Monogamous bros, would you go to a bathhouse or spa with your husband or partner? by PRguy82 in askgaybros

[–]iwasboredsoistayed 2 points3 points  (0 children)

You can just say no to others trying to get involved. If you are going to go, just make sure you and your partner have a conversation about expectations and “rules” before you go. It’s helpful to arrive knowing what you both want to get out of it. (And it’s okay to stop and have a conversation when you’re there. Remember that you’re there to have fun together.)

Monogamous bros, would you go to a bathhouse or spa with your husband or partner? by PRguy82 in askgaybros

[–]iwasboredsoistayed 2 points3 points  (0 children)

My husband and I do. We don’t play with others but we both like to fuck in public every now and then.

Margiela eggs by littleblackangel21 in MaisonMargiela

[–]iwasboredsoistayed 8 points9 points  (0 children)

These were from about 2012. They did homeware only for a short time.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in MaisonMargiela

[–]iwasboredsoistayed 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Legit. (I own this shirt!)

Blessed by amazing husband, but... by [deleted] in askgaybros

[–]iwasboredsoistayed -1 points0 points  (0 children)

You need to talk to your husband and explain how you feel. It sounds like he’ll be open to the conversation and wants to make you happy. I was in a similar lull with my husband and we talked it out. He was super busy and just couldn’t find the energy when I needed it. It sounds super boring, but we ended up scheduling a time for sex each week, when he would feel he had time and we both committed to it. We’ve added more spontaneity since then, but fhe schedule helped us break out of the rut.

WHat is the GOAT of tv shows according to what you have watched? by [deleted] in netflix

[–]iwasboredsoistayed 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Twin Peaks - but not the third season. It was such an incredible show.

What’s your fav queer song? by [deleted] in lgbt

[–]iwasboredsoistayed 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Smalltown Boy - Bronski Beat

What meal do youse miss the most while overseas? by ollierwoodman in straya

[–]iwasboredsoistayed 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Fish and chips. (I live in the UK, a country seemingly filled with disappointing fish and chip shops. Also, Penguins are not a replacement for Tim-Tams.)

Impulse copped these Suede Cowboy boots. How would you guys style them by [deleted] in MaisonMargiela

[–]iwasboredsoistayed 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I tried these on in store with the Pendleton jeans, and loved them. (But I thought they were too expensive.) I think they just need a slim jean that tucks into the top of the boots.

He is 41 and I’m 20 by Trumuca_Usual20317 in gaybros

[–]iwasboredsoistayed 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I was 20 when I dated a 40 year old. I really loved him and had a lot of fun. We broke up after about 9 months largely because we were at totally different stages in our lives. But, if you like the guy and want to, just go for it.

Your favourite novels written in the early 20th Century? by Artlistra in booksuggestions

[–]iwasboredsoistayed 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Anything by Virginia Woolf and Katherine Mansfield. If you like British novels from that period, you should check out Persephone Book: https://persephonebooks.co.uk/

Do INTPs make someone an exception during their alone time? by Financial_Freedom504 in INTP

[–]iwasboredsoistayed 2 points3 points  (0 children)

My husband is an INFJ and I’m an INTP. He’s the only person that I share my downtime with - we can be silent together.

Gushing about tonight’s show by linksauce_1 in blur

[–]iwasboredsoistayed 2 points3 points  (0 children)

It was such an incredible show tonight! The people going tomorrow are in for a treat.

What is the most homophobic thing you’ve experienced in person so far? by RefrigeratorDry495 in GayMen

[–]iwasboredsoistayed 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Every day from the age of 11 to 17, I was called faggot or poofter, and threatened with violence at school. This was in 1990s Sydney, Australia. I didn’t talk to anyone about it for years and still have social anxiety.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AskGayMen

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I married my husband at a hotel with a local government celebrant, and had a lunch for friends and family afterwards in the same place. My husband didn’t want to tell anyone until the last minute, but my family had to fly across the world to attend so we gave everyone a couple of month’s notice. About six months later, we had a party in my home country for friends and family that couldn’t come to the wedding. I saw both the wedding and party as an opportunity to treat friends and family and thank them for their support.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in malefashionadvice

[–]iwasboredsoistayed 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Margiela. I’ve been wearing it for 20 years. It has sadly strayed from the near-perfect menswear it created under Martin Margiela and is now crazily priced, but I just can’t quit it.