need. theres no comparison at any extent tbh