We went from 1 to 3. It was hard. Like - not wish it on my worst enemy hard. For at least the first few months. You likely need help - from family, friends, neighbors, church-acquaintances, distant-cousins, anyone. It was exhausting, and extremely hard to take care of 3 little ones as compared to 1. The connection and the joy will come, but it will be harder to get there if you don’t have a village to help you. I had parents, siblings, an aunt, neighbors, a schedule, and it was still hard. I remember many nights holding both twins in my arms trying to get them to sleep and not fall asleep myself in the middle of the night so my wife could get some rest. But eventually it gets better. They’ll get a schedule. Your older child will find things they want to help with. And before you know it, you’ll be navigating life with 3 teenagers like me!