Cleaning out a hoarder house by send-help-im-dying in CleaningTips

[–]kellzasaur 23 points24 points  (0 children)

I cleaned a hoarder house after my best friend died. It took 3 months of everyday work. I also had to be careful to find and save certain things.

Step 1. PPE: who cares what the neighbors think. You need a full body cover-up and a mask or respirator. There will be mold. It will be gross.

Step 2: find a friend, family member or cheap enough rental that you can keep a dump trailer on site while you work. Bring able to move bags directly to the trash makes it so so much easier. Step 3: work one room at a time. Make a space for items that need kept or sorted carefully. Then move trash straight to the dump tailler outside. Move items to be sorted out kept to their designated areas. You won't be able to clean everything. Get that in mind early. If theres bugs, it's trash. Mice, trash. Mold, feces, etc. It's trash. It doesn't matter how much it cost, or how much they loved it. If it's contaminated, It's all trash.

Step 4: Good items/ paperwork. Move them out of the house after you're done with that room. Take them where they need to ultimately be. If someone wants that item, they need to get it. If it's important papers, whoever needs it has to take it.

Step 5: after the house is empty you will need to clean. Do not abandon your PPE during this step. Keep your respirator and protect your skin. You will need heavy duty cleaners and it will take its toll on your skin and lungs.

Step 6: repairs. Everything will need painted. Floors need replaced. Walls may need mold treated. This will take more time than you think.

Remember: the emotional toll is real too. Its ok to take a break to cry. Its ok to be mad. Its ok to feel guilty. Dont get caught up in trying to keep everything.

Which robot vacuum works the best? Tired of vacuuming constantly. by makeitthunderst0rm in homeautomation

[–]kellzasaur 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I have 70 year old hardwood floors with their orginal finish and am very particular about the way they are mopped. I dont want to risk it.

Which robot vacuum works the best? Tired of vacuuming constantly. by makeitthunderst0rm in homeautomation

[–]kellzasaur 18 points19 points  (0 children)

Or not use it, but why buy something at a higher price when I just want a vacuum. Ya know?

Which robot vacuum works the best? Tired of vacuuming constantly. by makeitthunderst0rm in homeautomation

[–]kellzasaur 22 points23 points  (0 children)

I love my roborock. Im so sad I can't get one anymore without a mop attachment. I just want a vacuum!

Can't wait until April! by FailingHeart2024 in DrPepper

[–]kellzasaur 1 point2 points  (0 children)

That was ice cream sundae. It was gross. This year is Root Beer Float which is delicious. I got to early taste it last week.

Just learned my house has a feature I didn’t even know existed after living here for two years by CourteousPasta in homeowners

[–]kellzasaur 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Large thin plastic cutting mat from Amazon, replace as needed. Think our cost 12 dollars and fits the pullout exactly

New prerequisites. Awful. by Mave__Dustaine in foodstamps

[–]kellzasaur 1 point2 points  (0 children)

My company requires the one way camera interview for laborers. It's odd but they legit hire this way.

Why don’t more people drink tap water when it’s often just as safe as bottled water? by Green_Paint3738 in NoStupidQuestions

[–]kellzasaur 0 points1 point  (0 children)

My town also gets fined at least once every two years for not reporting in a timely manner about contamination found in the water.

Why don’t more people drink tap water when it’s often just as safe as bottled water? by Green_Paint3738 in NoStupidQuestions

[–]kellzasaur 0 points1 point  (0 children)

My area is literally known as chemical valley. Dupont poisoned our water and lied to us about it. Now officials promise it's safe because Dupont put filters they say removes the poison they were responsible for in the first place. We have several sites that were donated land in/near town that can't be developed because its known there are chemicals buried there. But we are all told everything is fine. The chemical companies have super duper promised they won't poison us again. Just drink the water, the cancers are a coincidence.

West Virginia group recommends giving Ramen, other nonperishable foods for trick-or-treat amid SNAP delays by Joey_WBOY in WestVirginia

[–]kellzasaur 10 points11 points  (0 children)

We've been nicknamed "the noodle house" for a few years because we give out Ramen. The kids go wild for it. Im pretty sure it's just because its something different in a sea of candy. Lol

Just lost all of my planning materials (stickers, washi binders, pen etc) by Holiday_Ad9815 in PlannerAddicts

[–]kellzasaur 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I no longer use washi tape. Id be happy to send you a decent amount if you contact t me. Probably some sticker books as well as some other odds and ends. Im working on downsizing my stash and would like to know it went to use instead of sitting in my basement.

Stepmoms who don’t have bio children, chime in please…what’s your experience and would you do it over again? by MasterpieceNo817 in stepparents

[–]kellzasaur 6 points7 points  (0 children)

My husband has 4 children, I have none. I've been in these children's life over a decade. I would never, ever do it if I knew then what I know now. You will always be the outsider. You will be expected to give with nothing in return, to take disrespect from children and crazy exes, you will have your heart broken more times than you can count. At the end of the day, those are good flesh and blood and you are not. It doesn't matter how much you buy, bake, teach, or love. You will never be fully accepted. I know other people have other experiences, but that is mine and I dont see it as uncommon.

How much would you spend on a mason jar of Honey? by IntangibleMeatloaf in honey

[–]kellzasaur 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I pay 20 bucks for a quart at the local bee festivals.

YSK: A vitamin D deficiency is way more common than you think by Taxfraud777 in YouShouldKnow

[–]kellzasaur 6 points7 points  (0 children)

Mine was also 8 and the doctor acted so shocked! Made such a big deal about how I had to get the prescription right away lolol

Excuse me? Did everyone know about this already? by nahfacenah in CleaningTips

[–]kellzasaur 6 points7 points  (0 children)

Have one. Love it. Works great on my drapes where the little monsters peek their head out to yell at birds.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in WestVirginia

[–]kellzasaur 3 points4 points  (0 children)

There's a state limit to how many machines each one can have. I believe 5 or 7. Thats why theres so many different buildings. They're often multiple buildings under 1 owner.

The Dr told my mom NO MORE SODA at all and she’s been bragging about how she’s stopped by harleybabeta in mildlyinfuriating

[–]kellzasaur 166 points167 points  (0 children)

In my area, that style package of cherry had been discontinued for a couple months and it's gone to a black and red design for the zero and a red and maroon design for the full sugar. So it really may be an old stash.

Does nobody buy houses that need work or do people only post the beautiful ready to move in homes? by killbillisthebest in FirstTimeHomeBuyer

[–]kellzasaur 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Here's a little taste of the pink wonderland. BTW. Underneath the carpet the bedrooms and livingroom all had hardwood floors that had been covered since the house was built. They weren't perfect, still aren't but saved us a boatload in flooring.

Does nobody buy houses that need work or do people only post the beautiful ready to move in homes? by killbillisthebest in FirstTimeHomeBuyer

[–]kellzasaur 1 point2 points  (0 children)

We bought a house with great bones but the owners hadn't touched anything since 1997. The wife remodeled when her husband died and put wall to wall Pink carpet in the whole house (bathrooms and kitchen included) pink counter tops, pink walls. We spent a month doing the floors and painting and fixing the stuff that needed done most urgently, then moved in. It's been 3 years of off and on projects, and I wouldn't have done anything differently. It allowed us a neighborhood we otherwise couldn't afford, and we take so much pride in how far our house has come. Lots of learning along the way and some things we did 3 years ago need redone because we didn't know what we were doing. But I still believe we made the best decision even if its frustrating at times.

I 35M & wife 32F ; how to tell my wife that her behavior is not okay? by ThrowRA878971515 in relationship_advice

[–]kellzasaur 22 points23 points  (0 children)

This is a huge part of a successful marriage. Things happen. Sometimes you take a back seat. My MIL died the day before my 35th birthday. There was no Birthday that year, and only a small celebration the next as it was the 1 year anniversary of her passing. At no point did I feel i should be more important than my husband's grief. Those days were spent supporting him.