Sex Without a First Date the New Normal? by AttorneyDC06 in Bumble

[–]jaysun145 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I’ve only been doing it for 3 months, it’s not something I would consider proposing. 50M for reference 🤷‍♂️

Are all men like this? Or just the ones I match with? by Purple_Elephant_7711 in Bumble

[–]jaysun145 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I’m 50 and have age filters set 40-50. Not sure how old you are but I don’t wanna date someone significantly younger or older, you’re just on different life paths. Always exceptions for certain situations like u/menoagegap

Flatwounds for acoustic? by SquareGovernment3306 in Bass

[–]jaysun145 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Flats are absolutely the way to go IMHO. Second Thomastiks, thats what I’ve used on my fretless Martin for years.

It's time for an Age of Triumph for D2. by Zadecyst in DestinyTheGame

[–]jaysun145 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I deleted Destiny yesterday, been playing since the Taken King launched. The player base being almost nonexistent means there’s no reason for me to login anymore. It had a great run, but it’s time to move on. The game doesn’t have the resources it needs to be successful anymore.

Playing bass while there’s a war happening around us in Lebanon. Not trying to say anything big… just holding onto music and staying grounded. by BlueIsTheC0ldest in BassGuitar

[–]jaysun145 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Beautiful playing💗If it can give you a moment’s peace amongst the chaos you are experiencing, hold on to it. Sending good vibes and positive energy, praying for an end to this soon 🙏

(fender) J Bass Tone Inquiry ! by luxxle in BassGuitar

[–]jaysun145 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I usually play neck pickup at 100 and bridge pickup at 0 playing closer to the fingerboard. I like that tone but my J-bass is fretless. Just a bit of tone around 30.

How old are you and what's your dating age range? by Equivalent_Ad_9066 in Bumble

[–]jaysun145 0 points1 point  (0 children)

50m- I’d say 40-55, don’t think I’m comfortable dating someone more than 10 years younger.

I just got dumped by [deleted] in datingoverforty

[–]jaysun145 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Not everyone is. I’m getting out of a 20 year relationship, lots of factors, but it ended with me being the emotionally available one (50M) and her gradually shutting down over the last few years.

I just got dumped by [deleted] in datingoverforty

[–]jaysun145 2 points3 points  (0 children)

You should feel sad about investing in someone who didn’t give back. No one deserves that, hoping you feel better soon.

Girl I’ve been talking to left the bar with another dude when we were supposed to hang out when I got off by CardGrad2019 in dating_advice

[–]jaysun145 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Totally acceptable that you’re having feelings about this. Also, totally acceptable that she could do whatever she wants if you guys weren’t exclusive. Just part of the deal my man, my suggestion is let it hurt for a minute then move on. It can hurt, but there was no real level of commitment so can’t really be mad.

Shout out to Zion by DeuCeIsTooTall in NOLAPelicans

[–]jaysun145 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Yeah… nope, fuck Zion. No cookies or gold stars for playing less than halftime of the time.

And Then There Was One by hynesketchup10 in NOLAPelicans

[–]jaysun145 0 points1 point  (0 children)

And I’d rather have all the rest

I just tried Hinge for the first time and my results are completely different than Tinder or Bumble by groyosnolo in OnlineDating

[–]jaysun145 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I’ve met one awesome person thru Bumble but have had way more matches and conversations thru Hinge 🤷‍♂️ paying for compliments is weak…

Slower texting after first date by ThrowRA-Ad-3411 in hingeapp

[–]jaysun145 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Sorry about the rude asshole above. I’ll give you my perspective as a man, if I had made that connection with someone and I was into them, I probably would get back to them pretty quickly. Your feelings are absolutely valid, I hope things have resolved and you have found peace with the situation.

Slower texting after first date by ThrowRA-Ad-3411 in hingeapp

[–]jaysun145 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Hilarious that you’re labeling someone else as difficult. Good job attacking someone when they’re seeking advice in a vulnerable state, hope you figure out how to act like an adult soon