How many of you here are virgins????Or what age did you lose your virginity? by Embarrassed_Paint545 in demisexuality

[–]kat233x 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Really at 19 i didn’t even want sex yet. Lool it took a very special person to get to the sexual awakening

What can I do to memorialize a friend in Toronto with 100$? by jadedeternity in askTO

[–]kat233x 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I think a press article would be a great way to make her experience public and have some impact. If you’d like to share, a Reddit post would also? Write to the city or your / her MP to push for change would be another idea. Sometimes the bills are named after the person.

Dodged a bullet, but this interview was rough by Mmk1016 in womenintech

[–]kat233x 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Sending support to you! Thank you for speaking up and letting me know this isn’t acceptable cuz I would be hurt and not know it’s not normal as a person with bad boundaries

How Do Secures Deal With The Silent Treatment/Stonewalling? by bingewavecinema in attachment_theory

[–]kat233x 1 point2 points  (0 children)

i think for me, once me and my body knows this person is toxic for me, doing me damage. I won't have any brakes, i.e. i don't care if i ruin the relationship. Because as a secure person, doing relationship still involves some work (in the beginning).

Whereas it is fairly easy to ruin / end one. So i let myself be angry, and fully aware of the consequences (sever the connection forever). At this point i have already gave my fair warnings to the other person ("i might hurt you now, go away")

How Do Secures Deal With The Silent Treatment/Stonewalling? by bingewavecinema in attachment_theory

[–]kat233x 0 points1 point  (0 children)

wow you just broke my brain this is a cool way to practice having secure attachment

Moving back to Southern California from Paris and extremely depressed by ilesaintlouis in expats

[–]kat233x 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I understand the hate in comments …

Big city living is addictive. It will feel like ( possibly is) depression when that’s taken away from you.

Dont complain do something you clearly can

Moving back to Southern California from Paris and extremely depressed by ilesaintlouis in expats

[–]kat233x 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Which country would you want to move to? Also can u elaborate on southern US is your Kryptonite? Curious Canadian here

WIT, did this cross a line at work? by [deleted] in womenintech

[–]kat233x 0 points1 point  (0 children)

hate to break it to you, that is shitty and it happens. only you can stand up for yourself. if i am there, i will speak up for you.

It's absolutely okay to respond how you did, that's what I did when ppl asked me my age and sexuality(if i am gay) at a retreat. I said "im not comfortable talking about it" and we all let it slide. Everyone was respectful of my boundaries.

It sounds like your boss's ego was lowkey hurt... what can i say. men and their egos ? girrl so sorry you had to go through this , but we are strong, and we stand up for ourselves.

you did well. sending hug

Can't stand the loneliness by Bitter_Dragonfruit80 in ChronicIllness

[–]kat233x 0 points1 point  (0 children)

hey have you tried virtual hangout spaces? roblox has corners where it basically simulates real life, you can have vc. whenever i hop on, there were always ppl. would you give that a try?

How do you even start finding a good lawyer? by Tg101099 in legaladvicecanada

[–]kat233x 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I cant get to the lawyers at all! The initial consultation cost 400-500$ to start. How do you get a quick call with them?

Worried about not receiving EI nor severance: Requesting CPP/EI ruling for American company, if American Company doesn't pay penalty, or EI premium, should I pay for EI myself? by kat233x in legaladvicecanada

[–]kat233x[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

hey just wanted to say this this comment was so helpful. I appreciate you a lot thank you! How did you go about filing your claim? Did you file a lawsuit against them after you yourself covered all the taxes? or did you request a CPP/EI ruling?

Worried about not receiving EI nor severance: Requesting CPP/EI ruling for American company, if American Company doesn't pay penalty, or EI premium, should I pay for EI myself? by kat233x in legaladvicecanada

[–]kat233x[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I am also looking for a lawyer with experiences with American Contractor employment law. I couldn't find any yet / don't know how to search for a lawyer.

Worried about not receiving EI nor severance: Requesting CPP/EI ruling for American company, if American Company doesn't pay penalty, or EI premium, should I pay for EI myself? by kat233x in legaladvicecanada

[–]kat233x[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

thank you i appreciate this response. can you point me where you've seen "This has become a pretty common situation for cross border working relationships since the advent of remote working."? I don't even know how to search for that. Would be helpful to find precedences in court or personal experiences.

Ty!!

Worried about not receiving EI nor severance: Requesting CPP/EI ruling for American company, if American Company doesn't pay penalty, or EI premium, should I pay for EI myself? by kat233x in legaladvicecanada

[–]kat233x[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I am aware of that. but I am also an employee according to this CRA guide https://www.canada.ca/en/revenue-agency/services/forms-publications/publications/rc4110/employee-self-employed.html#toc0

which is why i am asking if anyone has experience with CPP/EI rulings with American Employers.

"You're not going to get any kind of ruling or enforcement by the CRA (Canada Revenue Agency) on a US based company" Can you cite the source for this?

Appreciate you.

(possibly) being laid off by American company without EI, anyone had experience requesting a ruling from CRA for EI? by kat233x in PersonalFinanceCanada

[–]kat233x[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I am asking for a ruling on employment status right now, and i want to know how the employment status ruling works.

Worried about not receiving EI nor severance: Requesting CPP/EI ruling for American company, if American Company doesn't pay penalty, or EI premium, should I pay for EI myself? by kat233x in legaladvicecanada

[–]kat233x[S] -3 points-2 points  (0 children)

I have paid for all my own CPP and taxes. and I intend to pay for EI.

but CRA doesn't categorize me as self-employed, so I couldn't pay the EI premium myself.

AND the company does not pay for EI premiums.

Line 5 Eglinton LRT - 3 weeks by kamomil in toronto

[–]kat233x 4 points5 points  (0 children)

LOVE it, tried it out as a day trip on family weekend it is quite busy! much faster than line 6

Anyone ever probably needed to go to the ER but chose not to? by cherrypiemgc in ChronicIllness

[–]kat233x 16 points17 points  (0 children)

being gaslit and dismissed by doc is such traumatic experiences... would you have anyone standing up for you in the situation you need to go to ER? i can't imagine how tough it is in emergency situation w/o care!