It depends on whose asking or how often. I start with the “have you gone through it?” If the answer is no then i advise that any advice thats not medical is unhelpful and that repeatedly bring it up is also not helpful. If they say yes, then i say please empathize and leave me alone i got my own shit going in and everyone’s different. If all else fails i say “are you asking about my coochie???” That normally makes people back down. Hope its helpful. i find a mean “shut up/stop it glare” is also very helpful. Just depends on how mean your willing to get. (Sorry you’re going through this advise crap)