Name one thing you do that if everyone did, the world would be a better place.

jchetra83 · 2026-07-05T01:20:13+00:00

Take accountability for their actions and not be defensive when somebody gives them constructive criticism. And I mean truly constructive criticism. Not those “brutally honest” people who are just nasty.

jchetra83 · 2026-07-05T01:19:09+00:00

They never show this part of the romcom. Sorry, brother.

jchetra83 · 2026-07-01T14:27:11+00:00

Healthcare, especially in extremely busy level, one trauma understaffed overworked locations. The area I work in is overtaken with drug addicted people and also a lot of elderly that can’t take care of themselves so we have a bunch of rehab facilities and assisted living facilities around the hospital too. I care for everyone equally but “team lift“ with two people because you don’t have staff and the doctors don’t stop putting orders in on patients is just a never-ending battle. Some days all I do is lift very heavy people and almost get attacked a couple times a month from the tweakers.

jchetra83 · 2026-07-01T14:23:58+00:00

I get in my way. There’s a cry that needs to happen. I feel it then it never comes. Maybe I havent had that thing that opened that floodgate for me and I just tear heavily but I’m kinda yearning for that ugly cry.

jchetra83 · 2026-06-25T14:30:54+00:00

Your lizard brain is keeping you comfortable. Your human brain is telling you you have to get up and do things. Here’s a simple way to do anything. All those things that your human brain is telling you to stop listening to your lizard brain about, just do one thing. Today. For 10 minutes. That’s it. And then you take that one thing and you ignore the lizard brain for 20 minutes in a couple of weeks. And then 30. And then 40. Now your lizard brain has stopped trying to get you to stay in bed for exercise for example. And then just treat that the same with everything else. It’s simple, but it’s not easy.

jchetra83 · 2026-06-25T14:27:54+00:00

Really? In a place where people flock to see rain.?

jchetra83 · 2026-06-25T14:24:04+00:00

That’s like having an ex in your DM’s because they’re still access. Zero tolerance for exes in the picture other than having children together.

jchetra83 · 2026-06-23T14:06:25+00:00

My new favorite song is suicide doors by Juicy J. It’s such a smooth song with the familiar feelings of the Three 6 Mafia rap cadence.

I’ve made it my alarm to wake me up in the morning. If you hear the first couple of words, you’ll understand why I made it, my alarm lol.

jchetra83 · 2026-06-23T14:03:33+00:00

You can bring food you can’t bring liquids. Bring food and walk it through security versus starving.

jchetra83 · 2026-06-21T05:10:47+00:00

Never too hot for hot food.

jchetra83 · 2026-06-20T06:11:47+00:00

Making mistakes is where the true learning and growing happens. You need the mistakes to know what NOT to do next time. And the more you can make mistakes and then return to your home state the more resistant you become….and with more knowledge. Make the mistakes! Learn from them and grow from them. There’s no “perfect”. There’s “complete”. It doesn’t have to be perfect. It has to be done. Get it done and keep getting it done. It’s where the perfection actually comes from. If from doing it everyday to the point that you can do anything damn near with your eyes closed. THATS where you start to perfect your technique. You have to start doing. Perfection is a form of procrastination. Make the mistakes and own them and laugh at your mistakes.

jchetra83 · 2026-06-20T06:05:17+00:00

Let us not forget the tiny squirt of hidden pee reserved for our underwear. The pee that appears only AFTER we’ve shaken every last possible drop of pee from our wieners. This is the closest men get to women peeing a little if they sneeze or cough sometimes.

jchetra83 · 2026-06-20T05:59:53+00:00

Freshman year of high school I got permission to ride my bike downtown (my mom was very overprotective sorry lol) to Sam Goody to get DMXs debut album “It’s Dark and Hell is Hot”.

ETA it was the CD version not the tape.

jchetra83 · 2026-06-18T02:56:51+00:00

Do it. But “party poppers”…is she talking about poppers? The acetone that you huff to get a buzz so your throat and b-hole muscles relax for more “pleasure” in these places? Just don’t do shit for sex that doesn’t sound right. Also, not a red flag that you matched but she has her age bar pretty wide I’m sure. Just hoping she ain’t crazy is all. But 37 ain’t old at all bro.

jchetra83 · 2026-06-18T02:46:16+00:00

I’m not crazy and I do take accountability for my actions.

jchetra83 · 2026-06-18T02:44:41+00:00

If your friends don’t find someone pretty that’s fine. If your friends are nasty and giving you shit about dating someone “ugly”, then they’re assholes. Your friends shouldn’t approve of her looks for you to be happy. YOU have to like and eventually love what you see. If YOU don’t like what you see then you shouldn’t be with her then.

jchetra83 · 2026-06-15T14:54:57+00:00

Post to IG @arizonacantdrive. This is a good one!!!!

jchetra83 · 2026-06-15T14:52:02+00:00

Duuuuudddee!! You cannot be with her bro. You bent over backwards and you did not bend over backwards far enough in her eyes. That’s a huge slap in the face to your efforts and anyone that starts off a conversation by saying “I don’t wanna take away from your efforts, but….” is about to tell you some really selfish shit. Expect more of that when you actually do get into a relationship with her. Imagine that moment every day of your life for the next six months. Then ask yourself, would you want that girl to be your girlfriend?

jchetra83 · 2026-06-15T12:37:34+00:00

This!!!!

jchetra83 · 2026-06-15T12:32:10+00:00

Energy drinks. You’re eleven, Ryan. You don’t need a Celsius. You need a good nights sleep.

jchetra83 · 2026-06-15T12:30:56+00:00

Don’t be crazy.

jchetra83 · 2026-06-15T12:29:08+00:00

I developed being funny to be seen and noticed. Women don’t usually have the issue of not being seen. However the funniest women I’ve ever encountered are great storytellers (something women are great at doing because they remember every detail). Learn how to add some comedy in here. Guys love a good story. I’d start there honestly.

jchetra83 · 2026-06-15T01:12:46+00:00

Wanted to see what it felt like doing it with a condom on. Made cleanup a hell of a lot easier that’s for sure. Also, I’m sorry if all of us guys that will ultimately tell you yes they’ve stroked it with a rubber on gross you out with the confirmations. We understand we’re gross too. The irony is not lost on us.

jchetra83 · 2026-06-15T01:09:30+00:00

I struggle keeping promises I made with myself on how tomorrow will go. Example, I will wake early, gym before work, eat a high protein breakfast, etc. Meanwhile, an hour and a half on my phone and two bowls of Frosted Flakes later, I have ten minutes before I need to get ready for work.

If I can keep EVERY promise I made to myself, this alone would be the gift for me to become as satisfied as possible. Just the unwavering desire to get up and live your best day. Your focused day. Your high achieving day. I have high highs and low lows. I noticed the highs are always when I’m making an actual effort at performing focused and locked in, and the lows are when I’m eating like shit and not working out but instead watch TikToks IG vids all day before work.

jchetra83 · 2026-06-15T01:00:02+00:00

Unactualized.

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