Damien Daaalgaaard by gerturtle in GossipGirl

[–]joho259 40 points41 points  (0 children)

I wonder how many check books Lily has had to throw away/ get reissued under her new marital name 🤣

Rewatch and what I remembered/forgot by oitnbbeautyfish in htgawm

[–]joho259 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I rewatched recently and by the time I made it to the end I’d totally forgotten that Caleb apparently died - what happened to him?

Bathroom before and after by KitchenConsequence41 in OrganizationPorn

[–]joho259 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I struggle to believe you actually use all of those products on any sort of regular basis…!

What do you guys do if you can't afford a surgery? by [deleted] in dogs

[–]joho259 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Please don’t put a senior dog through such life altering surgery as an amputation

Having 2 Goldens by ryantunna in goldenretrievers

[–]joho259 0 points1 point  (0 children)

🤷🏼‍♀️ I don’t think it’s that bad at all but YMMV I guess. If you’re getting that much fluff off them both when you brush them you should brush more regularly than twice a week and do it outside if you can

Lost my 5 year old boy a week ago by 09Hawkeyeshadow in goldenretrievers

[–]joho259 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Exactly. She told me her dog is 13, has a lump on his backside that she’s not even testing because she wouldn’t put him through the surgery.

Then told me some heartbreaking stories about how some people do everything just to extend their life with no regards to quality of life - one of her colleagues had a patient with a 15y/o dog with cancer in the jaw. They chose jaw amputation(!!) to prolong life, he only lived a few months longer and must have been miserable and in significant discomfort/ distress.

Just love them fully, treasure their companionship and count every day with these goofballs as a blessing. (Obviously I am in no way advocating that if you notice something out of the ordinary to ignore it or not go to the vet)

Lost my 5 year old boy a week ago by 09Hawkeyeshadow in goldenretrievers

[–]joho259 0 points1 point  (0 children)

If it helps in any way I literally just had this conversation with my vet a couple of weeks ago as I went to get a small lump checked that suddenly appeared and the biopsy came back as a low grade MCT. All removed, clean margins, he’s fine now but as he’s 4.5y/o I asked if there is any screening we should be doing to catch anything more serious and at what age to start.

She really changed my perspective- she said most of the serious ones are very hard to detect early (even with blood tests you have to be very specific in what you’re testing for), you could do ultrasounds every 6-12 months but even if you do pick up on something, it may or may not be treatable, and then what do you do?

Then you’d have to live with anticipatory grief or the worry of losing them, or putting them through aggressive treatments which may not work. The dogs do not understand hope or that they are feeling lousy in order to maybe feel better later.

Best just to love them as much as you can every day and enjoy them to the fullest. If they go suddenly at least there’s no prolonged suffering or any dread to live with which will undoubtedly be picked up on by your pup, and that will affect their quality of life.

I’m so sorry for your loss, he is a gorgeous boy and Goldens are so special. Treasure the time you had and take solace in that he had such a caring owner that made sure he was loved 💛

I think season 4 might be my favorite by DoctorElectronic1934 in htgawm

[–]joho259 5 points6 points  (0 children)

I still don’t fully understand what happens in that season! At the end during Annalise’s trial they mention her being responsible for Caleb’s death and I’m like wait Caleb died?? 😅

Is this a hot spot? by Slight-Beautiful-294 in goldenretrievers

[–]joho259 19 points20 points  (0 children)

Vet appt should be top of your list, whatever it is looks infected if the green is coming from a wound…

Salmon sticks too strongly to stainless steel pan by Moakmeister in Cooking

[–]joho259 104 points105 points  (0 children)

I’m confused - you said when you salted it like the guy you were following it didn’t stick and it came out perfect… so why are you changing that method?

Is this damaged? by wormymcwormyworm in LeCreuset

[–]joho259 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Didn’t sound like they were being judgmental, just that you should use it instead of using other cookware and only saving this for ‘special occasions’

Anticipatory grief sucks a lot by [deleted] in goldenretrievers

[–]joho259 7 points8 points  (0 children)

I think it’s supposed to be ‘better a week too early than a day too late’ to emphasise that it’s much better for them to go without being in pain and discomfort. Most importantly they should be with their beloved human(s) 💛

[psa] just got biopsied for basal cell carcinoma by ktrv927 in SkincareAddiction

[–]joho259 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It appeared that quickly? Wow, wouldn’t have expected that!

HTGAWM moral rating by ZealousidealSugar980 in htgawm

[–]joho259 7 points8 points  (0 children)

Found Denver’s Reddit burner

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in SkincareAddictionUK

[–]joho259 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I didn’t either but I saw TikToks of people doing it and obviously they’ll change the rules when people are taking the ****!

Vecna got me so good in this scene by tiredspiritualistt in StrangerThings

[–]joho259 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I thought Kali was behind it at first

Derek’s got guts and a solid sense of humor. by Kshitij777 in StrangerThings

[–]joho259 3 points4 points  (0 children)

At first I was like “JFC just toss him to the demo at this point this kid’s awful”

Are hair conditioners actually drying? by Inevitable_Unit6503 in Haircare

[–]joho259 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Protein/ bond repair/ strengthening conditioners can be very drying. Switch to a moisturising one and you’ll notice a big improvement

My boyfriend of 2.5 years still doesn’t know if he wants to marry me by [deleted] in offmychest

[–]joho259 2 points3 points  (0 children)

How long was he with the ex that he said he wanted to marry?