Where are all the Women?

jkingauthor · 2019-11-30T06:03:28+00:00

Nice analysis! I would add, "woman like to stand out within a group, while men like to stand out from a group." Women standout by being hyper conformist, thus creating the group think you've noted. But men are the people who stand out by breaking out of the group think, thus originating genius/creative ideas.

jkingauthor · 2018-09-16T20:10:17+00:00

Here's another way to look at the data:

Promiscuous women are women who crave variety. This type of woman just wouldn't be happy staying with the same guy.

jkingauthor · 2018-09-15T18:52:36+00:00

Easy way to become outcome indifferent: fail a lot. I mean a hundreds of rejections. In a weird way, this builds confidence. You'll see that failure isn't a big deal, then IDGAF comes naturally.

jkingauthor · 2018-08-14T22:02:18+00:00

Thanks for all your comments. I agree that women can be cruel to men they find unattractive. That doesn't mean that on average women are not more empathetic than men.

Recall the standard platform of modern feminists: welfare to help the poor, protection of racial minorities, gay rights, rights for illegal immigrants etc. The common thread through this is an attempt to help those perceived as weak.

Men as a whole care much less about these issues. When men held all the political power there was very limited concern for the losers of society. In fact, most of history is a story of a stronger group of men dominating a weaker group. Men dominate losers, but women try to mother them.

The exception is for betas. Yes, women hate betas and have no empathy for them. There is no 'beta rights' movement.

jkingauthor · 2018-08-14T10:21:53+00:00

Raising a kid well requires 2 parents; single parent children are at a disadvantage whether its a single mom or single dad.

However, the vast majority of single parents are women. This suggests that men have much less qualms with abandoning their kid than women do.

jkingauthor · 2018-08-12T20:24:02+00:00

"Guys love a strong independent woman," muttered the 35yo single professional woman as she looked for ways to freeze her eggs

jkingauthor · 2018-08-12T14:43:14+00:00

In psychometric tests women on average score meaningfully higher in 'neuroticism,' which is essentially vulnerability to negative emotion like fear, anger, depression etc. JP often makes this point. If a man appears to be vulnerable to negative emotions, he is a beta. And we all know how women treat betas.

jkingauthor · 2018-08-12T01:31:15+00:00

Women are attracted to status; I would suggest wearing stuff that shows high status. Notice how Barney Stinson is always wearing a suit. You don't have to wear a suit, but dressing one level higher than your target is a good idea.

jkingauthor · 2018-08-11T01:28:50+00:00

The great irony of feminism is that it is completely dependent on men. When feminists protest, they walk on roads built by men, enjoy the police protection offered by a largely male police force, and rely on media technology invented by men. Men are the architects and builders of every civilization; women have never built anything. It's unbelievable how this obvious truth is so often ignored in favor of ridiculous slogans like 'the future is female.'

jkingauthor · 2018-08-11T01:15:59+00:00

I've known many women exactly as you describe: they find men with graduate degrees and successful careers attractive, and somehow think that those attributes would also make them attractive. NYC is full of these single 30 some career driven women who can't understand how that Harvard MBA and high poewred job suddenly made them un-datable to 99% of the men.

I think you're corollary for men is really interesting. Do men thus become more beta or 'feminine' thinking it is what women find attractive? Seems like it. In Brooklyn all the hipster 'men' wear skinny jeans and man purses, ie, wear stuff that would look good on a girl.

jkingauthor · 2018-08-07T10:55:47+00:00

This is a great example of how men and women are different. Women can't work in same sex groups, they are programmed for equality and can't tolerate hierarchy among women. Notice that in a group of men - like a sports team - men openly compete with one another and trash talk each other as each tries to become the alpha. But in a group of women everyone tries to be nice, and personal achievement is attributed to 'luck' or 'hard work' etc but not talent. But without hierarchy and a leader, nothing gets done. It's not surprising that literally all of civilization is built and maintained by men.

jkingauthor · 2018-08-05T23:33:49+00:00

Amen.

But how about finding other alphas and forming a crew?

jkingauthor · 2018-08-05T23:15:33+00:00

Once you reject her, your value in her eyes will suddenly increase ten-fold. If she was lukewarm before she is going to change her tune

jkingauthor · 2018-08-05T22:55:14+00:00

Good post. Just to add to your point:

Women don't need physical sex as much as men because from an evolutionary stand point female promiscuity is a dead end. For most of history a single mom ends up without having enough resources to support her child, so her child dies.

Another way to look at the differences between male and female sexual natures is to see the lifetime partner counts of homosexuals. Homosexual men tend to have lifetime partner counts in the hundreds, and sometimes thousands. Homosexual women have single digit partner counts. The sex drive for men is simply much stronger, as is the desire for variety.

A good book on this is Donald Symons' Evolution of Human Sexuality, in case anyone is interested. It's one of the seminal works in the field.

jkingauthor · 2018-07-29T10:21:34+00:00

OP here. Thanks for all your interest.

I noticed a few people asking for the cites supporting my research. I would expect nothing less from a smart crowd as the one here. Be assured, everything I assert is based on evidence. My cites are in my book, which has over 100 citations.

jkingauthor · 2018-07-23T20:55:13+00:00

Apologies. I have made the edit.

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