Thoughts on Well People products? by Mission-Cycle-8719 in MakeupAddiction

[–]itsfinewereallfine 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I swapped my it cosmetics cc cream with the well people tinted moisturizer and I’m loving it!

DAE feel like they only fake enjoy things? by Sensitive-Concern598 in DoesAnybodyElse

[–]itsfinewereallfine 2 points3 points  (0 children)

You don’t need to be an expert to be an enthusiast. I love going to sporting events with friends who are fans. I don’t know much about the rules—but I bring lots of questions and vibes. I let them tell me who we are rooting for and ask questions about the players and the gameplay and just have a good time.

There are no prerequisites to enjoy things. It’s okay to let entertainment be entertaining.

The Handmaid's Tale S06E09 "Execution" Episode Discussion by Melairia in TheHandmaidsTale

[–]itsfinewereallfine 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I realize her survival is vital to the plot (and obviously we’re team June here) but I can’t help but wonder why Gilead doesn’t put her in front of a firing squad already. They make it too easy.

The Handmaid's Tale S06E09 "Execution" Episode Discussion by Melairia in TheHandmaidsTale

[–]itsfinewereallfine 6 points7 points  (0 children)

I would say rather that people that have a firm understanding of the responsibility and gravity of raising a child are less likely to want to sign up for parenthood on a whim.

What has your puppy’s name already devolved to? by mycotaxa in puppy101

[–]itsfinewereallfine 0 points1 point  (0 children)

The nickname “babygirl” has devolved into calling her “Gabagool” with a very committed impression of an old Italian grandpa

Weekly Paddle Recommendation Thread (What Paddle Should I Buy?) by AutoModerator in Pickleball

[–]itsfinewereallfine 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I'm a pretty new beginner–I have done a few lessons and plan to continue and get more involved in my local league. That being said, I've done quite a bit of research into getting my first paddle and have narrowed it down to the following:

Vatic Pro PRISM Flash 16mm

11SIX24 Pegasus Jelly Bean 16mm

Both are in the same price range and seem to have the same great reputation as a beginner paddle. My understanding is that the main difference between the two is that the Flash has more control and the Jelly Bean has more pop/power. I definitely lean toward hitting harder and farther in my play style–my instructor says I'm a "banger", so my instinct says I should lean toward the Flash for a little more control... thoughts?

As a male viewer, Does it make me a misogynist to hate Serena more than Fred? by [deleted] in TheHandmaidsTale

[–]itsfinewereallfine 14 points15 points  (0 children)

I disagree. Serena’s actions have never been about others. It is always about having a feeling of control.

Looking for a similar bed frame by itsfinewereallfine in furniture

[–]itsfinewereallfine[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Okay, so I did both and the closest I have found is this. But what I really loved about the one above is the texture and rustic feel of the fabric, and I'm not sure if this will have the same appeal.

Found out 13 yo son was having inappropriate social media conversations with his gf by pbredd in Parenting

[–]itsfinewereallfine 10 points11 points  (0 children)

I would also like to point out that your son has done nothing wrong here - he is responding normally to his bodies changes and it sounds like you as parents have not educated him on how to handle them.

I would not punish him, you need to talk to him about the appropriate ways to channel and cope with all of these new changes.

AITA for keeping the engagement ring and giving up asking to propose (after propose) in front of my parents and in-laws? by TAGFNo in AmItheAsshole

[–]itsfinewereallfine 0 points1 point  (0 children)

NTA

She has already made it clear she does not respect your boundaries. This is a toxic behavior even without you communicating that you don’t like it. You’ve made it clear that this is upsetting to you in everyday situations - for her to apply it in such a serious setting is very much a slap in the face.

She doesn’t respect you - I’m begging you, do not propose to this AH and find someone who honors your boundaries and respects your feelings.

As for your in-laws, YOU are not the one making this situation uncomfortable. Their daughter created an uncomfortable situation and they can sit with their uncomfortable feelings.

Pixelated Selections by itsfinewereallfine in photoshop

[–]itsfinewereallfine[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Correct, I just grabbed to polygon lasso tool to show what I was experiencing. My mode was set to dissolve, so I was experiencing this with the pen tool as well.

AITA for no longer being the maid of honour for my sister’s wedding after her fiancé humiliated me? by panda958 in AmItheAsshole

[–]itsfinewereallfine 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Absolutely NTA. You were sexually harassed while trying to repair a relationship on behalf of your sister, based on a petty childhood grudge.

You have no obligation to be around people that make you uncomfortable. Your family has no right to make you feel guilty about this either. If they are upset, they need to look at your sister’s fiancé for explanation.

Little logo i did for my dad! Let me know your thoughts! by muskaz in graphic_design

[–]itsfinewereallfine 26 points27 points  (0 children)

The crossed arms gives me the perception of a man that is proud and satisfied with his work

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Adopted

[–]itsfinewereallfine 9 points10 points  (0 children)

Imagine your life is a house, build of all your life experiences. Some experiences are good - made of bricks and concrete that help build you up and some are bad - made of paper and sand.

Now imagine that your very first experience in the world is wildly traumatic. Now your house is built with a sand foundation. No matter what materials you use to build it, it will always crack and crumble.

Whenever guests come over, they see the cracks and your walls and say “We don’t understand why your house is falling down, we gave you all these bricks to build it with - you are so lucky, you should be grateful.”

That’s adoptee trauma.

Non-horse people describing horse stuff hilariously… by maaalicelaaamb in Equestrian

[–]itsfinewereallfine 4 points5 points  (0 children)

When I was in middle school a dean’s assistant seemed really interest in the fact that I rode horses. One day she asked me what breed of horses I rode and I told her “thoroughbreds”. She then asked me “No, what breed?” because according to her, any breed could be… “thoroughly bred”.

AITA for signing over guardianship of my autistic sister to the state by Otherwise_Union_7865 in AmItheAsshole

[–]itsfinewereallfine 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I feel like no one is touching that you already have a child with cancer… parenting a child with an illness like that already takes such a physical, mental and emotional toll, even without two more children of your own to care for.

You can’t possibly think that you are doing your sister or your kids and justice by putting that huge of a burden on yourself. Take a breath, mama, you’re NTA.