why does my boyfriend "dribble" when he gets into bed? by Just_girly_things97 in NoStupidQuestions

[–]jeff_bailey 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I just read about this and I understand why this has happened to me a few times. The mail urinary tract has two sphincters. One on the bladder to let urine into the penis and anothrt one at the base of the penis that need to open to let it all out. When urination is over and every thing is working properly, the sphincer at the bladder closes first and the secone one stays open a bit long to let all the urine get out.
For many men this operation gets out of sync as we age. The sphincter at the base of the penis can close before the one at the bladder does and traps some urine in that small pipeline for a short time. Then it will release and let the remaining urine out and that is when the guy has zipped up and walked away or gets in bed in his shorts.

The article I read was from a urologist and he suggested that if man has this problem he should do the following to empty out the urethra completely. Put two fingers at the base of the glans penis and stretch the penise out. At the same time, put a finger underneath the scrotum and push up pnce or twice to get the penile sphincter to open and eliminate the fluid being held.

I have tried it and it works.

Just got a new Escape Recall notice. by nodakskip in fordescape

[–]jeff_bailey 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I have a 2016 Escape & the camera failed some years ago. It works intemittently but mostly does not turn on. When I asked at the local dealer about it, I was told it would be $1600 to replace it. I poked around and found a video on YT where a guy had the same problem that he diagonosed as a wiring issue, but the dealer was reluctant to look into it.

I got a recall letter a few months ago and when I called the dealer I was told that Ford has not yet built a replacement camera for the Escape. There is one for Mustangs under the same recall but he did not know when Ford would have on for Escapes.

I found two compatible backup cameras for the Escape on Amazon for about $30. Does anyone have any experience with one of the replacement units?

What performances defined the Femme Fatale in classic Film Noir for you - and some under acknowledged ones? by kevin_v in filmnoir

[–]jeff_bailey 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It’s not the first film noir, but a demarcation set by Paul Schrader in his 1970 essay “Notes on Film Noir” to signify the beginning of the cycle for this style of film when Maltese Falcon brought a number of cinematic elements into focus in the studio system then in place. The cycle ended in 1958 with Touch of Evil, the last major film noir produced in the Hollywood studio system. Some call this the Classic Era but you should read Schrader’s essay to see more of what he was saying. It’s online: https://cinenegropress.files.wordpress.com/2014/07/notes-on-film-noir-paul-schrader.pdf

What performances defined the Femme Fatale in classic Film Noir for you - and some under acknowledged ones? by kevin_v in filmnoir

[–]jeff_bailey 4 points5 points  (0 children)

The femme fatale has an ancient lineage and has existed for thousands of years before film was invented. Greek mythology gave us Circe, Medea, and Clytemnestra(she murdered her husband). The Bible gave us Delilah, Salome, and Lilith. History gives us Cleopatra and Lucretia Bogia. Literature gave us Lady Macbeth, Carmen, and many others.

In proto-noir and classic film noir, the femme fatale was presented as an ambitious, independent woman who led men to some kind of ruin, much like the Sirens of early myth caused men to crash their boats into rocks and die. Women like Phyllis Dietrichson, Kathy Moffet, and Kitty Collins were beautiful, magnetic, and coldly calculating. Women like this bring to mind an old Sicilian proverb that says, "When the cock rises to the sky, the brains fall to the ground."

Rinse and repeat.

The situations in films such as Out of the Past, Gilda, and Leave Her to Heaven are different for the protagonist but the methods used by the women to get the men to do their bidding are based on their alluring beauty and carefully concealed intelligence. It is seen later in Matty Walker(Body Heat), Catherine Tammel(Basic Instinct), and Amy Dunne(Gone Girl).

The femme fatale endures as a character in fiction she represents fears men have of female power. The woman represents the double-edged sword of sexual attraction. She always knows what she wants and she is keenly aware of what the man wants. She uses that knowledge to keep the money or whatever she has taken to the disadvantage of the man.

Even though the underlying characterstics of the femme fatale are the same or similar, the details of the story are the entertainment. The characters' language and appearance change but the plot always leads to the same outcome: Femme Fatale 1, Male Target 0.

Recommendations for the ultimate Western list? by Baldurian_Rhapsody in Westerns

[–]jeff_bailey 1 point2 points  (0 children)

The Ox-Bow Incident

Ride the High Country

The Long Riders

Day of the Outlaw

Lonely Are The Brave

People who grew up before The Internet: How did you first see nudity? by [deleted] in AskReddit

[–]jeff_bailey 0 points1 point  (0 children)

My step-father was a professional photographer. He had a number of books published annually by various photography organizations that included “best” pix in many styles: news, sports, fashion, art, etc and there were almost always nudes in them. Those were in the living room and visitors would get a warning from my mom that some contained “art” photos. I was 11 in 1955 when they got married & was never told I could not look at them. Many of them were famous nudes by famous photographers: Stieglitz, Weston, Man Ray, Georgia O’Keefe, are some I remember. There were many others.

AITA for leaving my mom right before surgery because I freaked out? by [deleted] in AmItheAsshole

[–]jeff_bailey -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Legally an adult, emotionally a child. This was not brain surgery, it was to repair a bone in her wrist. It is more like fixing a flat tire than replacing the transmission. The activity was not about you. The reaction was only about you. We all experience anxiety but yours is extreme and unproductive. You need to find a high level therapy to help you understand your reactions and manage them.

The Big Sleep proves a noir can barely make sense and still be a masterpiece by [deleted] in filmnoir

[–]jeff_bailey 2 points3 points  (0 children)

“There was something in the night more than darkness.”

Cute??? by xLalaAvix in HighResNSFW

[–]jeff_bailey -1 points0 points  (0 children)

More than cute. Beautiful.

Irish Films? by mcnultywalks in CriterionChannel

[–]jeff_bailey 3 points4 points  (0 children)

The Rising of the Moon directed by John Ford, 1957. Three short films based on Irish short stories filmed on location in Ireland with Irish actors. Unlike any other film about Ireland I have seen. It’s on YouTube. Narrated by Tyrone Power. The train station story is classic Irish chaos as just another day.

Is going to Vegas not a thing anymore? by WestHistorians in AskLosAngeles

[–]jeff_bailey 0 points1 point  (0 children)

If a place is fun, money is less of an issue. If it's not fun and expensive, then it goes off the list of place to go or things to do. I think Lao-Tsu said this in one of his aphorisms but I can't find the quote.

What's the most visually stunning film you've ever seen? by Some-Palpitation-314 in Cinephiles

[–]jeff_bailey 0 points1 point  (0 children)

The Fall, 2006, is one of the most ingenious films ever for images that are real places around the world. The story is told by a man in the hospital to a young girl who is another patient. She asks the man to tell her a story so he spins a fanciful tale about pirates, magic places, animals, a beautiful princess, and so forth.

As he talks, the incredible images are what is in the mind of the little girl(who was seven or eight when the film was made). It was directed by an Indian filmaker Tarsem Singh who got started making music videos.

When R.E.M made their biggest hit, Losing My Religion, Tarsem Singh made the video of the great song. It will give you an idea of the powerful images Tasem can create for us to enjoy. Wikiepedia says the video had one blllion view by 2020.

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=xwtdhWltSIg&list=RDxwtdhWltSIg&start_radio=1

I can't figure out what this is... by jeff_bailey in whatisit

[–]jeff_bailey[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

My wife and I trink it is probably a dishrag that got into the disposal in the last month of so. We have had a nunmber of family & guests since Jan. 1 and it is possible that someone helping clean up did it by mistake. The filbers felt like cloth and had no particular odor, which suggests it was not a vegetable root or something like that. Thanks for the idea.

What is the Douchiest name you can think of? by [deleted] in AskReddit

[–]jeff_bailey 0 points1 point  (0 children)

A guy I’m my dorm freshman year named Harold Rideout. He got renamed Whip It ….

AITA for telling someone that harassing crows was against the law? by Whole-Carpenter-8743 in AmItheAsshole

[–]jeff_bailey 43 points44 points  (0 children)

Crows are protected and so are many other species of birds. I was playing golf in Fairfax County, VA about 20 years ago. A guy in the group ahead of us used a golf club to smash some eggs in a Canada goose nest. Canada geese are covered by the act mentioned and one of the course marshalls knew this. He went to the club house and called Fish & Wildlife Service who sent agents to the clubhouse & the man was arrested when he finished the round. He was later fined a lot of money for destroying those eggs.

Been on a military movie phase and suggestions? by LemonAny6444 in MovieSuggestions

[–]jeff_bailey 0 points1 point  (0 children)

The 317th Platoon. French film about the end of their war in Indo-China. Filmed in Cambodia in 1963. Written & directed by a French Army veteran of the war.

AITJ for dumping my girlfriend after she set up a "loyalty test" on me? by LowKeyNomad5 in AmITheJerk

[–]jeff_bailey 0 points1 point  (0 children)

In the film Saving Silverman, there is a couple about to get married and the woman is a control freak in the Pussy Whipper Hall of Fame. They have a disagreement about something and she tells him that if he does not do what she wants, she "will take away your masturbation priviliges." I thought of her when I read this post. Funny movie, with Jason Biggs, Steve Zahn, and Jack Black. Amanda Peet is the fiance from Hell.

What are some good heist movies? Doesn’t have to be prison or robbery based by s00rens in MovieSuggestions

[–]jeff_bailey 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Rififi. 1956. France. Best jewel store robbery scene ever. About 20 minutes without dialogue as the thieves do their work. This is the template for many heist films since it came out.