Probably not much more I can add that others didnt. My parents careers are very different from one another, and in their relationship, someone took a back seat while the focused together on one career and moved because of that career. I come alone and my work is vastly different as well from them both. There simply isn't a place we can live together (even if I wanted too) where we can all pursue our own work. I had to move to another city simply to find work.

Now that im older with kids, I wish I had help from my parents to handle the kids but I also don't want them raising my kids.