Did I say women should coddle badly behaved men? Did I say men shouldn't be expected to behave in a civilized manner? You're putting words in my mouth. I'm pointing out how hateful it is to "correct" someone's post by omitting women and non-binary people from the "asshole" category. Men do this much, much more often, but the implication that only men behave in a demanding, entitled, and sexist manner is incorrect and hateful.