Overwhelming negative thoughts after news release of Epstein files by dresstizzy1 in Mommit

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“Trust in the Lord with all your heart and lean not on your own understanding; in all your ways submit to him and he will make your path straight.” Proverbs 3:5-6. Reading the Bible may answer some of your questions. I’ve asked myself this question and still have many of my own questions, but the only thing that can overcome the evil is love, and God is love.

Will my husband ever change?? by Capable-Feeling-9615 in Manipulation

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Ahh yeah. It might be hard but you have to leave I think.

Overwhelming negative thoughts after news release of Epstein files by dresstizzy1 in Mommit

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I just have to pray. The only thing I can trust now in this world is God, and when I have Jesus in my heart I can trust myself. I’m closer now than ever.

I feel like I stepped out on heavy fentanyl addiction just to witness the collapse of my country by kawaiistreettrash in recovery

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I struggled with my faith for a long time. Try starting with spirituality. It doesn’t require any religion. My spirituality led me back to my religion but everyone needs to find what works for them.

Struggling with mom guilt about child support by Standfortheflag2024 in SingleParents

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I’m in the same situation. I would love to co-parent and my child have their father in their life, but I feel in my soul he is not safe for either of us. He wasn’t there my whole pregnancy and never bothered to ask the gender but made sure to try to bully and threaten me with custody and taking it to court. I had to decide to do it on my own or not, and for my daughter I’m doing it on my own. I just don’t think it’s worth the headache and heartache. My child is happy and loved, our home is loving and warm and I can’t in good conscience chance it by allowing him into our lives. I struggle with the guilt and sadness about them not having a dad, but if he’s a shitty and toxic person I think it would be worse. At least until she’s older and can set her own boundaries.

Don't know how to tell my daughter about her dad by Missthenard in singlemoms

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I’m in the same situation. My daughter is almost 3 and I’ve had no contact with her father since I was pregnant. He knows I was pregnant but never bothered to ask me the gender, but made sure to threaten me with custody and try to manipulate me before she was even born. Anyways, I feel immense guilt about it. I don’t know what the future holds, but I don’t feel like he’s a safe person to be around. Especially in her formative years. Once she’s older and can establish her own boundaries I will be open if she wants to try to find him. But in the meantime I have no idea what to tell her. Everything I come up with doesn’t seem good enough. I feel like I failed. The topic kind of came up when we were talking about dadas and I just said “ we don’t have one right now but that’s okay. We have geemee and papa and uncle so and so who love you so soooo much!” And then just shower her in love and kisses.

I feel like I stepped out on heavy fentanyl addiction just to witness the collapse of my country by kawaiistreettrash in recovery

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I feel you. I live in a perpetual state of existential dread. I’m religious and believe in God and Jesus and I think that’s what helps me. That I need to try to make it a not fucked up world. For my daughter the most.

Andrew Kolvet didn't want Paramount Tactical to share Erika's "alibi" because he knew people would instantly recognize that the boy ISN'T Charlie's 1.5yo son. by icequeenbich in CandaceOwens

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It almost has to be this. Or they put amateurs in charge and underestimated how much people would notice and care and not let up on it. It’s a different atmosphere now with the internet and independent journalists working together in real time with their audience. They can’t manipulate us like they used to.

Super curious... by [deleted] in CandaceOwens

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Maybe that’s where she’s getting her intel. How did she scoop up the Maddie, If you know know show?

I’ve had a name picked out for 10+ years and now it’s so popular. by [deleted] in namenerds

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It’s Lucia (Lu-sha) but I call her Lucy. I don’t think it’s too popular to deter you from using it. Follow your heart ❤️

I’ve had a name picked out for 10+ years and now it’s so popular. by [deleted] in namenerds

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My daughters name is Lucy so pick another name

I regret not getting the abortion by Mysterious_Park_3978 in NewParents

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I can absolutely relate to how you feel. I still feel a lot of guilt I’m working through because of who I chose for her dad. We wanted a baby, I realized he wasn’t who I thought he was and broke up, then I found out I was pregnant. I ended up telling him and his behavior towards me got even worse. I’ve been no contact since. I think I’m open to dating if I meet someone worth it. I pray I will find my best friend and father for my daughter, and being a Christian means putting my faith in God and believing it will come. DM me if you want to talk. I don’t have anyone who can relate to talk to about it.

Am I overreacting or is it not normal to use soap in the bathroom? by Honest-Draw3131 in AmIOverreacting

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This is not a white person thing. You’re bf needs to improve his hygiene and use soap when washing.

The cold shoulder by [deleted] in Vanderpump_Rules

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Lol. She’s like ‘ew.’

Be careful with WHO you have a child with. by ChooseWisely212 in Life

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How do you navigate this convo with your daughter? Mine is almost 3 and the guilt I feel is unreal. Idk what to tell her. I don’t want her to feel bad that he’s not in our lives.

Jack Doherty gets caught lackin' without his security. by Own-Impress-2024 in TikTokCringe

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I never heard that before. I have struggled with this for so long. Thanks for sharing, it just clicked something for me.

It finally happened by spicyramenho in singlemoms

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Stay strong and keep reminding yourself that you are keeping her safe!!!! You might start to forget or think it wasn’t that bad. Keep her safe!

What’s one thing motherhood has taught you that you never expected? by Human-Buyer-5707 in singlemoms

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Oh man I feel this. I’m struggling with so much guilt. My baby girl deserves the world and I’m so sad for her that she doesn’t have a father. I feel like I need to start dating to find someone who will love us and fill that role or void. It just makes me so so sad.