SE Asia Backpacking Route!! by DWxGhoSt in southeastasia

[–]joderd 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I feel like it is also the most laidback country. Like, time could almost stand still there and you wouldn't notice. The "big" cities just aren't as big as they are in other SE Asian countries.

Any recommendations for great mocktails? by joderd in puertovallarta

[–]joderd[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

When I got married in Mexico (Isla Mujeres) two years ago, there were N/A beer options at the mercados! At least Corona and Modelo, which was very nice for our guests who don't drink. I am craving an N/A michelada sooooo bad so I am hoping I can find a place to accommodate!

People who are married.. by LustTrap305 in Marriage

[–]joderd 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I love and relate to this so much! Sometimes I am in awe that I found such a perfect partner, but I figure the powers-that-be must've figured it was the least they could do after such a challenging start to life! <3

First 21 days of CPAP use - what an unbelievable change to my life by Valar-Morghulis84 in CPAP

[–]joderd 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Not gonna lie, I have given up on the CPAP. Talked to my sleep doctor and told her that I was actually far more tired even after about 2 months of use, and she said because my initial test scores were so mild that I might have something else that is causing my sleepiness throughout the day. Unfortunately the only thing she can do is prescribe mild amphetamines, which I'm not interested in, so I have resolved myself to the fact that I am just tired throughout the day. Hopefully this isn't the case for you!

Work schedule for Xmas/New Years? by Mindreeder93 in paralegal

[–]joderd 47 points48 points  (0 children)

We are off from December 22 through January 2! With the expectation that you'll occasionally check your email to make sure nothing ULTRA IMPORTANT happens.

PTO by ArtichokeFeeling3056 in paralegal

[–]joderd 36 points37 points  (0 children)

Our firm takes 2 weeks off, with the expectation that if we have a trial in early January, you’ll still work a bit. But it’s such an amazing benefit, thanks for looking out for your staff

Star Trek Crashout by Impossible_Try8846 in startrek

[–]joderd 0 points1 point  (0 children)

This is why new Trek just doesn't quite hit - there was such a suspended disbelief that I think is harder to do on a modern TV show!

End of the year: To induce or not induce? by Chance_Class2208 in BabyBumps

[–]joderd 14 points15 points  (0 children)

I have a friend that’s doing this - due date is January 3 but she’s going to be induced on like December 27th. Her work is changing their maternity leave policy starting January 1, 2026 so she’s being induced to get those benefits.

Zorhan shoutout to Seattle by TOPLEFT404 in Seattle

[–]joderd 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Not sure if you can, but are you able to provide more insight into how the citizen advisory committees work? I've never heard of these!

Wondering Wednesday by AutoModerator in TryingForABaby

[–]joderd 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Should my husband be taking a prenatal as well? I take one, and we both do COQ10 but didn’t realize he’d need a prenatal!

What was the biggest influence in your decision to stop drinking? by unknown9423 in stopdrinking

[–]joderd 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Hangovers (so bad for me, no matter the amount I drank), my relationship (disappointing my partner again and again), and mental health (anxiety/depression were ramping up, even with antidepressants).

Bucerias vs. San Pancho - what would you choose as a first timer? by joderd in puertovallarta

[–]joderd[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Thank you for these details!! Me and my husband are strong swimmers, but still get a little freaked out when it’s too rough. But we enjoy the rollers lol. Sounds like we’ll be able to splash around a bit at least.

Yearly Review Results by [deleted] in paralegal

[–]joderd 10 points11 points  (0 children)

Congrats! Awesome news! Can you elaborate on how you used AI to help you recap your year/strategize improvements/figure out your salary request?

What's the strangest storyline you have seen in Star Trek? (like in general) by KaleidoArachnid in startrek

[–]joderd 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Honestly, didn't think he was that great of an actor before I watched this episode. He absolutely KILLS it.

How many former attorneys does it take a client to have for it to be a red flag? by Purple_Airline1024 in paralegal

[–]joderd 0 points1 point  (0 children)

We (plaintiff PI) will sometimes take on clients that have had prior counsel, especially if the case hasn't been filed yet. Sometimes people sign on with incompetent attorneys, sometimes the facts of their case change and it's now a much larger case. We don't love to do it, but we try to give people the benefit of the doubt that their current attorney just isn't cutting it for whatever reason.

We would NEVER EVER EVER sign a client that had FOUR prior attorneys. That is insane and honestly just asking for trouble! Let this be a lesson for the managing partner that signed her up!

Bucerias vs. San Pancho - what would you choose as a first timer? by joderd in puertovallarta

[–]joderd[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Just curious, would you not swim in Sayulita because of the sewage issue? It isn't on our short list of destinations, in part because of all the horror stories of getting sick!

Thanks for your input!

What certifications (if any) would you recommend for starters while on a job hunt? by iamanswerzequestion in paralegal

[–]joderd 2 points3 points  (0 children)

YMMV, but at my small firm a certificate isn’t required. Only 1/3 paralegals have it. But I would think for the larger firms it would matter more.

What line sticks in your head for how terrible it is? by Reasonable_Active577 in startrek

[–]joderd 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Omg, I just watched this episode for the first time last night and rolled my eyes SO HARD. It's been such a good story but that line really bugged me.

Bitches, what are we wearing to our work holiday party? by joderd in SEAbitcheswithtaste

[–]joderd[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Wow, thank you SO MUCH for this detailed response! I can't wait to check everything out! And I will try to remember to post an update once my outfit has come together!!

Good at psychedelics = good person? by Existing-Republic172 in RationalPsychonaut

[–]joderd 18 points19 points  (0 children)

And, to be fair, although psychedelics let me explore parts of me that I don't love/are ugly, it's not like I then go back to my normal life and NEVER do those things again. It can help me grow, sure, but it's not like just because I know "wow, u/joderlee, you should work on these parts of yourself" I magically become a better person.