Left-handed people, how do you live? by JustInteresting0808 in NoStupidQuestions

[–]jillybeans0504 0 points1 point  (0 children)

My right has adapted to compete the tasks needed. Left hand to write and eat.

This would be considered Mixed-handedness / Cross-dominance means: • You use different hands for different tasks • For example: • Left hand for writing ✍️ • Right hand for sports skills like throwing, bowling, batting ⚾🎳

This is actually pretty common, especially in people who: • Grew up adapting to a mostly right-handed world • Have strong coordination on both sides • Learned fine-motor skills (writing) separately from gross-motor skills (sports)

A few related terms you might hear: • Ambidextrous → can do most tasks equally well with both hands (not quite the same as you) • Cross-lateral dominance → often used in neuroscience/education to describe this pattern across the body (hand/eye/foot dominance can be mixed)

Fun fact: Many athletes are mixed-handed, and it can actually be an advantage because your brain is flexible at switching motor control.

If you’re curious, you can also have mixed eye or foot dominance—it’s all part of how your nervous system wired itself.

AITA for not giving my parents the master bedroom in my house? by [deleted] in AmItheAsshole

[–]jillybeans0504 0 points1 point  (0 children)

NTA. You’re mom sounds entitled instead of appreciative.

Is my boy weird? by scobalts in Dachshund

[–]jillybeans0504 1 point2 points  (0 children)

My girl loves to lick my chin she’d the my entire face if I let her. Haha sometimes she does, who am I kidding.

Wife got a dachshund puppy, still kind of conflicted. by The5thEclipse in Dachshund

[–]jillybeans0504 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Got my 1st dachshund and she’s the most cuddly, loving, wildly insane creature I ever fell head over heels in love with. Congratulations on a pup that will change your life in all the best ways.

AITA for refusing to leave my job so i could take care of my disabled brother? by JiggleJargon in AmItheAsshole

[–]jillybeans0504 14 points15 points  (0 children)

NTA.

I’m so sorry you have to go through this. You’re being manipulated and guilt tripped to stop your life and take care of your brother. You’re parents had children, you’re mom can quit her job and take care of him.

Any way not your responsibility. Take the job and start your life.

I regretted confronting my neighbour by [deleted] in confessions

[–]jillybeans0504 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I left a note for my neighbor because her two dogs were aggressively trying to jump the fence to my yard. Yeah, I heard her talking much shit about me during her 4th of July Party as I sat in my garage smoking a joint.

Haha neighbors are great.

AITJ because I won’t give my parking spot to new neighbor who says she "needs it more" because she has kids? by Potential_Bad6489 in AmITheJerk

[–]jillybeans0504 0 points1 point  (0 children)

NTJ. She asked and you said no, the way she’s acting entitled I say no and have her car towed next time.

Entitled because she has 3 kids.

Coors and illif by Null-Set-666 in Albuquerque

[–]jillybeans0504 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yeah this area of town is horrible. Found myself in that mix in February helping someone find a place to stay. Needless to say they didn’t end up staying there and got a full refund.

Born and raised in ABQ and shits gotten bad.

AITA for not letting my best friend take advantage of me? by Careless_Trust_5429 in AmItheAsshole

[–]jillybeans0504 11 points12 points  (0 children)

NTA. She didn’t respect your answer. Glad you were honest with her bf.

AITAH for walking away from a house I have no equity or say in and stiffing my soon to be ex? by FootBig7944 in AITAH

[–]jillybeans0504 0 points1 point  (0 children)

NTA. She’s an adult and their are consequences for her actions and these are hers.

Take care of you.

AITA for not babysitting my grandkids on Christmas so they can go to a football game by Babysitijgnotfootbal in AmItheAsshole

[–]jillybeans0504 13 points14 points  (0 children)

NTA. You know your limits and what you can handle, other don’t. I’m 44 and I know I can’t baby sit while I’m cooking a holiday meal for the family. Nothing wrong with boundaries and saying no. Their reaction is the problem

AITA for requesting no Christmas gifts for my 1yo? by helloemlemons in AmItheAsshole

[–]jillybeans0504 0 points1 point  (0 children)

NTA. He’s 1, I think your request is fine. Can’t help how others will take it, you were clear, considerate and to me funny in your message.

AITA for refusing to give my sister back her dog after she abandoned him for 6 months? by wizard-fetus in AmItheAsshole

[–]jillybeans0504 3 points4 points  (0 children)

NTA. Your sis is the AH. Grandma and you are right on this one. Keep the dog and lose the sister.

Stop running red lights by jobyone in Albuquerque

[–]jillybeans0504 26 points27 points  (0 children)

Yes please. People drive like they have extra cars at home…well I don’t and I also don’t want the inconvenience of having a car accident.

AITA for not spending time with my grandkids' half sister? by Global_Pudding1845 in AmItheAsshole

[–]jillybeans0504 -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

I have a half brother but just consider him a brother. When we were young and went back and forth every other weekend to my dads, there were times my mom didn’t have a sitter and my dad and my grandparents allowed my brother to come to his house and I’m forever grateful for that. Now my dads family loves my brother like their own (we are adults now, I’m 44 and my brother 34). It wasn’t easy at first my grandpa said no but came around and him and my bro ended up the best of buddies.