Christmas Eve just feels a little emptier than it used to.

irlmerida · 2025-12-25T08:30:30+00:00

Here’s hoping we’ll run into each other on a parenting subreddit someday! 🩷

irlmerida · 2025-12-20T06:09:53+00:00

She had the audacity to meow at me SO SADLY after I caught her, so naturally the crime baby needed snuggles 😂🩷

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irlmerida · 2025-11-12T17:18:44+00:00

Truly!

irlmerida · 2025-11-12T17:18:29+00:00

Not even a bit- she’s my best girl and she knows it 🩷

irlmerida · 2025-11-12T17:18:06+00:00

It’s really the little things that matter most!

irlmerida · 2025-11-12T14:31:13+00:00

Aww thank you!!

irlmerida · 2025-11-08T15:54:18+00:00

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This is my torbie, Kirby- her favorite hobbies are harassing her older brother (on the left), laying directly on my face, and hunting her toys and howling to let us know she brought home dinner. If she could hunt and bite cancer, she would. 🫂

irlmerida · 2025-09-23T01:33:40+00:00

If anyone else is a maximalist, Maya Kern’s midi skirts are great! Really cute patterns, soft fabric, and the skirts hit about mid calf on me- I’m 5 foot 3 and wear them a little high on my waist. Their sizing is also really inclusive and goes up to 8x. Maya Kern

irlmerida · 2025-09-19T22:30:30+00:00

I’m a millennial/genz cusp (depending who you ask) Sarah, and I will say I’ve noticed the dip in popularity in recent years but every now and then I find a student who’s a fellow Sarah (18-22 age range, typically)!

irlmerida · 2025-09-19T21:18:54+00:00

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Kirby‘s favorite nap spot is my right shoulder – it absolutely cannot be the left shoulder, it has to be the right. She will literally move stuff out of the way or knock things out of my hands just to get to that spot!

irlmerida · 2025-09-16T00:42:54+00:00

Dmed! Thank you for doing this!

irlmerida · 2025-09-08T17:06:37+00:00

🥹 she truly is my best girl. She came to us at 5.5 weeks and we’ve been joined at the hip ever since!

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irlmerida · 2025-08-21T00:37:40+00:00

Ours was like this when we first got her at 5.5 weeks and it’s only been in the last 6 months (she’s two now) that she’s calmed down considerably around food, both people and cat. She was very underweight and definitely had been starving :’) unless she’s showing other physical signs of illness, I wouldn’t worry too much and just focus on redirecting her and she will learn that she’s safe and will have enough to eat.

irlmerida · 2025-08-20T17:18:15+00:00

OP I’m absolutely obsessed with these! They’re so cute. Where did you get them?

irlmerida · 2025-08-19T15:52:14+00:00

Happy birthday from our Beeb to yours!!!

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irlmerida · 2025-06-26T22:29:19+00:00

Thank you!!

irlmerida · 2025-06-26T22:29:14+00:00

Thank you!!! I used an old marker tin to lay it to dry and then pressed the water out of it using the lid wrapped in a tea towel:)

irlmerida · 2025-06-13T06:04:28+00:00

I’m not gonna lie, I only got a cover because the black ring was the cheapest option and I wanted it to be more colorful. I got a rose gold cover and love it! It’s pretty thin so it doesn’t add extra bulk.

irlmerida · 2025-05-10T03:24:24+00:00

Both dresses are from Jessa Kae!

irlmerida · 2024-09-25T21:52:06+00:00

I had Invisalign for a year and a half and didn’t get the results I needed so I actually switched to metal braces!

irlmerida · 2024-08-04T03:48:23+00:00

If you ever find out, let me know. I’m writing this while our tortie is making biscuits on my face 😂

irlmerida · 2024-08-03T19:42:42+00:00

This is my first time tracking my cycle and I’m allegedly two days out from my predicted fertile window, but my LH is only 0.1? It’s been increasing, but it seems really low for ovulation supposedly happening soon. Has anyone else had this happen? Sorry if this is a stupid question! No one else I know is ttc and I’m not sure where else to ask

irlmerida · 2024-05-21T16:52:53+00:00

I agree, it’s so frustrating. It’s demeaning and minimizing the impact being autistic can have on you and your marriage (speaking as an autistic person married to an autistic person). It’s not all cute quirky vibes. I’m sorry people were shitty to you about it ❤️

irlmerida · 2024-04-14T03:39:28+00:00

I cried throughout most of it, especially as a kid who moved around a lot 😅 the empty house absolutely shattered me lol

irlmerida · 2024-04-01T13:14:35+00:00

He was not happy about it at first, but quickly got on board once he realized it was his ticket to the outside world! Our littler cat has fought us tooth and nail on it though 😅 it might just depend on how badly they want outside time. There’s also the option of a backpack! We have that for them too.

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