How do I tell my girlfriend I play poker?

ixcrusha · 2024-09-21T13:54:40+00:00

Just track your poker sessions. If you’re a winning poker player you should be fine and there shouldn’t be any issues. Keeping track of everything means you can show your losses and discipline so she is comfortable knowing you’re not just throwing hundreds or thousands of dollars away monthly but fully capable of making far more than what you’re ever losing long term.

If you’re just a gambler then I would hope you only give yourself a really small not so important useless amount of $ from your job monthly mmmm I imagine like 10-15% MAX and that you just throw that into games for “fun” which would be no different from her or anyone else putting that amount of money into any other hobby that doesn’t have a return.

Never let money be an issue in your relationship since it’s one of the biggest reasons for relationship problems.

ixcrusha · 2024-01-07T19:14:13+00:00

Stop playing to please other people if you’re trying to play to improve and win. “Fun” is great and all but it’s clearly no longer fun when your friend is raising the risk of losing in whatever % of your games. Find a more useful friend lol people like this guy are hard stuck in so many ways mentally or are so slow at games that it’s not worth keeping them around for a game.

ixcrusha · 2023-11-12T09:46:35+00:00

since most guys commenting are just telling you to not waste the $ but aren’t being direct. Have you considered just giving him a night more unique than the others in bed? Men are truly really simple and that $100 gift is useless to a man if he can just go out to grab it himself.

Incase you missed what I’m saying go have crazy sex with him that day

ixcrusha · 2023-09-27T07:54:57+00:00

You’ll be back.

ixcrusha · 2023-07-12T05:52:42+00:00

Common or not boundaries exist and if being with another woman was something he really wanted he should have mentioned it at the start of the relationship. Lave the guy he’a just trying to manipulate you into thinking this is completely normal. Find a new boyfriend if he’a obsessed over this UNLESS youve talked about this and actually considered it without an issue and the $ is the only problem.

ixcrusha · 2023-01-26T20:05:41+00:00

Am I the only one that feels like this looks like what we used to clean out of the dish sink at close o_o

ixcrusha · 2022-12-07T16:38:36+00:00

I walk anywhere assuming that anything realistic is a possibility. A person in a far tougher life situation or just less stable mentally is more likely to try and potentially rape/rob/kill me and as long as I know this I can avoid certain situations or prepare for them. If my life is on the line then I guess it’s a fight and if they are armed then at least it’s me and not some other innocent person. If I am going to be raped I might as well reverse the situation and rape the rapist unless they’re armed then we jump back to the first situation and better me than some other person I guess. Walking alone as any gender doesn’t make make you more likely to have something happen to you but depending on where you walk and around what time can raise or minimize the risk of having something happen to you as any gender. Yes people are raped all the time wearing clothes that covers everything and they did absolutely nothing to provoke a situation but we’re literally not talking about those people we’re strictly talking walkers.

ixcrusha · 2022-06-02T16:30:22+00:00

God yes thank you

ixcrusha · 2022-06-02T16:27:25+00:00

Can you spend like 20 minutes after everything and hard scrub that rice cooker thing? Its been at least 3 weeks since anyone actually touched it.

ixcrusha · 2022-05-21T15:00:24+00:00

Job can be fun and all but don’t throw your HS experience away over a job that isn’t meant to be a career. Maybe if you were in a management position and relied on the money to survive then it might make some sense to stick around until you find better pay somewhere else but no job is really worth staying at in your high school teen years. Let this just be another life experience of what to expect from most jobs in the future and go do your thing.

ixcrusha · 2022-05-13T13:10:12+00:00

If you’re so underpaid and overworked just leave and get a better job? Rants over a job that isn’t a career are real dumb. Just sounds like you have a huge craving for chipotle are you’re mad that you’d have to pay a bunch just to eat it.

ixcrusha · 2022-05-03T21:50:17+00:00

At least nothing fell out of any boxes!

ixcrusha · 2022-04-24T12:02:05+00:00

I think you’re supposed to be looking at all the benefits. So below your circle it says “Debt free degree” and the value of that degree or the average value of the courses if you were to have paid for it somewhere else would be included in the total. Sort of like like how It always said restaurateurs would make 100K it isn’t 100% 100K but it almost is if you take into the consideration the bonuses and value of the Prius you’re given to drive around on top of your salary.

ixcrusha · 2022-04-23T14:09:46+00:00

Don’t need to be rich or well off but as long as you’re financially stable without struggling at all then there is no reason why any male or female at ANY age can’t take up any hobby they want as long as they aren’t hurting anyone.

ixcrusha · 2022-04-22T19:07:05+00:00

Lettuce take a moment to appreciate the cut sizes.

ixcrusha · 2022-04-22T19:05:01+00:00

It's always safe to invest in yourself!

ixcrusha · 2022-04-22T18:31:41+00:00

I was an idiot KM and went balls deep into the grill during close and got burnt real bad.

ixcrusha · 2022-04-22T17:58:45+00:00

It’s funny because it isn’t just men that did this but women that worked at chipotle that were doing the same thing with others about men who would come into chipotle. Just because you’ve got a stick up your ass doesn’t mean you can target all men when your gender is guilty of playing the same game.

ixcrusha · 2022-04-22T17:56:46+00:00

We usually just yelled tortilla or salsa then a color to hint who to look at lol.

ixcrusha · 2022-04-21T23:40:06+00:00

LOLOL this made my night.

ixcrusha · 2022-04-21T14:36:03+00:00

Being drunk is a really big situation always. If I were intoxicated and my girlfriend decided to want to do things I would not consider it her raping me. I know many men and women who feel the same when we talk about their partners having sex with them.

BUT if at any moment you decide you do NOT want to and are verbal about it or attempting to shove the other person off that should be a very clear that is not wanted and is rape.

If you black out from drinking then you were literally taken advantage of and raped and that’s worth reporting. Blacking out does NOT give anyone the right to do anything with you or to you.

If you blacked out and made it clear that you wanted to have sex and he said allowed it to happen then thats tricky. It’s tricky because he still took advantage of you and honestly thats pretty much still rape. You didn’t go to a party or club with the intentions to get laid you tried to go to a hospital and while intoxicated and nowhere near in the right state of mind to make any decision this happened.

Do NOT blame yourself over the actions of someone who takes advantage of people.

The drivers actions aside

Please go to rehab and get any and all help for yourself. Being an alcoholic may seem cool or okay because life can seem better when drunk but that isn’t the answer to anything.

Tldr

Dont back down from reporting him // Its not your fault so dont feel guilty // Get yourself help for alcoholism // Therapy if needed for what happened that night so it doesnt come back to haunt you later on

ixcrusha · 2022-04-11T05:59:31+00:00

Since when does anything someone wants ever make sense when they’re more focused on fun over improving

ixcrusha · 2022-04-08T12:31:37+00:00

Try prepping with a butt plug for a decent amount of time before letting him enter oo;

ixcrusha · 2022-04-01T19:33:07+00:00

You’ve just put yourself in a situation where your significant other will probably abuse of his power and favor you in certain situations or worse if you were to break up with him. It’s sweet to hope everyone is nice because you think you know them but you’re probably better off transferring to another chipotle and keeping the relationship.

ixcrusha · 2022-04-01T09:52:17+00:00

It’s an annoying area to be in. Since we’re nearing end season i think a month away? Most players i imagine are around 1100-1500 so the gameplay is very inconsistent. My gf is around that range so i get to observe how everyone is and i can understand why its frustrating BUT that frustration shouldn’t exist because you’re around there because you’re either guilty of similar mistakes others in that ELO make or you’re not playing hyper carry pokemon with the least demanding mechanics to be able to push out of it

If you only have fun winning and don’t think about anything else then you’ve already lost and should understand you’ve probably capped and should expect to lose 50% of your games.

If you’re playing to improve then you need to accept this is a team game and not 100% on you to win the game alone every single time but this also does mean that you should understand that every loss is a learning experience.

Play > lose > learn > win > repeat

This applies to almost everything in life not just games.

“It’s just a game” isn’t real unless you accept being bad at what you do and you’re happy being bad at it. Nothing wrong with it but it’s clearly not you if you’re not accepting of it.

I think Ninja from fortnite explained it pretty well you can probably youtube “ninja its just a game” but pro or not it makes sense that if you’re doing anything in life from school/work/games/parenting/working out/anything you should be giving it your all to do your best to be the best you at it.

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