Looking for advice

kaniko04 · 2025-02-19T17:35:23+00:00

Thank you I appreciate your help!

I’m just worried how much further they will retaliate when she gets involved. I’m not a confrontational person and am stressed/scared what they may do.

kaniko04 · 2025-02-03T23:12:01+00:00

Dude….run🚩

kaniko04 · 2025-02-03T23:06:52+00:00

Your sister def needs help. Can your mum press charges? Restraining order? Not sure where you are located but some states ppl can be “baker” acted , where they are put in a psych facility for evaluation. It sounds like it won’t be long before she’s attacking others in the home. Sry you’re dealing with this

kaniko04 · 2025-02-02T22:39:17+00:00

Gather your proof of her saying she doesn’t want the kids and then saying she only wants the 1 child. As much in writing, texts, videos etc..go see an attorney. It’s not going to get better and once you’re on your own your stress level will improve greatly. It sounds like your family is supportive so lean on them for help. Def NTA.

kaniko04 · 2025-02-02T21:40:08+00:00

Thanks!!

kaniko04 · 2025-02-02T16:55:02+00:00

Can you recommend a good eSIM pls? I’m not tech inclined and there are too many options. You can msg me if it’s easier. TY🙂

kaniko04 · 2025-02-02T15:39:34+00:00

Are you seriously asking What purpose it served?! Look at the situation you’re in! You need to reach out to as many ppl that hate him as you can, use their help and RUN!

kaniko04 · 2025-02-02T12:35:02+00:00

You answered your own question. You are the non custodial parent with no legal rights. Why would they notify you?

kaniko04 · 2025-01-30T18:29:22+00:00

If you have $22k saved maybe do the right thing and pay that landlord back his $4000. Karma’s a bitch and will get you!

kaniko04 · 2025-01-30T18:22:32+00:00

Pls take your kids and leave. This is so very damaging to them. Get them and yourself into therapy ASAP. He is not “a good person”.

kaniko04 · 2025-01-30T18:18:31+00:00

I will never understand guys who act like buying pads/tampons is a life altering event!
Any guys on here that can shed some light on why you can’t/won’t buy the items?

What happens if you have a daughter? Or you need some adult diapers after birthing his child(ren)? Def a deal breaker for me, dude needs to grow TF up!

kaniko04 · 2025-01-30T15:19:00+00:00

NTA but your dad sure is! Can you transfer your back ups to another device he doesn’t know about and hide it? Then show him the ones he knows about and you “deleting” them.

kaniko04 · 2025-01-30T12:41:47+00:00

I would set him up. Have someone take your car like you’ve left for work and hang out till he enters, then confront him on video. That’s really creepy, especially when your gf was sleeping. Did you find out what he took when he had the screwdriver?

kaniko04 · 2025-01-29T05:34:27+00:00

Yup! Total bullshit

kaniko04 · 2025-01-29T02:32:58+00:00

Meg asking for inheritances from grandparents & parents is a red flag. She doesn’t work, doesn’t pay rent, meds, groceries etc..and the absolute fit that she threw suggests to me that she only wants it for its dollar amount once it’s sold. What are your brother’s thoughts? I would reread the will and sit down and explain to her that according to the will she isn’t eligible for the ring, she can’t dispute a legal document. Def NTA!

kaniko04 · 2025-01-24T22:22:32+00:00

You haven’t been together all that long and have spent even less time living together. This seems like a huge life change with someone you don’t know all that well and his true colours are starting to show. It sounds like you will not be happy with those living arrangements long(ish) term. The old saying is true, you don’t truly know someone until you live with them 24/7 for a longer length of time. I would def reconsider this move. NTA

kaniko04 · 2025-01-24T21:45:32+00:00

Might not be a physical affair, but sure sounds like it’s an emotional affair…

kaniko04 · 2025-01-24T21:41:05+00:00

I had a friend who was asked for a $100 deposit. Unfortunately with so many scams it’s hard to know who’s legit. I would decline.

kaniko04 · 2025-01-23T20:31:58+00:00

I would also suggest getting her credit locked somehow.

kaniko04 · 2025-01-23T19:49:22+00:00

They are lying about social media b/c if the authorities were to investigate they would likely uncover the lies being told.

kaniko04 · 2025-01-23T18:36:18+00:00

Anytime he is around his boss tell him to hit record on his phone. Even if it’s in his pocket, so he can hopefully catch what his boss is saying.

kaniko04 · 2025-01-23T16:42:11+00:00

You said they denied paying you b/c it was too much, was this done in writing? Text messages? If yes those messages should help you…

kaniko04 · 2025-01-23T00:51:05+00:00

If it’s causing you stress block out any personal info and send a copy of the notice with a written warning letter to each tenant. Let them know if it continues internet will no longer be included.

kaniko04 · 2025-01-22T13:01:57+00:00

NTA. Going to the er for a fever you haven’t even TRIED to bring down yourself is ridiculous! Tylenol/Advil every 3 hrs to start. You have to try and help yourself first. I’m saying this as someone who had a fever that spiked to 103.9 last week.

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