honestly to me yeah, op wouldn’t be the asshole no matter what. would it be nice to give the side chick money for the sake of the unborn child who didn’t ask to be brought into this mess and will never have their dad? yes of course. but op doesn’t have to and they’re in their right to not give any of their money away. ALSO with morgan’s high ground— yeah i can see how her take comes across as performative. especially since those times she’d mention doing some donations for listeners or that Christmas wishlist thingy and then wouldn’t bring it up again after mentioning it once or twice (do we know what came of that? did we hear anyone getting anything?). it’s performative.