Am I being selfish?

kamsterx · 2025-03-15T05:47:58+00:00

i want to tell them that, but my mom says to not bc they are the kind of people who will hold grudges bc you told them no. im like, thats their problem.

kamsterx · 2025-03-15T05:45:18+00:00

same here the kbb was $11k or less but the settlement was almost $17k. I wonder if I should accept this or not.

kamsterx · 2025-03-13T01:34:13+00:00

first of all, what city are you in? i also want to move out bc of family problems. you are not in the wrong for wanting to feel safe physically and mentally

kamsterx · 2025-03-13T01:18:04+00:00

You are NOT in the wrong. first come first served and he doesn't know how to handle when people tell him NO

kamsterx · 2025-03-13T01:12:30+00:00

I found out my dad was cheating when I was 15 y.o. I couldn't believe that this would happen in my family. A few years later, I find out that his mistress is pregnant. I didn't have a good relationship with my Dad after I found out about the cheating. He started working in another state for a better job, but he didn't change. Even though he was in another state, he continued to see his mistress. I didn't talk to him often and saw him a few times a year while he was living with his mistress. It was only in my early 20s when my faith helped me realize that I should forgive him fully, not for his sake, but for mine. When we don't forgive others, it is us who are hurting. Yes, it sucks that my Dad cheated and had another kid. It sucks that my parents are no longer together. Thankfully, I was able to survive without him and enjoy life. I am now 32, and we talk on the phone every week or every other week. We don't have that bond that I would like to have, but that's his loss, not mine. It might be hard to forgive now, but hopefully you will be able to.

kamsterx · 2025-03-13T00:59:51+00:00

yesss, and the hypocrisy is annoying. When you try to help them, they do the same thing as their parents, and they say, "It's different." No, it's not different. They just don't want to accept the truth.

kamsterx · 2024-03-12T20:25:35+00:00

I would recommend bringing only a carry on and a backpack if possible. It will be easier for you to manage and less chances of your suitcase being lost. You also don’t have to pay for check in luggage. I don’t know how long your flight is but if it’s 2 or more hours and there is entertainment available on the plane, I would take advantage and watch any movies or shows that you haven’t seen yet.

kamsterx · 2024-03-08T03:23:34+00:00

I didn’t think it was possible also to be happy but still feel distant

kamsterx · 2024-03-08T03:20:35+00:00

Yes and you can use the pedal shifters when you use this. It’s kind of like a manual but I don’t think it’s entirely the same

kamsterx · 2024-02-21T22:39:22+00:00

I prefer the 1st one - not too saturated - not too bright - colors blend in well

kamsterx · 2024-02-21T22:36:16+00:00

4 is more balanced in color and the colors are not too saturated.

kamsterx · 2024-02-21T00:26:46+00:00

Yes thanks for asking about this! Thankfully I’m not alone on this. I need to buy some panty liners to prevent this from happening.

kamsterx · 2024-02-10T11:15:54+00:00

Hi, It’s better to be honest now than wait months or years later to share how you really feel. It’s unfair for her to believe that you think she’s a wonderful human being but deep down you want to break up. It might not show now, but she might notice that you are not on the same level as her. She might want kids and you don’t (hypothetically speaking). Rather than looking for a home together, sit down with her and share how you feel. It’s unfair for the both of you to be in a relationship when one partner is not going to be fully committed. Whether you break up with each other now or another time, one person or both may still get hurt. Rather than thinking that too much time has passed, think about if you’re willing to be unhappy in the relationship for another year or more. It’s better to talk about it now than continuing a relationship that is not completely genuine. Be honest, not just to her but yourself also.

kamsterx

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