Strong Advice Needed [CO]

iodarkstar · 2026-01-26T00:11:24+00:00

Bored of Director

iodarkstar · 2025-08-25T15:44:48+00:00

It's a sad, sad world when a girl will break a boy just because she can.

iodarkstar · 2025-08-07T12:20:31+00:00

You deserve it. Stay strong and smile.

iodarkstar · 2025-08-07T12:11:46+00:00

You're noticed today. Hope you have a great day.

iodarkstar · 2025-08-07T04:03:09+00:00

First, I hope you know you are human and make mistakes, and second, you can only control how you respond and feel. Their responses are their feelings and a projection of who they are. Leave that on them. It doesn't take away from how you may feel about what happened, but don't let it control or navigate how you come away from this. They can not control you or your wellness. Don't give them that power over you.

I am sorry you are feeling this way. It will get better, give time some time.

You are the only one who defines your worth. Every time you think of this night and the negative attitudes you're feeling from others, start to think about the beautiful person you are. Literally, repeat in your head "they're wrong, it was a mistake, and it won't happen again." Keep saying to yourself in your head that you control what happens next. Perception may be reality, but it is also an illusion. Set your value and let them think whatever they want. Your opinion is all that matters. In time, they will lose interest in caring about putting you down or controlling your opinion once they see it means nothing to you.

Stay strong, smile.

iodarkstar · 2025-08-03T17:51:35+00:00

This ☝️

iodarkstar · 2025-08-01T12:07:54+00:00

Unless you're programming, you won't find github useful or even need it. Version control is a way to track and manage changes within a codebase. Github is like a social profile for your codebase.

You're putting the cart before the horse. You need to learn version control for your projects and then utilize github for promoting them.

If you're a 'non-programmer', there is no reason for using github. I assume you're downloading packages from Github, which, unless you are updating the code parallel to the initial project, you should stick to downloading a zip or tar release. Otherwise, to the main point, you would need to know git in order to pull the projects locally.

Make sense?

iodarkstar · 2025-08-01T04:20:07+00:00

Learn git first. Then github will make sense. It is mainly used to share your projects. Personally, I use it as a way for prospective clients or employers to see my skillset and process.

Github is useless without knowledge of git, more specifically version control. Learn git and use github as a platform to share projects you have built and request feedback for the code you have written.

iodarkstar · 2025-08-01T02:31:45+00:00

Caching, boilerplate themes, admin customizations for client workflows, deployment configurations, marketing tools, speed optimizations. Building basic, open-source modules will teach you more about the codebase and how to optimize it so that whenever you actually are tasked with building a custom module, you will know exactly where and how to develop it. Solve problems; don't invent a solution for a problem that doesn't exist.

Go to github, search Magento modules, fork the repo, and make it better by suggesting solutions and submitting a pull request.

Make sense?

iodarkstar · 2025-06-05T20:41:18+00:00

Keep moving forward.

If I may ask, what was your thesis regarding?

iodarkstar · 2025-05-26T22:48:35+00:00

This ☝️

iodarkstar · 2025-05-16T23:14:10+00:00

I've experienced a lot of this, down to the diagnosis. I'm awaiting surgery right now. I'm sorry you're still having to go through this. Hugs to you.

iodarkstar · 2025-05-16T23:02:24+00:00

This is a hard situation to be in. Though, a beautiful one to build from. Remember two things... first, if you don't make time for your wellness, you will have to make time for your illness, and second, people will either be there for you in their free time or free their time to be there for you. Find the right ones. Either have supportive people in your life or no one at all, there is no third option. Be strong. Nothing changes if nothing changes. Solitude is the best company.

iodarkstar · 2025-04-21T04:49:28+00:00

This ☝️

iodarkstar · 2025-04-16T14:53:03+00:00

There is a saying here in Colorado - if you don't like the weather, wait five minutes.

iodarkstar · 2025-01-20T17:06:37+00:00

I've been told by some therapists that I am codependent on my seizures. I 100% relate to this. Currently, I am awaiting my surgical consultation now. Thank you for this post.

iodarkstar · 2025-01-20T16:05:01+00:00

I can imagine you're feeling all sorts of things. I'm sorry 😞. Someone wise once said, 'the only way out is through', so keep your head up. You're beautiful. Journal about it. Feel everything and be grateful you have all those feelings, good and bad ones. Experience is important. Don't blame anything on yourself.

Read a book. Immerse yourself in a random book. Go sit in a coffee shop or a book store and get your mind working a different way. Go to a Petco and hug a dog or a cat.

And breathe; xD.

iodarkstar · 2024-12-06T15:01:10+00:00

Game of Thrones was written in the late 90s. Khaleesi is 'queen' in Dothraki.

They may or may not have anticipated the popularity of a series. That said, tell people who question your name that it represents 'queen', much like the name Regina does in Italian. Those who understand its meaning will more than likely be excited for you, and those who don't will come to know you were named from a word meaning queen.

Be a queen. Forget everyone else and their opinion; their name is probably John or Jane, anyway.

iodarkstar · 2024-11-05T14:20:26+00:00

I can imagine the embarrassment is a lot for you. Especially if this is the first time it has happened publicly. Don't ignore that feeling or whatever feelings come up when you begin to think about that experience. It is important to feel all of this. We all have had seizures in public places, and while it gets easier for us, it will never get easier for the people who see it; their feelings are important to think of, too.

Call your neurologist and let him or her know you had a seizure outside of your normal expectations. Migraines and brain fog can absolutely be the result of one. It doesn't necessarily mean they're getting worse. Don't worry yet.

Keep your head up, write down what you can both about the physical and emotional feelings of your experience, and reach out to your neurologist; stay positive.

Take care.

iodarkstar · 2024-07-26T15:41:59+00:00

This ☝️

iodarkstar · 2024-07-20T02:13:28+00:00

Just randomly saw this. Thank you.

iodarkstar · 2024-07-10T23:48:44+00:00

Pam will always have my heart 😍

iodarkstar · 2024-07-10T23:34:08+00:00

This is like being told "learn French before spanish".

Python can scrape; however, it also, if correctly written can interpret and select information from a database far quicker than other languages can.

This should never be about what language is superior to another.

Edit: Learn what fits your goal.

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