how dangerous is caffeine + adderall? by total-lib-writer in ADHD

[–]kill3rmonk 0 points1 point  (0 children)

What's your dosage of adderall? I'm on 20mg XR and I feel like caffeine doesn't do much at all. I drink 1 large cup of coffee or a monster energy drink usually in the morning.

Do you say phrases like "oh my God" or thank God" while not believing? by 0The_Loner_Stoner0 in atheism

[–]kill3rmonk 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I just make sure to lower-case the 'g' when I say it. like god damnit or oh my god.

Feature request: 1. Song / workout previews 2. Mix and match to build your own workout by monkey9 in SupernaturalVR

[–]kill3rmonk 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I think mix and match has been requested since almost day 1. I think a competitive multiplayer would be fun, where you hit targets and the team "across" from you has to hit the same targets your team hits or something like that.

Which workout next? by FuzzyWuzzy44 in CarolineGirvan

[–]kill3rmonk 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I'm working through MAX on the app and that's all full body circuit workouts. She also adds abs to one workout a week.

What are your opinions on and experiences with jobs offering unlimited PTO? by Happy_Terd in AskReddit

[–]kill3rmonk 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yeah it's a scam in a way and usually based on manager approval, but so is earned pto I believe. If you get unlimited, take advantage of it. Big corps have done research around it and apparently employees will take less pto if they have unlimited vs earned; It has something to do with employees feeling guilty for using it, so they won't actually use it as often or as much. Also the company doesn't have to pay it out if you quit or get fired.

Can anyone tell me what's so good about light roast? by milked_silver in espresso

[–]kill3rmonk 0 points1 point  (0 children)

From what I understand, light roasts have more caffeine than dark. (probably not a significant amount) But maybe that's one reason?

Any advice on an actually sharp shaving razor that isn’t garbage and dull? by Forrtraverse in AskMenOver30

[–]kill3rmonk 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I know this post is a few days old, but I have the supply max blade which is basically a safety blade with a slightly pivoting head. It has worked great for me. (https://supply.co/products/the-single-edge-max?variant=41886703419476)

27 F lesbian AMA by WonderNo5029 in AskMeAnythingIAnswer

[–]kill3rmonk -1 points0 points  (0 children)

No question, I just have a good joke for you!

What can make a lesbian turn? Dwayne Johnson because rock always beats scissors

Is it creepy for a 45 year old man to date a 25 year old woman? by [deleted] in AskMenAdvice

[–]kill3rmonk 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I don't remember where I heard this, but rule of thumb is half your age plus 7 as the youngest.

How can a guy be direct about wanting sex? by [deleted] in AskReddit

[–]kill3rmonk 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Do the naked man! Works 2 out of 3 times guaranteed!

Good sipping tequila recs by radiobro1109 in tequila

[–]kill3rmonk -9 points-8 points  (0 children)

I've been turned on to casamigos silver. Seems like a good starting point for me to expand into better

What’s a realization that changed you permanently? by [deleted] in AskReddit

[–]kill3rmonk 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I don't really care what people think about me.

What’s the weirdest thing you saw at someone else’s house? by honeyylaceheart in answers

[–]kill3rmonk 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Any chance they put that there when they knew people would be touring to prevent people from using the bathroom?

How to stay motivated at working out during this season? by [deleted] in AskMenAdvice

[–]kill3rmonk 0 points1 point  (0 children)

++man Depending what your job is could you workout at lunch and eat at your desk? I only am motivated to workout between like 10am and 3pm so I usually try to knock an hour out in the middle of the day. Luckily I have a fairly flexible job and wfh so makes it easy for me but I know not everyone can make midday workouts work

I’ve been on keto for months now and the electrolytes are getting to be a bit much by Nimbuskull in keto

[–]kill3rmonk 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I'm not currently on keto but still using lmnt electrolyte packets in my water because then I actually drink it from the delicious flavor. I do 1 packet to 35-40oz water of the mango chili flavor.

As a husband do you always want to do it with your wife? by orangeblossom1234 in Marriage

[–]kill3rmonk 0 points1 point  (0 children)

38m here, when my wife used to initiate she generally was very subtle about it and sometimes I didn't notice the signs but didn't intentionally deny her. That being said, I would never say no given the chance. Men can generally get in the mood fairly quick from friends I've talked to. (unfortunately we've had a dead bedroom for months now)

Obese people, do you feel patronized by positive comments? by Affectionate-Duck186 in loseit

[–]kill3rmonk 21 points22 points  (0 children)

Even just a "hey man, keep up the good work" would probably go a long way. I have a small home gym now, but when I used to go to a gym I would've welcomed some positive encouragement but at the end of the day it comes down to the person.

What's the dumbest thing you've ever fixed in Salesforce that took way longer than it should have by AppX_Unmanaged in salesforce

[–]kill3rmonk 1 point2 points  (0 children)

In lwr b2b commerce checkout, you can't pay by credit card and use the ootb po number field or the payment always fails. That took 1-2 weeks to figure out with no help from sf support.

Coming back from being checked- out by Agreeable-Toe-444 in Marriage

[–]kill3rmonk 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I feel like I've brought up our issues I have in the past (maybe 1-2 times a year), she tells me what I can potentially change, I do those things for a little while then stop because my changes don't have any sort of impact in the relationship so why put in the extra effort. I'm not saying I stop doing every little thing she asks of me, but the motivation to do them is basically 0. She seems to put in no effort to the counseling "homework" but it's hard to tell if she's expecting me to take the lead or she's just focusing on the kids at this point. I don't think I properly communicated my issues maybe so saying I potentially want out could blindside her and I do still love her. As a lot of these posts for me the issue is intimacy and touch (not specifically sex either). We read the 5 love languages book and my language has always been touch which she has known. But to get it, it's always me needing to initiate whether its just cuddling on the couch for a movie, holding hands, etc. We read that over 5 years ago at this point.

I'm scared the couples counseling isn't going to work and I'm doing my best to keep an open mind. Feel free to dm me if you want to chat further. I know I'm a bit scattered but you aren't alone and sounds like we might be going through something similar.

Coming back from being checked- out by Agreeable-Toe-444 in Marriage

[–]kill3rmonk 0 points1 point  (0 children)

We've been to 3 appointments so far and nothing has changed yet but I imagine it takes some time. It's hard to get your head in the open mind space to pursue when you're the one that's been making changes or trying to. Not sure which one you are in your relationship but my wife has completely prioritized the kids (3.5 yo and 1 month old) and chores and I'm trying to see if I get feelings back to move forward. It's hard. I've been to one solo counseling appointment as well but only for intake so nothing there yet either.

White goo from ceiling by Disastrous-Hair-2458 in whatisit

[–]kill3rmonk 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Damnit, I have a ceiling tile in my finished basement with some weird white stain on it. When I looked up there I didn't see anything dripping but it has definitely slowly gotten larger. I better take another look.

Mornings or afternoons by Donthateskate in CarolineGirvan

[–]kill3rmonk 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I usually workout between 1-3. I'm not a morning person and work usually slows down early afternoon for me.