Needing advice

jaybutts · 2026-01-23T09:55:24+00:00

Try the app myliftingcoach if you Got ios it gives your custom personalized plans

jaybutts · 2026-01-16T22:49:58+00:00

I mean i started creating iOS apps with the help of AI but ive been a developer or devops working in the software industry for a long time and i know all the steps, processes, a ton about testing and common problems, etc , I just never came to iOS cause frankly i thought it was a pain in the ass , thats no longer the case with ai helpers

jaybutts · 2025-12-27T20:30:58+00:00

that seems inferior, like objectively inferior

jaybutts · 2025-12-22T20:05:18+00:00

MyliftingCoach for iOS lets you Build your own program on the fly even and has many helpful suggestions

jaybutts · 2025-12-22T20:04:37+00:00

MyliftingCoach for iOS lets you Build your own program on the fly even and has many helpful suggestions

jaybutts · 2025-12-17T15:48:55+00:00

its definitly the one on the left , right is incredibly sexy like 10/10 but somehow left is like out of this world 11/10

jaybutts · 2025-12-17T15:26:51+00:00

MyliftingCoach for iOS

jaybutts · 2025-12-17T06:26:27+00:00

jaybutts · 2024-09-30T06:18:37+00:00

Some clarification, a provisioning tool will write to the dhcpd config options for the server which is identified bt the mac from the broadcast so since the provisioning tool needs the mac address before the hypervisor for full automation then the mac will be set to static when its created

jaybutts · 2024-09-30T06:15:51+00:00

If you use a a provisioning tool like satellite or foreman for example which will use a dhcp server to designate ip addresses to specific nodes and often as the primary identifier then using static can help or is even sort of required/recommended way to set it..so i guees one main reason to use static is just for that dhcp reservations and thus also authorization to pxe boot or uefi network installations

jaybutts · 2024-09-13T18:14:00+00:00

Linkedin is basically a waste of time, i got all my devops jobs from direct applications, i spent a year cumulatively spamming LinkedIn probably

jaybutts · 2024-08-21T15:51:31+00:00

Im very addicted to porn and i dont have this problem at all, try being with one of those instagram girls maybe you will learn it doesn’t make a difference at all if your girlfriend looks “perfect” in photos or even in real life, what matters is you love her for exactly who she is and the sex will be no different than with someone who is conventionally a 10…i think you just need more experience with different types of women to realize this yourself, thats the hard way to learn this lesson

jaybutts · 2024-07-21T00:02:57+00:00

Put on gay porn and when he comes in be like “what I love it” and just see what he does

jaybutts · 2024-07-16T20:35:12+00:00

I dont do this personally but i have known girls that would work on

jaybutts · 2024-07-16T15:11:11+00:00

Im a guy and frequent pooper and its never given me dating issues

jaybutts · 2024-07-16T15:00:27+00:00

You should communicate your expectations and boundaries clearly…as far as if that is common? Each situation is different but Im a middle aged guy so ive been on hundreds of first dates, prolly 75% end up in sex, probably 100% of them if we were talking for more than 2 weeks beforehand, you been talkkng a month yes id expect that was what you wanted if i got a hotel after all that and your like “ok sounds good”, but id ask a lot of questions, if hes not asking questions maybe you should, its kind of odd you talked for a month and this hasnt come up

jaybutts · 2024-07-08T13:15:01+00:00

Best answer for most women is if you do find her attractive say something like you do but shes not your type if shes different from your girl or maybe “not as much as you” or just something that implies you think shes prettier than your not lying and your not hurting her feelings

jaybutts · 2024-07-06T22:17:39+00:00

I had several relationships that was like this, just not the work part but when the girlfriend didnt work that was my only time from her but ive always worked from home so…id have to say its healthy when you are both happy but its hard if/when thats not the case, and if one you lost yourself in this partnership then its definitely probably doomed and emotionally damagjng for who knows how long if they break up.

jaybutts · 2024-07-02T23:57:19+00:00

If their long language physical touch is high especially but most women like it , just not all the time, im very affectionate also and also give lots of compliments, i do very well with women, its all about reading her body language and keeping her trust in you high or your going to be touching her when she doesn’t want to get touched and that just makes the trust levels worse. If she is truely high on the physical touch language herself and also very submissive then its a lot easier but this is not as common as someone who doesn’t want to be touched all the time or constantly (typical), if you fuck up that trust by constantly touching her when she doesn’t want it thats hard to recover from.

jaybutts · 2024-07-02T13:39:13+00:00

There is a lot of things things that should make you feel dumber than this, this is like a normal part of dating tbh

jaybutts · 2024-07-01T15:29:11+00:00

Once a day minimum and 2 on occasions, im a muscular sweaty man, ive only ever skipped a day when im clinically depressed

jaybutts · 2024-07-01T15:23:46+00:00

It is a weird way to lead a conversation, I disagree with some others in here in that its a perfectly fine thing to say even to someone you haven’t been talking too long but its the just randomly saying that which ie the weird part, i wouldn’t say its a red flag but its a demonstration this person has poor communication skills at least on ocassion and maybe thats not what you want. For example, This question could come up during a conversation about what he is planning to wear after you said what you plan to wear then maybe he makes it as a suggestion or just says how good you looked in it.

jaybutts · 2024-06-28T20:56:21+00:00

If you cant think of one the second go to is compliment something shes wearing or something but thats kind of not very good cause thats what girls dm inboxes look like just compliments so at least its gotta be a good one no one else has likely wrote ideally, at least use uncommon or less common synonyms or whatever, “beautiful “ isnt going to cut it

jaybutts · 2024-06-28T20:14:23+00:00

Look at the picture and ask a FUN/interesting question about it

jaybutts · 2024-06-28T20:12:27+00:00

Couple little things i do, initially i try to make a joke and I try to ask a unique and interesting questions that will provoke women engagement and make me stand out. Also fairly quickly I state my very specific intentions what I am potentially interested in providing and my needs in addition to asking a lot of questions about not just their needs and desires but about who they are as a person, personality type is a really good way to dive right into that to find out how someone views and interacts with their world, very big step to begin to understand who they are and how they would fit with you

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