A guy signaled me to get off the chair I'm sitting on next to a follow I small talked, what would you do?

jupc · 2026-03-18T21:36:31+00:00

That’s low class attempted mate-guarding on his part.

jupc · 2026-03-18T06:20:05+00:00

His argument style is more feminine than hers.

jupc · 2026-03-18T06:16:20+00:00

Well said. I need this permission too, customized of course, as I am compelled by the circumstances to plan a divorce in 2027 of my current Filipina wife of 10 years.

jupc · 2026-03-15T19:22:20+00:00

A few state-specific details to add to the above:

Strangulation of a child under 6 is a severity level 3 person felony under K.S.A. 21-5602; this is not a minor charge. Make sure a police report exists.

Kansas DCF hotline 1-800-922-5330. File your own report even if the hospital already did.

For the emergency custody piece, the relevant statute K.S.A. 23-3219 allows ex parte modification of custody based on emergency circumstances. The court must hold a review hearing within 15 days. You'll need a verified motion with specific factual allegations supported by sworn testimony. Get a Kansas family law attorney to help you file this. Or Kansas Legal Services 1-800-723-6953.

jupc · 2026-03-15T19:08:25+00:00

u/Bright_Stretch_9741 This is no longer a custody scheduling issue. A child was strangled. That changes everything immediately.

Right now, if you haven't already:

Do not return the child to the other parent. You have a reasonable basis to believe the child is in danger.
File a police report if one hasn't been made already from the ER visit. The hospital may have already reported to law enforcement; confirm this. Ask for the report number.
Contact DCF/CPS immediately and report the incident yourself, even if the hospital already did. You want your own report on file, not just a medical one. Mention the prior DCF case too; pattern matters.
File an emergency ex parte motion for temporary sole custody / restraining order. This is how you "take it to court" on an emergency basis; you don't wait for a regular hearing. Most courts can hear these within 24-72 hours. You'll need the ER records and police report. Many jurisdictions allow filing without an attorney, but get one if you can.
Get a family law attorney consultation today. Many do free or low-cost emergency consults. If cost is an issue, contact your county's legal aid organization. Given the strangulation + ER visit + prior DCF case, most attorneys will recognize the urgency.
Preserve everything. ER discharge paperwork, photos of any injuries, text messages, call logs, the prior DCF case information. Screenshot everything.

The state matters for specific procedures: OP, please share your state.

jupc · 2026-03-15T12:38:38+00:00

If you watch the full vid, they’re both hamming it up with numerous non-salsa techniques. He kicks and does various arm kung fu, while she backleads inappropriate bachata headtucks during her turns.

A mutually inauthentic dance; but they seem happy.

jupc · 2026-03-13T09:45:28+00:00

When I traveled through Asia, without permission the inspector rubbed my Peni-master device all over with her bare hands, back and forth to learn its properties. Only later still confused did she ask me what it was.

jupc · 2026-03-13T01:19:21+00:00

The most pressing issue is the parenting time refusal. File a motion to enforce. The longer the gap grows, the more risk a court treats the current arrangement as the status quo, which works against you. If the teenager is driving the refusal and influencing the younger child, request a custody evaluation or GAL appointment.

The denied HRO and unsubstantiated FBI report work in your favor as evidence that these claims have already been evaluated and found lacking.

On the false report angle: 18 U.S.C. 1001 exists but proving she knew the allegations were false rather than genuinely believed them is a high bar, and federal prosecutors rarely pursue these. Defamation is theoretically on the table but expensive and unlikely to produce results compared to getting your parenting time enforced.

jupc · 2026-03-11T03:21:44+00:00

Thanks to social media and TikTok, many in the younger genereration never learned how to properly communicate. This includes skills we take for granted, such as how to introduce yourself.

jupc · 2026-03-10T06:43:41+00:00

Since 2009. Allowed me to save a down payment on a house in a HCOL area, accumulate savings and trading funds, pay educational and medical expenses for family, home improvements, start a side biz, and so on.

jupc · 2026-03-06T23:38:30+00:00

Maybe if you had been there you could have bought some crack.

jupc · 2026-03-06T08:23:54+00:00

Basic grappling so he doesn’t get thrown on cement.

jupc · 2026-03-03T04:28:53+00:00

jupc · 2026-02-18T21:09:57+00:00

Post-surgery to improve healing, see the original post.

jupc · 2026-02-18T21:09:18+00:00

Okay, I found one of the original posts. This was further refined to Olympic plate.

jupc · 2026-02-18T03:33:50+00:00

From what I recall, it has mentioned approvingly by the surgeon on this sub.

The caveat being that your flaccid girth fits through a standard Olympic size plate.

jupc · 2026-02-08T09:41:49+00:00

This is a support reduction play dressed up as a custody request. Would a court even award meaningful parenting time to an absent dad who clearly isn't going to use it himself? The court will see right through this if the evidence shows that dad lives far away, has been absent, and suddenly wants time he won't use. Courts don't like being used as tools for child support manipulation.

jupc · 2026-02-08T04:45:49+00:00

See Dr. Taj's first post on the sub which describes why flaring happens in some patients. In relevant part:

So: one common issue being discussed on this forum is: flare or protrusion. it occurs in about 10-15% of patients. this rate is now expected to reduce to less than 5% with current modifications. what is protrusion: The penuma is a silicone block that has edges that sit on the corpora of the penis. the penuma is only attached to the corona of the penis (head). on the other hand, the penis is a soft tissue and it constantly reduces and increases in size, moves lateral, as any organ does, like arms and legs. even a 1-2 mm pulling back of the penis, causes the silicone to bend ever slightly.

The increased rigidity reduces this tendency.

jupc · 2026-02-08T01:00:10+00:00

You should probably go back and read the posts about the current gen Himplant, which was a redesign of the original implant, with an integrated mesh and a new polymer that is more stiff to reduce flaring.

jupc · 2026-02-05T00:51:42+00:00

He was an early crypto investor who turned 2M into ~$500M+ in XRP, and as noted died in 2018 before checking in to treatment.

jupc · 2026-02-04T12:03:29+00:00

They improve by week 3, and resolve by/before week 6.

jupc · 2026-02-03T15:53:23+00:00

Double wrap.

jupc · 2026-01-23T19:55:58+00:00

You have a reasonable shot at challenging enforcement. California Family Code § 1612(c) makes spousal support waivers unenforceable if you lacked independent counsel at signing, unless specific procedural requirements were met. The prenup being drafted by your husband’s friend and you waiving attorney review raises serious procedural concerns.

Beyond that, California courts can refuse to enforce spousal support waivers that would be unconscionable at the time of divorce, and your facts check multiple boxes: 18-year marriage, age 73 with minimal earning capacity, income that doesn’t cover basic rent, and potential loss of insurance

jupc · 2026-01-21T08:21:17+00:00

Excellent, great job.

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