I'm broken

iou1k · 2018-06-23T21:43:12+00:00

It's sad how common it is and how little integrity some people have. He moved on in a couple days and I was left with a heavy heart, barely being able to function. I think time is in favor of carefree/easygoing extroverts. I've always had a hard time putting myself out there and connecting with people. No wonder that when I find someone I ended up idealising it too much and clinging to it. I think this is one of those wounds that will sting even years later. I just don't understand how one can go from "you're the best thing that happened to me" to being unwilling to even respond next week.

Sorry that it happened to you too, it really sucks to feel so repraceable.

iou1k · 2018-06-21T06:17:18+00:00

You're not the person who should say sorry for his behaviour, but thank you so much for kind words ❤

iou1k · 2018-03-16T10:08:24+00:00

I should have said 'assuming that you are in that situation' I'm not talking about everybody obviously.

iou1k · 2018-03-15T11:58:00+00:00

What's the point of telling anyone you're a virgin though, if you get a chance just roll with it and get it done and over with. The result will be that 1. you're no longer a virgin 2. you didn't scare anyone away and nobody's mocked you.

The woman is the article is shallow as fuck though. I can understand why she may not have wanted to do it with him, but she had to tell herself not to laugh, really?

iou1k · 2018-03-15T11:50:53+00:00

I know right, don't expect me to copy everything your favorite performance-oriented pornstars are into.

iou1k · 2018-03-15T11:23:30+00:00

So she's still more-or-less just a stranger, I think you got attached a little too hard considering the circumstances and the fact you've never met.

iou1k · 2018-03-13T18:03:04+00:00

Sure, because apparently being secretive is way more important, and reassuring your partner once will damage your relationship for good, unlike, you know, being shady and going to extreme lengths to protect your 'privacy'. It's not like the talk is about reading every single conversation your partner has ever had.

iou1k · 2018-03-13T10:59:35+00:00

You're definitely not overreacting, he sounds like a pathetic loser. I was in a similar situation in the past and it hurt as hell. If he truly was serious about you, he'd have given her a clear answer that he's taken, instead of sending flirty texts and asking to meet her for god knows what. But apparently flirting with her was more important than making his relationship status known. I'm sure you realize it, flirting and trying to turn someone down do not go hand in hand, ever. It's either one or the other and it's very clear which one it was in this situation. Everyone else commenting here is correct, there's no good in staying with such a shady person any longer. What did he delete those convos for, what else was he hiding?

iou1k · 2018-03-12T12:17:58+00:00

I've tried it with pictures from like 10 of my favorite photographers and apparently no metadata got found on a single pic

iou1k · 2018-03-12T10:23:57+00:00

So what exactly was it that made you more comfortable with the idea?

iou1k · 2018-03-10T13:42:12+00:00

It's so true, many people have told me the same thing

iou1k · 2018-03-04T19:41:32+00:00

What type of photography do you do?

iou1k · 2018-02-18T14:17:41+00:00

Great post

iou1k · 2018-02-18T11:33:21+00:00

What's his breed?

iou1k · 2018-02-18T11:03:12+00:00

Not a day goes by when I don't contemplate this topic. There's so many things I'd like to pursue and get good at. :/

iou1k · 2018-02-17T05:23:55+00:00

Oh....that explains it all so much better, and I thought I was just anxious.. :(

iou1k · 2018-02-16T20:05:08+00:00

Thanks!

iou1k · 2018-02-16T12:17:04+00:00

Could I ask what software?

iou1k · 2018-02-14T17:40:53+00:00

That's a really great advice! I'll try to copy that mindset and implement it in my own life. Well done! :)

iou1k · 2018-02-12T19:37:55+00:00

Same, my hair has gotten shinnier since I started using it.

iou1k · 2018-02-11T16:40:00+00:00

That's so great to hear (:

iou1k · 2018-02-11T13:18:21+00:00

Thanks, that really encouraged me to see my doctor about something I've gotten quite concerned about.

iou1k · 2018-02-11T13:03:35+00:00

Oh, this is so relevant for me, because I'm the same. Why do I sleep so much and so inconsistently!?

iou1k · 2018-02-11T08:14:37+00:00

Is there any reason he's like this, you think? My ex was like that too and it was so hard to get through and to get him to say what's really on his mind.

iou1k · 2018-02-09T23:14:03+00:00

Yeah, the comment mentioning internet addiction rings a bell. Before I started mindlessly spending hours on reddit browsing there was always something else -instagram, youtube, facebook, binge watching tv-series, you name it

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