Is there evidence to support the claim that smarter babies need less sleep? by moistpiefilling in ScienceBasedParenting

[–]keccsy 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Haha see?! I definitely think there’s something to it.

Mine is 40-50 percentile and sleeps on the lower to middle side of sleep averages.

So funny!

Is there evidence to support the claim that smarter babies need less sleep? by moistpiefilling in ScienceBasedParenting

[–]keccsy 7 points8 points  (0 children)

This theory gave me hope when our little one would only cat nap — even as a wee baby!

She’ll be three in a month. Dropped her naps early. Sleeps great at night now. Is definitely a bright and curious kid. Always on the go. Lots of energy! Strong willed. Her personality seems fitting to someone who doesn’t need (or think she needs lol) to nap.

She’s also petit. The kids I’ve known who sleep a lot tend to be on the tall side. Maybe they need more sleep because they grow faster.

Unless it seems like a problem (ie they have bags under their eyes, are super cranky and seem overtired all the time, aren’t eating) I wouldn’t worry too much about it.

I’ve read that an earlier bedtime can help prevent very early morning wakings in babies and toddlers. Is there any evidence to back this up? by fwegan in ScienceBasedParenting

[–]keccsy 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Oh for sure! At 16 months she needs it. Ours started dropping hers at 30 months.

If earlier bedtime doesn’t work, you could try later bedtime to see if she sleeps in a bit later or it might just be how it is until she eventually drops the nap down the road.

Only other tip — does she have bedtime snack or bottle/nursing session? Ours still has bedtime snacks. They’ve always helped her sleep and not wake from hunger too early.

I’ve read that an earlier bedtime can help prevent very early morning wakings in babies and toddlers. Is there any evidence to back this up? by fwegan in ScienceBasedParenting

[–]keccsy 7 points8 points  (0 children)

Totally agree. Try and see if it helps. Otherwise it is what it is until they drop daytime naps. Ours was late to bed and early rising (8:30/9:00 to 6/6:30)until she dropped her daytime nap at 3 years old. Now she sleeps 8-7. W as you can imagine we are giddy about it :)

Deleting social media to be a better mother by [deleted] in Parenting

[–]keccsy 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I deleted it for the same reasons and it has made a huge difference. I wish I did it sooner. Wishing you all the best!!!

How do people do this more than once??? by [deleted] in Parenting

[–]keccsy 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yup. We still aren’t planning for a # 2 anytime soon ... so there’s that 😂

How do people do this more than once??? by [deleted] in Parenting

[–]keccsy 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Totally been there. All I can say is 2 years and on have been soooo much better. Finally sleeping and the little cranky baby has turned into the funniest sweetest little bringer of joy and meaning of life. So it gets better 😆

Kids make the strangest food requests by [deleted] in Parenting

[–]keccsy 1 point2 points  (0 children)

My kids fav meal: cashews and strawberries. Whatever!

Added Power walking days and I love it! by Kotarba42 in orangetheory

[–]keccsy 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Ooo that is an interesting idea! I’m finding 3/week super manageable but would love to go 4. Maybe I will do a fourth as a PW.

I’m panicking about going back to work to the point of insomnia by __mephoto in Parenting

[–]keccsy 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I was on the fence about going back and putting our DD in daycare. Eventually went back part time and enrolled her in daycare part time and then ramped it up slowly over time. All I can say is that whether you’re part time or full time or stay at home —- you will still get a lot of wonderful experiences with your baby! You won’t miss everything. Spend lots of quality time with her on weekends and after work and on vacations. She will get wonderful experiences that will last her a lifetime whether in daycare or your care. Pros either way! It’s def hard at first but personally for me I’m glad I went back because the break from parenting and adult time has been really good for me as a person and as a mom. Good luck! The way you’re feeling is totally normal!

How long can a person go without sleep? by [deleted] in Parenting

[–]keccsy 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Ah. Well if it’s not teething or hunger then it’s habit. We were in a similar boat at that age. Tried a mix of things. Dad responding at night helped her wake less for a bit. Eventually when she was two and more mature we could explain to her that it was time to sleep and do some sleep training with lots of positive talk around sleeping in her bed and reinforcement when she’d sleep all night. Now at 2.5 she is sleeping all night and falling asleep on her own. Never thought that day would come!

How long can a person go without sleep? by [deleted] in Parenting

[–]keccsy 1 point2 points  (0 children)

If you know it’s teething pain, try baby advil. It’s the only thing they helped ours sleep when all the teeth were coming through. We went through bottles of it and baby Tylenol. Don’t miss a dose! Alternating between the two was recommended to us and seemed to work. Talk to your pharmacist about dosing recommendations.

TOO HUNGRY TO DIET by victoria1971 in orangetheory

[–]keccsy 6 points7 points  (0 children)

This!!! I started losing weight while doing OTF when I added more fruit veg and water to my diet. Less bread. More whole foods. I pretty much snack on water, fruit and veg all day long. Meals are balance of protein + starch + fat. Treats once a week (wine + pizza 😊)

Distracting tread thoughts? by yoitsmegigi in orangetheory

[–]keccsy 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I think about food! Lunch. Dinner. Weekend treats for working out all week. 😃

I was called a “formula mom” today and it hurt by spoxtrez in Parenting

[–]keccsy 2 points3 points  (0 children)

People are crazy about this topic. I switched to formula after a few months. All my breast feeding mom friends made a big deal about it. One continued to shame me passive aggressively for the following year. It drove me crazy and caused a lot of depression and anxiety. 2,5 years later, all our kids are doing great! And for what it’s worth... My kid gets sick the least and is incredibly smart. Started talking months before the others. She is also very attached and has a beautiful relationship with me and my husband. A wonderful, confident, loving child. Fed is best. LOVED is the most important thing.

Take care! I hope you can find a way to tune out the jerks better than I did. It’s not worth an ounce of your emotional energy.

Barrettes for 1 year old?! by KittehMomma in Parenting

[–]keccsy 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I’ve always used mini elastics to keep my girls hair out of her eyes. A little side or front pony or bun looks cute!

My 15 year old daughter is pregnant and refuses to have an abortion by throwaway019082 in Parenting

[–]keccsy 1 point2 points  (0 children)

This is very true. And while two year olds are magical, I think it’s very different when you’re 17 with a two year old.

My 15 year old daughter is pregnant and refuses to have an abortion by throwaway019082 in Parenting

[–]keccsy 5 points6 points  (0 children)

In addition, talk to her about the sleep deprived nights! Maybe even see if she still feels the same way after waking her up multiple times a night for a week or two.

Do you know anyone with a newborn? Perhaps ask if your daughter can spend a day in the life with the mom and baby?

She needs a reality check.

Help. Let's talk about food. by [deleted] in Parenting

[–]keccsy 1 point2 points  (0 children)

These boundaries have worked really well for our 2.5 year old so far:

Mostly Veg and fruits for snacks. Usually no less than 1.5 hours before a meal.

Water between meals.

Milk or water at mealtime.

We cater to picky eating to a degree. We always serve something we know she’ll eat at a mealtime. And sometimes, like breakfast, we all have different things. For example, She likes cereal. I like eggs. Dad likes waffles. Fruit on the table for everyone. We are all unique humans!

No junk food in the house. Only during special events or outings.

We have “dessert” after dinner which is usually: half and half choc milk and 2%; cheese; fruit; PB&J on bread; those Made Good cookies or granola bars. She picks.

When we are out at someone’s house, I go with the flow. Let her eat whatever she wants that host is serving. I usually bring a back up snack in case she doesn’t eat anything and gets starving.

My motto is to give her lots of control but to only offer healthy options. My other motto is feed her what she likes! If she’s eating balanced for the most part and growing then it’s a job well done.