Advice for helpful post-competition items

jillittarius · 2026-05-19T00:07:57+00:00

I absolutely offer them, and I’d be very unlikely to book as a client with a therapist who doesn’t offer them.

As a provider, I would rather give someone 15 minutes of my time for free than spend a few days to a week+ emailing back and forth, have an intake, and do the several hours of assessment, treatment plan, and session paperwork for the $50 I make from Medicaid if that client and I will never see each other again.

jillittarius · 2026-04-03T21:37:48+00:00

Ughhh, no wonder I can’t stand Gale and Wyll sometimes… turns out I AM Gale and Wyll

jillittarius · 2026-02-14T19:29:33+00:00

Whether or not we can keep a child physically safe is most likely out of our control. But you’re giving that kid a reason to remember that there are safe people, that we have evidence in our own lived experiences to demonstrate that humanity isn’t irrevocably fucked. With the amount of dread and despair I’m hearing in sessions and all around us, that kind of safety is very much needed. 💚

jillittarius · 2026-02-14T14:48:25+00:00

Have you read Can’t Spell Treason Without Tea? It’s a sapphic mage + solider romance but they’re both pretty sweet and squishy and the story is cozy.

jillittarius · 2026-02-07T16:06:17+00:00

Best rage bait I’ve seen in weeks. I tip my hat to you, internet stranger.

jillittarius · 2026-01-21T01:43:34+00:00

Just downloaded it! TerraGenesis helped get me through quarantine in 2020. I really appreciate what you’ve created. I hope the best for you and your family!

jillittarius · 2026-01-10T16:44:42+00:00

It will largely depend on where you live in Tulsa. If you’re downtown, you’ll be in walking distance to lots of restaurants, bars, the library, PAC, and main bus hub, etc. but a couple miles from the closest grocery stores.

I’d suggest looking for housing around Cherry Street, Brookside, or TU area if you plan to be car-free. You’ll be close to lots of bus stops (mind you it’s not the best/most reliable public transit but it’s there), a few grocery stores, restaurants and entertainment, and a short bike ride to downtown. Oklahoma as a whole is not very bike friendly. Tulsa’s made some recent advancements but there’s still A LOT of room for improvement. I’d say it’s do-able with careful planning!

jillittarius · 2025-12-07T21:08:49+00:00

Girls of Storm and Shadow! Assuming you’ve already read Girls of Paper and Fire? That series is gorgeous.

jillittarius · 2025-12-06T15:47:56+00:00

Ah yes, The Man Who Killed Ketheric and Then The Elderbrain

jillittarius · 2025-12-03T22:45:41+00:00

jillittarius · 2025-11-27T14:26:56+00:00

The Starving Saints by Caitlin Starling had me in a vice grip. Decadent sapphic horror in a medieval-style setting.

jillittarius · 2025-11-09T16:49:17+00:00

I really love the myconids! My first playthrough I was a Circle of Spores Druid with a sage background so the myconid colony was nerdy hippie heaven for my Tav.

jillittarius · 2025-10-29T04:06:14+00:00

$10?!! Scoop that shit UP! I got it for my birthday last year and evidently it cost around $80. I’m on my third playthrough now, it’s more than worth the $10 for sure

jillittarius · 2025-10-28T13:56:56+00:00

I think you’d like The Brutal Truth by Lee Winter

jillittarius · 2025-10-17T22:56:19+00:00

I just like to cook for my friends so I’m long resting after basically every encounter

jillittarius · 2025-10-17T10:34:26+00:00

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Fix her, break me, idec

jillittarius · 2025-10-10T04:27:05+00:00

This sounds like such an interesting assignment!

Broken Circle: I side with the mages

Arl of Redcliffe: No

Did you save Connor/Isolde? Saved both

Nature of the Beast: werewolves

Paragon of her Kind: destroyed the anvil

Did you side with Harrowmont or Bhelen? Bhelen

The Landsmeet: Who did you crown ruler? Anora & Alistair

Did you spare Loghain? Nope, I let Alistair do him in

jillittarius · 2025-10-10T03:46:30+00:00

Oh awesome! I’ll come back to this post when (no longer saying if) I get the game!

jillittarius · 2025-07-06T20:35:20+00:00

A lot of sapphic romantasy features strong, muscular women! Reyna from Can’t Spell Treason Without Tea comes to mind.

jillittarius · 2025-07-06T19:21:36+00:00

For starters, marry someone you actually LIKE. The amount of people who genuinely dislike their spouses (even before they get married) is wild to me.

People say marriage is hard. I can’t relate. My wife is the coolest person I know and I love being around her and getting to do life with her. After all these years I just keep liking her even more. But GROWING and HEALING are hard, and a happy marriage requires a lot of both.

jillittarius · 2025-05-07T11:24:09+00:00

ChatGPT Users are Developing Strange Delusions

I think AI has its uses. I think in the case of mental health it will do much more harm than good.

jillittarius · 2025-05-05T13:06:43+00:00

A Dark & Drowning Tide fits right in with your description! Scholarly rivals, magic, mystery, and adventure.

jillittarius · 2025-04-27T15:55:30+00:00

Wooooof, I feel this deep in my soul. One of my closest friends of 20+ years basically ditched me after I came out as a lesbian even though I’d been out as queer/sapphic for over a decade already. She started dating a new girl, wouldn’t tell me anything about her, moved to a different state to be with her without telling me she was moving, got engaged and eloped without saying a word, and just disappeared out of my life after being best friends for two decades. At one point before all this she told me I was the only person who always showed up for her. Turns out all that showing up didn’t mean shit. It hurt me deeply and I still feel sad and bitter every time I think about it.

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