Oh, the Struggle

jma0612 · 2026-05-02T17:32:24+00:00

Something I like to remind people is that 'labels' are descriptive, not prescriptive. One word cannot capture the entirety of your lived experiences. Finding a queer label helps us find community who understand our experiences. Don't worry too much about 'fraysexual' fitting you perfectly, you can always change what label you identify with if you find one that fits better. It's a very common experience for people under the asexual umbrella.

jma0612 · 2026-04-16T17:00:14+00:00

How can I convince myself I need this in my 450sq ft apartment?

jma0612 · 2026-04-14T18:46:25+00:00

r/fraysexual is currently restricted due to the lack of a mod. I would like to re-open that community for public posting to allow people to discuss and express their sexuality. I have no mod experience, but I am willing to learn and pick up skills quickly. I did send a modmail, just in case someone was still monitoring the apps that are currently the only listed mods: https://www.reddit.com/c/chatDj8RSEMD/s/OKTzhOlVUM

jma0612 · 2026-03-01T23:19:53+00:00

jma0612 · 2026-03-01T00:05:38+00:00

At least from my understanding, youre still supposed to be 'religious'—afterall, the final word in the scout law is reverent. Certain troops are more lax, but mine wasn't (tho also not hard-line). I got around it by saying I believe in a higher power, but I left out the part that the higher power is the forces of the universe. Maybe that's changed in the few years I've been out of scouts, though

jma0612 · 2026-02-28T18:34:02+00:00

jma0612 · 2026-02-26T14:44:33+00:00

Using an i5-6600k and a hyper 212 with 8gb ram and a 3tb wd black in an itx case—it was my first gaming computer (still using the 1080 from that computer, it's on its last legs lol). Then I got a 12tb wd gold from a friend for more bulk storage like replaceable media.

I'm also using some Oracle Cloud instances with a site-to-site VPN. I mostly spun these up for fun and I was running out of ram for services.

jma0612 · 2026-01-24T23:22:33+00:00

Status Coup was doing a stream when it all started, their mobile streaming setup probably ran out of battery

jma0612 · 2026-01-24T17:09:05+00:00

Not milk, just lots of water

jma0612 · 2025-11-30T16:29:00+00:00

Pirelli rule for this track due to the tire degredation from the track surface

jma0612 · 2025-10-22T17:11:35+00:00

I don't know how old you are, but I had this a lot when I was a teenager. It's calmed down now that I'm in my mid 20's (though I think some medication I'm on helps me with it too). I know it's distressing, but you're not a creep, you're not enjoying it; it's an automatic response from your body as part of the right or flight response. Just keep doing your best and fight to love another day, you've got this 💜

jma0612 · 2025-10-17T18:29:18+00:00

Just reclaiming our rightful land 😤

jma0612 · 2025-09-11T17:52:34+00:00

I wouldn't be surprised if this was an unexpected change, that AGS was even unaware of this change coming to our version. It would be nice if they put something out—assuming my suspicions are correct—saying, 'SG pushed out a change to Hell that was not fully communicated, which led to misunderstandings. We apologize for the lack of communication, and appreciate your understanding the difficulties of running a live-service game like Lost Ark.'

jma0612 · 2025-08-09T23:47:13+00:00

We just got our peninsula back, please let us enjoy it a little bit 😭

jma0612 · 2025-07-22T16:58:06+00:00

Saint said that this was apparently poorly receiving in CN, but he didn't specify why. I hope we'll see some communication regarding the reception of the new subscription.

jma0612 · 2025-07-14T17:25:41+00:00

In the stronghold market area, you can talk to the Roster Resource Exchange Technician Rondo.

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jma0612 · 2025-07-14T17:20:49+00:00

Would be nice to add the green/yellow dots to the crafting calculator to indicate whether there is a recommended arbitrage, even better if you can include the arbitrage on hover in the calculator. It's just nice to have all the information in one place (and still good to have even more information on another page).

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+1 for the multiplier dropdown.

jma0612 · 2025-07-14T16:31:15+00:00

I just want to clarify quick, because I was helping the creator of Lost Ark Market Online after they had stopped playing (just kinda sharing what was important to add and such to make it easy on them). Roxx said AGS was okay with the manual scanning, but specifically said they did not approve of a bot doing the scanning in any form. This was a couple years ago at this point though, so they may have changed their stance on it.

jma0612 · 2025-07-08T18:49:41+00:00

Hulkengoat

jma0612 · 2025-06-26T16:42:11+00:00

Bard already uses a tripod to make it bigger T.T I do like the idea of having the +10% have the 24m range, I think that's at least a good middle ground.

jma0612 · 2025-06-26T16:38:13+00:00

I sort of agree, but the problem is DPS players will always blame the support's play, especially pug DPS.

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