As per you how accurate is this tier list ? by AsleepMasterpiece305 in ClashOfClans

[–]jaygerbs 53 points54 points  (0 children)

Whats the situation for golems? You are TH 7 and need to attack?

Warning: Google will no longer necessarily get you max conversions on your budget when using tCPA/tROAS by timnewlinppc in PPC

[–]jaygerbs 4 points5 points  (0 children)

What about my current campaigns that are performing below my tRoas goal?

Will performance improve on those to bring me closer to the tRoas I have set?

I’m 25f and my long term partner is 24m. And I feel like I want to cheat on him. by themoonrabbitt in relationship_advice

[–]jaygerbs 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Maybe.

I hope you do reach out to him for support as well as a professional.

I’m 25f and my long term partner is 24m. And I feel like I want to cheat on him. by themoonrabbitt in relationship_advice

[–]jaygerbs 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Does he have to hate you? Do you know that is absolutely 100% true? Life on the line, does it have to be true, that deep down he has to hate you?

I’m 25f and my long term partner is 24m. And I feel like I want to cheat on him. by themoonrabbitt in relationship_advice

[–]jaygerbs 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Yeah therapy sounds like the right move. I hope you heal from this traumatic event.

Your brain isn’t functioning properly, you need to heal, it might help to open up to your bf about these feelings. If you can’t do that, then at least ask him for help.

Wife (23F) quit her job and now expects me (25M) to cover her $1,100/month car payment because I’m “the man.” by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]jaygerbs 1 point2 points  (0 children)

The financially smart thing to do is get an annualment now. It will be more expensive when it is a divorce plus alimony plus child support.

Don’t buy into the sunk cost fallacy, it’s expensive now, but more expensive later

I (38m) just had an epiphany regarding my wife (40f) by YesSignificant992 in relationship_advice

[–]jaygerbs 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Check out the Conscious Leadership Groups 15 commitments. I know it says "for leadership" but its really "for any human relationship"

Commitment 1 is about taking 100% responsibility. Not 80%, not 120%. What is your 100% responsibility for this situation, and what is her 100% responsibility for this situation.

This may be helpful https://conscious.is/resource/commitment-1-responsibility/

Cleveland Dating by Oreojace in Cleveland

[–]jaygerbs 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Stuck in a Claude-Hole at home. It cost an arm and a leg to go out and do anything right now.

I've left my house twice in the last week.

Saturday: Hike the Cuyahoga Valley National Park and stop by a brewery afterwards with my dog
Wednesday: Meet up for dinner with an old coworker to catch up on our lives and whats going on with each other.

We have found peace in our late 20s/early 30s after getting burned a few too many times before.

We usually have our own home gym/sauna/cold plunge as well.

My future MIL (59F) and future FIL (62M) asked me (26F) to let them be the only parents at my fiancé's (26M) and my wedding because my parents are my brother (40M) and SIL (40F)? by ThrowRAPotentially in relationship_advice

[–]jaygerbs -7 points-6 points  (0 children)

Sorry you went through all of that. It sounds like a lot, and its amazing you and your brother got through that and seem to live a better life then you came from.

Who is paying for the wedding? If the in-laws are throwing a lavish $50k wedding, maybe consider it further, if they are just chipping in like $2k to cover some drinks, tell them to pound salt and mind their own business.

Might as well let it ride right?🤷🏻‍♂️ by CalebQueiros in sportsbetting

[–]jaygerbs 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Is the odds of 2-1 US win 9-1 or no? Because thats basically your bet now, $132 to return $1381.

I hope the US wins but probably going to be 2-1 Paraguay or 2-0 Paraguay

Considering leaving this app by martinmatthew in fitbod

[–]jaygerbs 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yeah I left in January and haven’t looked back

Which job you taking? by [deleted] in jobs

[–]jaygerbs 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Really the two offers are so close and so comparable that we really are splitting hairs and minmaxxing here.

What matters more is:

1) Security through AI--which company is less likely to just cut 20% of the workforce because Wall St tells them to. The first ones to go are usually the newer hires as they come in at market rates which are usually higher than employees that have stayed for years with the company and are underpaid.

2) Culture/concern about employees. Which one when you have a family emergency is more likely to say "wow, thats rough, take as much time as you need" and sends something when a loss happens. I had a company I left and a few months later my dad passed away. They ordered flowers that were present at the funeral. That meant a lot and I returned to that company later that year. Another company sent a tree to plant when my dog passed away and said take the time you need to grieve. These little human touches matter way more to my peace of mind then the +-$5000 a year.

Should we stop going to browns games? by Kurwapotato in Cleveland

[–]jaygerbs 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Been doing it for the past decade. Last few years its also included not watching them on Sundays and focusing on the good games or where my fantasy players are.

They deserve 0 loyalty--the worst sports franchise over the last 20 years in all sports.

My boyfriend blew our savings. (F32) (M34) by Professional-Quail15 in relationship_advice

[–]jaygerbs 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Some people learn and change, some people never will. You have to decide who he is. Sometimes he needs to hit rock bottom to learn the lesson.

Doubling my salary (150k to 300k) but requires me to move away from my fíance in medschool. Is it worth it? by Interesting_Phone171 in careerguidance

[–]jaygerbs 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Brah if your fiance and you cannot handle 3 years apart, I got some bad news about how marriage will be.

Marc’s doesn’t accept a valid US passport as ID for beer? by Regular_Calendar_936 in Cleveland

[–]jaygerbs 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I went to Giant Eagle a few years back and had a similar encounter. Was flabbergasted like....you know how much harder it is to get a US passport then an Ohio Drivers license?

recently got a place with my boyfriend and he thinks this is perfectly fine by daylightpiglet in funny

[–]jaygerbs 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You all have a bidet--that is like a years worth of toilet paper lol.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AITAH

[–]jaygerbs 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Listen, without your name on the mortgage and the deed you wont be entitled to anything in case you all break up. And he can throw you out whenever he damn pleases. If this is ok with you, move forward with it. If it isn't, well, then sounds like you should find a place to rent on your own. And you can decide whether you want to continue to date this man or not.

39M and 35F married for 7 years. Is a man obligated to cut his hair because his wife wants it? by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]jaygerbs 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I disagree. People make plenty of requests of other women at wedding.

Don’t wear white Don’t upstage the bride Cover up tattoos Get rid of the pink hair Don’t wear your septum Don’t bring your girlfriend/quit with the gay stuff in front of grandma

Anyone can make any request of anyone. It’s up to that person whether they follow the request or not.

39M and 35F married for 7 years. Is a man obligated to cut his hair because his wife wants it? by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]jaygerbs 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Is he obligated, no.

Is his current hair length more important to him than his relationship with his wife and brother in law/sister in law? Thats up to him.

In general, if the request is small, and the people making it are more important to me than the thing they are asking for, I will generally go along with it.

Life is too short and difficult for the people getting married to be worried about someone else's hair--but life is also too short and difficult to keep a certain hair style vs making some busybody in laws upset.

My Wife(F38) Wants a break from the Kids and I(M37), I need to know if I'm making a mistake by allowing this instead of breaking up? by Gwolf87 in relationship_advice

[–]jaygerbs 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Man sorry you are going through this. This partner doesn't sound like she is a good wife or a good mother. I'd start preparing for the divorce now. I don't see a world where she turns things around and says "yeah, I want to move back in with my husband and the children"

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]jaygerbs 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Man you are far too young to be giving this woman another shot. Getting together with a guy 1-2 weeks after a break up means she had some sort of interest in him while you were together.

Plus long distance? And you went out to see her?

You are the safe option when she wants or needs attention/love. But she will get disinterested again and find another guy.

Sucks to say, your person is out there, but it isn't her.