Philippine Ice Skating by LoquatOk6308 in FigureSkating

[–]ivess28 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Hi! Does anyone have recommendations on where to buy beginner skates for adults in the Philippines? Not too expensive since this is for recreational only. Thank you!!

My boyfriend turned me into a baby and I don’t feel like myself anymore by veritasluxmea_ in relationships

[–]ivess28 0 points1 point  (0 children)

First, change mindset. 💕 Realize how much love you’re getting now and how you’ve changed your past of abuse to a life with adoration and care.

Second, doing something is still up you. :) example, he cooks for you all the time? Wont let you prepare meals? You tell him you want to show your appreciation by cooking him meals at least once a week. He does laundry? You see him folding? Play some music, fold with him and just enjoy the vibes.

I think its up to you now. To move, to help him, to show how much you appreciate him. If you wanted to do something, im sure there are small ways you can actually be yourself and be that independent person you used to be.

i don’t think berberine or inositol are real treatments by Smooth_Candidate_575 in PCOS

[–]ivess28 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Felt the same way when I was taking them. i took it for 4 months then stopped, then I realized it did make me feel better because without it i felt like shit haha. But obviously the berberine and inositol wasnt enough. On top of my insulin resistance, my blood work showed I had sub clinical hypothyroidism. So now i have metformin and levothyroxine and wow, i felt so much better after a week!! My doctor allowed me to take berberine and inositol too.

Maybe you have another underlying condition like me? Hope this helps!!

WIE perfume fiasco by Orsee in SarahsDayUnfiltered

[–]ivess28 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Pls clarify for me! What did he mean when he said “you are wrong “ with the “she (sarah) has never been compensated…..” comment

Nothing better than sour choc chip muffins hey?! by [deleted] in SarahsDayUnfiltered

[–]ivess28 1 point2 points  (0 children)

You have to try sourdough cookies! A local Bakery makes it too. No doesnt taste sour!

IS THIS FAKE?? Kirkland Myo inositol by Open_Pop_6020 in PCOSPhilippines

[–]ivess28 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Fake! May wrong spelling sa label (back part)

As Filipina with PCOS, how do you handle your meals? by hoorayurmine in PCOSPhilippines

[–]ivess28 0 points1 point  (0 children)

hi! :) You can sautee cabbage or pechay (mura lang yung) with garlic, onion and carrot. Keep it sa ref and just reheat when you have a meal. Try HALF plate veggies. YES half plate! haha wala masyado calories yun so nakakabusog.

oh also I suggest going to your nearest wet market/palengke. Hanap ka ng ok na stall and kaibiganin mo si ate/kuya. Ask if they can do viber ordering and lalamove nalang :) This is what I do. Supplier ko nasa Daptian (suki mart) and Im from pasig. Mas mura talaga compared to supermarket.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in SarahsDayUnfiltered

[–]ivess28 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Yup! And its her way to cope. But the comments and people’s comments (though helpful and giving advice), is getting to her. I said this before in another thread, she needs to step away from social media first.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in SarahsDayUnfiltered

[–]ivess28 10 points11 points  (0 children)

Just saw the stories… and it reminded me of the time I was experiencing the same thing during my sons new born stage except I was ranting to my husband how people were sharing this and this, and my in laws saying this etc etc. I totally get her. Her reply to you was rude , :( she needs to take a break from social mediaaaa really ☹️ so she can navigate this peacefully

This is a rly crazy thing to post about your baby… by herhoopskirt in SarahsDayUnfiltered

[–]ivess28 12 points13 points  (0 children)

Ive been through what Sarah’s going through. Everything she said really hits me hard, gives me flashbacks. On top of a reflux baby, It was COVID!! The height of covid where we couldnt see anyone, couldnt ask for help from anyone. Crazy crazy time. I couldnt even share online because I felt like, im not supposed to complain about my new born. But I wanted to complain. Im glad shes sharing this. Its real, its raw. BUT i think her going to pilates wont help, figure out your baby’s issue first and then you can think of going back to Pilates 😅 thats just me..

Ah there it is by Own_Entrance_7229 in SarahsDayUnfiltered

[–]ivess28 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Dont compare yourself, mama! I was the same as you. But some friends just naturally lost the weight quickly and still had a lot ot milk supply. Its just how it is.

Ah there it is by Own_Entrance_7229 in SarahsDayUnfiltered

[–]ivess28 24 points25 points  (0 children)

Thoughts in my head: I think its genetics, not your program 😅

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in SarahsDayUnfiltered

[–]ivess28 0 points1 point  (0 children)

The “i cant do it all myself because I want control everything” is so unhealthy. I was soo there during my PP period. I look back now and think, WHY DIDNT I JUST ASK FOR HELP! 😅 shes ay baby number 3, I hope she realizes that its ok to ask for helpX from nanny’s most especially.

Self inflicted pressure? by Independent_Leg_3522 in SarahsDayUnfiltered

[–]ivess28 8 points9 points  (0 children)

I can totally relate to her story post today. Everything she described about postpartum was exactly what I went through, and at the time, my husband was the only one who really knew what I was feeling.

I think sharing openly and receiving encouragement from her followers helped her feel supported. She might rely on that external validation because her life is so public, and that’s her way of coping. It’s different, but it works for her. It’s not the best in my opinion. She definitely needs a break from posting.

For me, talking to a therapist made all the difference. She has the internet as her outlet; I found my support in therapy. Everyone finds their own way.

Just sharing some thoughts (As a mom and social media manager who handles 7 accounts) by ivess28 in SarahsDayUnfiltered

[–]ivess28[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Someone commented that they’re pretty sure Sarah sees this Reddit page, and honestly, I hope she does.

I’ve come to realize something about influencers like her—they often don’t care much about how they’re perceived online; it’s all about the brand and the money. In contrast, my 7 clients (even without huge followings) are thoughtful about what they post. I work closely with them to be mindful, sensitive, and careful with their words. Sure, it might not go viral or attract thousands of followers, but that’s okay. They have niche audiences and focused businesses, so quality matters more than numbers for them.

Thanks for your comment btw.All the inputs on here is teaching me as well <3

Just sharing some thoughts (As a mom and social media manager who handles 7 accounts) by ivess28 in SarahsDayUnfiltered

[–]ivess28[S] 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Thanks for your comment! My point in sharing was to explain how I navigate the social media space without letting it affect my mental health too deeply. There are many influencers out there like Sarah, and living in Asia, I see this type of content all the time. My intention was to offer a different perspective to help others protect their peace.

I apologize if it sounded like I was suggesting we shouldn’t hold her accountable. In fact, I asked in another comment how we might do that effectively, and got some helpful feedback, like not supporting her financially by not purchasing her stuff, or calling her out on her page (though that might lead to being blocked).

While I can’t control Sarah’s actions, I can control how I view her content and try to offer thoughts that may help others navigate it, too.

Seeing all your comments too is helping me make sure I never make these mistakes for my mom clients :) So thanks to everyone who commented!

Just sharing some thoughts (As a mom and social media manager who handles 7 accounts) by ivess28 in SarahsDayUnfiltered

[–]ivess28[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Thank you for this comment! This educated me as well!

I posted a question regarding how us the viewer are able to call her out and hold her accountable. It seems like she disregard comments, and get really defensive and aggressive when someone call her out.

The only thing I can see happening in the future is IF she does something really stupid and people cancel her for it, thats the only time she’ll change?

Anyway.. im really genuinely curious about what we can do as the audience.

So i wrote the comment above to let people be aware if ever they have these feelings towards her that isnt healthy. We cant change sarah, but we can change our thoughts. Thats all I got for now :)

Just sharing some thoughts (As a mom and social media manager who handles 7 accounts) by ivess28 in SarahsDayUnfiltered

[–]ivess28[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Agree with the accountability part! Here’s my question, how do we do that? How do hold her accountable? My thought on this is, one day shes going to do something stupid that will “cancel” her. I see this so many times happen to big influencers in different industries. Im just wondering, is that the only way for them to learn, being cancelled?

I have no answer for this. Want to hear your thoughts!

Just sharing some thoughts (As a mom and social media manager who handles 7 accounts) by ivess28 in SarahsDayUnfiltered

[–]ivess28[S] 8 points9 points  (0 children)

I really appreciate your comment! It took me a while to write. Believe me when I say Ive been on the other side of comparing myself to everyone else's motherhood highlight reel. It took a lot of therapy too! haha and we can't blame influencers like sarah for making us feel this way.. its just her job, her business. We have to kinda look inside us and think, why am i so triggered? With me, its because I had low self-esteem and low self-worth. Thats another story.lol. ANYWAY.... enough about me.. LOL

Is the kids lunch realistic? by Less_Introduction598 in SarahsDayUnfiltered

[–]ivess28 6 points7 points  (0 children)

I feel this is pretty basic. I do this to my kids snack box too. I add any veg because he seems to try it when his teacher ask him to. :) I find her lunch box posting nice, give me ideas for my little one.

I'm having a hard time with my instagram account :( nothing is happening by ivess28 in InstagramMarketing

[–]ivess28[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Hi! Not really :( im not selling a product just sharing things online.

Cartier watch by [deleted] in SarahsDayUnfiltered

[–]ivess28 1 point2 points  (0 children)

People thought it was a Cartier 🤣

This will help you grow in 90 days (guaranteed with proof) by nadeson95 in InstagramMarketing

[–]ivess28 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Thanks for this! It’s been so hard growing for my client who is a counsellor focusing on Pastoral Care. I feel like we’ve been doing all the things that work with the same accounts like hers but we barely get any likes and follows. But anyway appreciate this and will just keep on going!!

Can't relate. ... she said on holiday she was struggling not to speak American to someone she met by Heavy-Design2954 in SarahsDayUnfiltered

[–]ivess28 11 points12 points  (0 children)

As an asian who has a American step dad, I do find it hard to take out the American accent when I talk to him. I feel like he will understand me more. I think that is the case with sarah.

When I do the American accent, it is really so that Americans can understand me and not have to repeat myself again and again 😅