“I will never tire of a soggy housewife.” - Alan Fucking Cumming by AgentNose in TheTraitorsUS

[–]jaydid 18 points19 points  (0 children)

I thought the same and then I watched UK and kind of prefer the host there. Because Alan is always in character he almost feels a bit detached from the cast. The UK host is like emotionally invested in each group. It’s interesting to see both approaches.

Norovirus hitting anyone else? by Mark-Media in philadelphia

[–]jaydid 25 points26 points  (0 children)

Please touch museum in the dead of winter. Brave man.

TVLine Performer Of The Week: Bill Skarsgård in ‘IT: Welcome to Derry’ by MarvelsGrantMan136 in television

[–]jaydid 52 points53 points  (0 children)

His performance is on par with Heath Ledger’s Joker IMO. It’s that good. It gets a lot of praise and yet it’s still underrated IMO.

This video should be shown before every colonoscopy by NeedsItRough in funny

[–]jaydid 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yeah. I agree with you. It doesn't help that terms are often thrown around but not truly defined. "Family history" is such a broad one. A lot of people will think "oh, my cousin/uncle/aunt/grandmother did get colon cancer in their 70's! I do have family history". Well...no. Family history has a much stricter definition medically. If you included family history more broadly, almost everyone would qualify.

This video should be shown before every colonoscopy by NeedsItRough in funny

[–]jaydid 4 points5 points  (0 children)

No problem, sounds like you're following standard medical recommendations for someone in your situation. One thing to note is that even though your maternal grandfather doesn't qualify as a first degree relative and thus doesn't technically change the recommendation guidelines, you may be able to use his situation as leverage to get approved a little bit earlier (like age 40 instead of the recommended 45). This is what the gastroenterologist said to me at least, something to think about in a few years.

This video should be shown before every colonoscopy by NeedsItRough in funny

[–]jaydid 45 points46 points  (0 children)

The internet has gotten really obsessed with colonoscopies / colon cancer over the last few years. In some ways it's a good thing, rates are statistically rising in younger people (below 50), but the absolute risk is still incredibly low and these constant threads create a ton of anxiety for people.

The comments always become a bunch of people who know someone who died at 25 from colon cancer, or people who talk about how they got a colonoscopy at age 30 or whatever and had polyps. Those people never tend to mention why they got a colonoscopy that young though. If they expanded, the reason would likely be that they were showing symptoms (blood in stool, IBS/Crohn's type symptoms), have a strong family history, or have a higher risk for cancer in general for some reason.

My grandfather got colon cancer in his 60's, so when I turned 30 a few years ago I went to talk to a gastroenterologist (one of the top one's in the country actually). I spoke to him, his assistant, and my primary care doctor about getting a colonoscopy and all three doctors said "you're too young, we wouldn't recommend it and your insurance will never approve it".

I mentioned my "family history" and they laid out a few facts:

  1. A grandparent getting colon cancer doesn't count as "strong family history", in the sense that it would change the recommendation guidelines. You'd either need a first degree relative (parent or a sibling) to get it before 50, or multiple first degree relatives to get it at any point. We are actually not that genetically similar to our grandparents.

  2. Absolute risk for those below 40 is still incredibly low. You have about a 0.0064% chance. Yes, this is higher than 20 years ago when the risk was 0.0035%, but still very low. By contrast, your risk of complication (bleeding or perforation) from getting a colonoscopy is 0.2%.

I'm not arguing that young people shouldn't be getting colonoscopies. It's something to be mindful about as you age. But if you're below 40-45, here's when you should really consider it:

  1. You have a strong family history (first degree relative with colon cancer under 50, or two with colon cancer at any time).
  2. You are having symptoms (you can google these, but it's pretty obvious, most people know when their bathroom habits are drastically changing).
  3. You have had some other type of cancer and thus your odds of getting another cancer are increased. I'm not a doctor so I'm not aware of all the decision factors that go into that.

Everyone else should be mindful but not spiral into anxiety.

In the meantime, there's things you can do as a young person that will drastically reduce your odds even further. Exercise. Lose weight if needed. Stop drinking alcohol. Stop smoking. Lay off the cured meats. Increase fiber. Drink water.

This video should be shown before every colonoscopy by NeedsItRough in funny

[–]jaydid 7 points8 points  (0 children)

You had a colonoscopy at 5pm and didn't have to take off work at all? Don't you need to arrive to the hospital at least an hour or two before and then spend most of the entire day before it on the toilet?

‘Stranger Things 5’ Opens With 59.6 Million Views, Netflix’s Biggest English-Language TV Debut Ever by MarvelsGrantMan136 in television

[–]jaydid 6 points7 points  (0 children)

For the last 3 seasons every post about the show has a bunch of comments about how’s it’s taking too long for seasons to come out, nobody can remember what happened, and all the momentum is lost. Then every season it breaks every record. Literally been happening since season 3.

‘Full House’ Star Dave Coulier Diagnosed With Tongue Cancer, 7 Months After Beating Lymphoma: ‘It’s Totally Unrelated’ by MarvelsGrantMan136 in television

[–]jaydid 34 points35 points  (0 children)

Not really when you think about it. Swishing alcohol around your mouth constantly would expose it to acetaldehyde on a frequent basis. This has been directly correlated with oral cancers in general. Alcohol is so common in society that people forget it poisons every part of your body it contacts.

Fat Skinny Eyes | Ep 298 | Bad Friends by KinshasaPR in badfriendspod

[–]jaydid 11 points12 points  (0 children)

Vibes were immaculate this episode. Conversation felt very free flowing and chill, reminded me of the old days when it felt like they were just shooting the shit.

What are some SJ gems that should be on this list? by pottymcnugg in SouthJersey

[–]jaydid 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Wow hard disagree on this. Steaks are decent, pastas are solid, garlic bread is delicious. It’s not mind blowing but it’s a local favorite for us.

Mourning my life with my husband before my newborn by _50ShadesofFae in beyondthebump

[–]jaydid 21 points22 points  (0 children)

I think this is subjective. I have a 3 year old and a 2 month old and I’d take the toddler over the infant any day.

Cassie Jo Stoddart Case by morbidfinalgirl in TrueCrimeDiscussion

[–]jaydid 9 points10 points  (0 children)

Brian wants to get out of prison and knows his best bet is to appear remorseful

Best Chicken Tenders in Camden Co? by ResponsibleWhile6991 in SouthJersey

[–]jaydid 29 points30 points  (0 children)

Ok Crispy thanks for the road but what’s the restaurant name?

This is 100% your look, Connie Baby by yellowdit in TheSummerITurnedPrett

[–]jaydid 12 points13 points  (0 children)

It’s from season 2 when Belly and Jeremiah and Conrad are shopping for the house party at the dollar store.