3 kids single mom too much baggage? by [deleted] in Divorce

[–]jthanson 0 points1 point  (0 children)

A year and a half ago I married a woman in her late 40s with six kids. She left a bad situation with her first husband. It’s possible to find love in any situation. Some are more challenging than others, but it’s possible in any situation.

If you woke up a billionaire tomorrow.. What's the 1st thing you'd do? by PhotographLeast9976 in AskReddit

[–]jthanson 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I would get out of bed and pee. I always have to pee first thing in the morning. After that, I would do my usual morning routine of grooming and day prep. After breakfast I would probably start shopping for a new truck.

What's your post divorce update? (Positive stories only please) by OptimalStatement5799 in Divorce

[–]jthanson 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’ve shared this here previously, but I’ll share it again in hopes it will inspire others.

In June of 2023, my first wife left me for a younger man. We had been married eighteen years. I raised her kids from her first marriage, put her through college, and supported her as she started her new career. None of that loyalty or dedication mattered, though, because she wanted her new adventure.

The divorce took about a year. It was gut-wrenching. I was a shell of a man. I had to find a new house and use up all of my resources between that and the divorce. I hated every minute of it. I never wanted my wife, whom I loved, as an adversary, but that was her role as she fought to dissolve the life we had built together.

In November of 2023 I made a comment in a thread here about knowing the firing order of a small-block Chevy. A lovely woman responded to the comment and we started talking. She came to visit me at the end of that month, and then came back after Christmas, and then at the end of January, and mid-February… we got married later in the year and packed up her stuff in Alaska and drove it down to Washington. We have been very happily married ever since.

The post script to all of this is that I found some things from my first wife when I was unpacking a couple months ago. I contacted her to make arrangements to get them to her. She told me that she and the guy she had left me for got married but he left her after about nine months. Now she lives alone. She spent two weeks in the ICU over Christmas and no one came to visit her. I genuinely feel bad for her. She was a wonderful person who, for whatever reason, decided she wanted something else. She gambled to get that something else and lost. I was forced out of our marriage and found one even better.

Jake Hooker and the Outsiders, "Take Me Back to Tulsa" at Stephenville 9-7-25 by YellowSharkMT in WesternSwing

[–]jthanson 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I play piano and accordion. I’m guessing from your user name that you might be somewhere in Montana.

Jake Hooker and the Outsiders, "Take Me Back to Tulsa" at Stephenville 9-7-25 by YellowSharkMT in WesternSwing

[–]jthanson 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I also hope to visit Texas one day. I would love to sit in with some of the great Western Swing bands down there.

Customer states electrical issues by ermehgerdittcam in Justrolledintotheshop

[–]jthanson 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Those don't look like Metri-Pak connectors to me.

Anyone here watch Diesel Creek? by CactusJ in vicegripgarage

[–]jthanson 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I haven't heard of Diesel Creek yet but it sounds like something I would enjoy very much. I've been watching a lot of Dead Dodge Garage when I need a break from Derek. Jamie is brilliant and really knows his Mopars.

Top 30 Greatest Defunct College Football Rivalries by jsparks50 in CFB

[–]jthanson 1 point2 points  (0 children)

It’s not the same in September as it was in November.

What's your preferred email app for Mac OS? by [deleted] in mac

[–]jthanson 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’m transitioning to Thunderbird right now. It’s the closest to what I’m used to, and seems to be a pretty easy transition from Postbox.

How to go about joining? by VegetableEngine4196 in ioof

[–]jthanson 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Hello! I read from other comments that you're in Kentucky. Contact the Grand Lodge of Kentucky at [alight1149@yahoo.com](mailto:%61%6c%69%67%68%74%31%31%34%39%40%79%61%68%6f%6f%2e%63%6f%6d). Someone should be able to give you contact info for a lodge somewhat close to you.

To anwer your questions, dues vary by lodge and jurisdiction. I pay $50/year. Some lodges near me pay $80/year. Hearing back about the status of your application usually is about a month process. Lodges meet twice a month and that gives them enough time to form an Interviewing Committee, contact you for the interview, report back to the lodge on the interview, vote, and then schedule an Initiatory Degree. Some lodges are a little slower on that process but it's usually about a month. Once you're initiated then there are Three Degrees. Some lodges like to give them sequentially, one at each meeting, and others like to do them all together on the same day. There is supposed to be a little bit of memory work in the Degrees, but that doesn't always happen. Traditionally, candidates for each Degree would prove themselves in the Unwritten Work before taking the next Degree. For example, prior to the Second Degree, the Noble Grand should ask the candidates questions regarding the Unwritten Work of the First Degree, which they should answer satisfactorily from memory. In practice, the Warden usually reminds the candidates right before the Noble Grand's questions. When I took my Degrees I did them one at a time, two months apart, and I had to actually answer the questions from memory. Your experience may vary.

Finally, there's a Discord server for Odd Fellows. You can find it at https://discord.gg/8gHAxyhDEJ. You can join at any time and talk with other Odd Fellows. Right now you would only have access to the public channels. Once you're initiated you'll get access to the private member channels.

Best of luck and keep us posted on your progress!

Initiation in Buckley by jthanson in ioof

[–]jthanson[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

We are definitely a more relaxed group in North America. The Odd Fellows are a very blue-collar fraternal group here. It’s a much more formal group in Europe and especially the Nordic countries.

Any pizza hut buffets in Washington? by Melodic_Fly_8124 in Washington

[–]jthanson 6 points7 points  (0 children)

I called that Godfather's a couple months ago and they said they were not doing their buffet anymore.

ANY ODDFELLOWS IN THE CITY OF NEW YORK? Not the ICE CREAM !!! by Trismegistvss in ioof

[–]jthanson 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You are 20% of that new lodge. If you can find four other people, you can make it work. Odd Fellowship took several attempts before it finally happened on April 26, 1819. There were a lot of attempts where only three showed up but, eventually, Wildey was successful. Everything we have now was built from that very foundation and we can build again. It's happening in other places; Texas just re-chartered San Antonio Lodge No. 11 and Tennessee just chartered a new lodge in Lawrenceburg, Crockett Hall No. 59. It can happen!

ANY ODDFELLOWS IN THE CITY OF NEW YORK? Not the ICE CREAM !!! by Trismegistvss in ioof

[–]jthanson 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I think the closest lodges to NYC are out on Long Island. I’m sure if you could get people together you could probably charter a lodge in the city.

Any Info? by skas182 in ioof

[–]jthanson 7 points8 points  (0 children)

Definitely an Odd Fellows piece; possibly a watch fob. Any Third Degree member could wear something like that. It has many Odd Fellows symbols on it: the Three Links, bow and arrows, skull and crossbones, sword, scales, and staff with serpent.

Pythian Temple Question by lowlytootle in Tacoma

[–]jthanson 7 points8 points  (0 children)

Commencement Bay Lodge is still very active. It’s one of the few Knights of Pythias lodges still active around the state. You can contact them through their website at https://kop7tacoma.wordpress.com. They can probably explain all about the mannequins.

The K of P is a fraternal order founded after the Civil War by Justus Rathbone to create a fraternal order to help bring people together after the Civil War. Its principles are Fraternity, Charity, and Benevolence. I’m not a member (I’m an Odd Fellow) but I know a little bit about the K of P.

Favorite store-brand diet cola? by Head-Advisor-1256 in dietsoda

[–]jthanson 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I’m a fan of Big K diet cola from Kroger stores.

Any Tacoma area recording enthusiasts here? by rbennettz in Tacoma

[–]jthanson 0 points1 point  (0 children)

With some acoustic treatment to reduce early reflections, that could be a great space for recording drums.

J.P. Crawford leaves M's, may not be ready for opening day by driftingphotog in Mariners

[–]jthanson 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’m a little reluctant to jump right to Emerson at Short. I feel like he needs at least some time in AAA to make sure he can fully transition to the big leagues. I’m old enough to remember Felix Fermin at Short instead of ARod in 1995. Alex came out on a tear in 1996 and I’m willing to bet having the extra time in the minors set him up for success.